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Impact Theory, Find Your PURPOSE | Jay Shetty

Find Your PURPOSE | Jay Shetty

Often the advice

I give to people today is fast forward. Where you are

Look at yourself in 10 15 20 years time and ask yourself the question is

That where I want to be and if the answer's no

Then you need to find a new path to just get to understand yourself

You don't know what you need in your life until you figure out who you are

Everybody welcome to impact Theory you were here my friends because you believe that human potential is nearly limitless

But you know that having

Potential is not the same as actually doing something with it

So our goal with this show and company is to introduce you to the people and ideas that will help you

actually execute on your dreams

All right today's guest is a former monk whose wisdom has truly gone viral after finishing Business School

He turned down lucrative offers from prestigious companies shaved his head and hit the road for three years

He traveled across India Europe and England living as a monk

Studying meditating and building food and shelter programs for those in need he was definitely in love with what he was doing

But he knew that it didn't scale so driven by a desire to share what he was learning with as many people as possible

He reengaged with the world and dove headfirst into learning about the tools and techniques that might allow knowledge

To spread as fast as entertainment and to that end he joined

Accenture helping them build their digital division while learning about the forces shaping the new digital landscape he learned

fast and quickly became their number one social media influencer in a company of

400,000 people along the way he also helped advise over

150 executives on their personal brands allowing him a very broad base with which to test his theories and

Leveraging what he learned in 2016 he launched his own Facebook page and it

exploded in less than 12 months his inspiring entertaining and highly useful videos garnered over 1

Billion views and now he has north of 2.5 million followers. Globally he makes content

Not only for his own pages

But for places like the Huffington Post and he has interviewed such luminaries as Tim Ferriss simon Sinek dr.

Shefali Deepak Chopra and countless others in the wake of his

ridiculous level of success as both a content creator and digital strategist

He was named to Forbes 30 under 30 list in 2017 the Asian media Awards named his blog best blog in

2016 and he was added to national

Geographics chasing genius counsel for which he is now helping to source solutions to some of the world's greatest challenges

So please help me in welcoming the urban monk himself the man who is proving that you really can scale impact

Jay Shetty

Thanks for having me dude truly honor oh, man. Thank you goes both ways so as I was telling you before

We started rolling in my research like I normally just go watch all the interviews that people have done

And I've come across you like a million times and researching other people so I thought well this would be the easiest thing ever

Like this guy would have been interviewed a hundred times

And you haven't like it's insane to me like you're pumping out so much content

Nobody's nabbed you up yet, so this is gonna

Be really fun to really go deep your ideas are clearly very well

Thought through so there should be a lot of fun Thank You Man

Yeah, I'm patient yeah patient of having the right interview's the right time

being with the right people

Having it be framed correctly, so I'm very honored to be a huge fan of the show. Thank you

Thank you so much for having me absolutely so one thing. I want to talk about obviously

Having lived in London knowing a little bit about what it's like to grow up as an Indian kid in England

How on earth did you buck the trend of you once said growing up in in an Indian household

You're either a doctor or a lawyer or a failure? yes, that's right that's right So

How like how'd you not fall prey to that yeah?

Those are my three options that was it there was no full option so according to my parents family or their community

I grew up in I'm a failure. That's crazy and

How did I buck the trend I was really really fortunate?

That very early on I started to experiment with what mattered to me sometimes. I got me in a lot of trouble

What people don't know about me is that I was suspended from school three times for

Trying out all sorts of things like things that people would never imagine if someone who goes on to be a monk. I was X

Anything with all the drugs in the world. I had multiple relationships. I was really trying to search for some sort of meaning

Fulfillment and as far as long as I've known I've been chasing thrill

I really value thrill and feeling like it might not see that coming

Ya know not many people do it's it's very different from 14 to 18

I was like this kid who just wanted to find new things out and

My parents rhetoric would always be well make sure you get good grades

And I used to think well if I can be bad and get good grades, and then it's all works

why everyone's happy so that's that's kind of what I did and

At 18. I was really fortunate when I met a monk

and this monk was invited to speak and

I kind of just went because one of my friends forced me to at that time

I was missing two CEOs

and entrepreneurs and

business people and marketers who who I thought that's what I was aspiring to be like and then I hear this monk and

He captivated me like no one had ever captivated me before

It was like staring at the most beautiful woman on the planet. You know I was completely fixated on him and his message and

That is the beginning without going into too much detail before we probe

That was the beginning of what changed

me

because I went from being someone who did only want all those things to become successful and

Trying to but I started hearing my own inner voice

Much more in all that noise that I had around me

I Remember one of my my parents had a math's tutor for me because they wanted to be amazing at math and I was I was

Pretty good at numbers

and I'd have this tutor and he'd tell me that he goes the reason that you're struggling with the next question

is because you're always worried about what your parents think and

And that really stayed in my head

I was just like wow so as long as I'm trapped by what my parents think

I can actually never find the answers to the real questions of life, and there are all these little things happening

I lost two great friends when I was 16 one girl died in a car accident

One guy died because he was involved in drugs and violence that

That made me rethink everything. I just thought to myself wait a minute these were beautiful people

people that I loved

People that in my opinion were good people, and I just lost them in a moment

And it was kind of like this collation of little things that just made me think wait a minute having money having Fame

this that

Just doesn't seem to add up and then and then meeting the monk kind of made that shift possible and as I said he was

Completely captivating and then I found out that he'd given up jobs in Google and Microsoft to be a monk

And I thought to myself who does that you know? He's given up everything that I'm chasing and that all my friends are chasing

But he seems happier than anyone. I've ever met before and he spoke about this incredible principle where he said that we should plant

trees

Under whose shade we do not plan to sit

And he was speaking about this principle of selfless sacrifice and that kind of just

Penetrated me right there when he said the words

Selfless sacrifice for the first time in my life, I felt a thrill about something that I'd never felt before it'll Wow

Giving up everything you have for the service of others

sounds like the best thing you could possibly do and I don't know why I had that thought because I wasn't a

Spiritual kid growing up. I wasn't a religious kid growing up. I wasn't even a good kid growing up

I was just a rebel a misfit trying things out and

Experimental which I still consider myself and so what I started to do is I was interning

At companies and firms and corporates thinking I was getting a grad job afterwards

And then I'd spend the rest of my summer holidays interning in India living with him as a monk

So I'd use all my summer and Christmas holidays to just be out there with the monks

And he introduced me to another 200 to 500 monks that were just like him just as smart just as bright

giving up everything they had and using all their skills to make the world a better place I

want to go back yeah, so

So why that resonated with you?

Which is really surprising so and maybe you're just you know so far ahead of where I was at the time

But that would have sounded absurd to me at that time yeah

Did you already have a sense of unease that like I'm a rebel without a cause or like?

What was it about that moment and you you you seem very aware of yourself?

So I'm hoping that some of that awareness was present then like what was that?

moment I

believe the moment was I was I always had friends who are older than me and

I could see a lot of them in the most successful careers successful jobs

Beautiful partners whatever it was but I saw a sense of lack of fulfillment meaning and purpose in their lives

and

I've always been an observer and I would see these people or like five years older than me seven years older than me maybe ten

Years older than me, and I'd be watching them and go is that the life. I want and often the advice

I give to people today is

Fast-forward where you are look at yourself in 10 15 20 years time and ask yourself the question is that where I want to be

If you're in a company look at the person who's 20 years ahead of you and ask yourself is that where I want to be

If you're in a start-up look at what other startups have got to in similar roles

And go is that where I want to be and if the answer's no

Then you need to find a new part and for me the answer at that time

from observing was know the path that my parents or

Society or the university I went to or the community. I had that was carving out for me

it didn't feel like the path for me, so I was almost seeking an

alternative or a new path

I was just so

Fortunate that it happened to be enough lifting powerful paths as opposed to something that could have actually taken me down the wrong road

Because that could've been possible too - so walk me through the first time you step off the plane in India

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Often the advice Den Rat, den ich heute oft den Leuten gebe, ist sehr direkt. Often the advice Con frecuencia el consejo Thường tôi cho lời khuyên là tua nhanh hiện tại, nhìn bản thân sau thời gian 5, 10, 15 năm sau và tự hỏi :"Mình có muốn thành quả này không?"

I give to people today is fast forward. Where you are Doy a la gente hoy es un avance rápido. Dónde estás Я даю людям сегодня - это быстрая перемотка вперед. Где вы находитесь Danes dam ljudem je hitro naprej. Kje si 我今天给人们的是快进。你在哪里

Look at yourself in 10 15 20 years time and ask yourself the question is Посмотрите на себя через 10 15 20 лет и задайте себе вопрос, является ли

That where I want to be and if the answer's no Там, где я хочу быть, и если ответ "нет".

Then you need to find a new path to just get to understand yourself Entonces necesitas encontrar un nuevo camino para llegar a entenderte a ti mismo.

You don't know what you need in your life until you figure out who you are bis du herausgefunden hast, wer du bist. Вы не знаете, что вам нужно в жизни, пока не поймете, кто вы такой Bạn không biết bạn cần gì trong cuộc sống của bạn đến khi bạn biết bạn là ai.

Everybody welcome to impact Theory you were here my friends because you believe that human potential is nearly limitless Todos bienvenidos a la Teoría del impacto. Estuvieron aquí mis amigos porque creen que el potencial humano es casi ilimitado. Всех приветствую в Теории воздействия Вы оказались здесь, мои друзья, потому что верите, что человеческий потенциал практически безграничен Chào mọi người. Chào mừng bạn đến Impact Theory. Bạn đến đây bởi vì bạn tin rằng tiềm năng của người gần như vô hạn nhưng biết là một chuyện, thực hiện là chuyện khác.

But you know that having Pero sabes que tener

Potential is not the same as actually doing something with it nicht das gleiche ist, wie etwas daraus zu machen. Unser Ziel mit dieser Show und dem Unternehmen Potencial no es lo mismo que realmente hacer algo con él Потенциал - это не то же самое, что реальные действия с ним

So our goal with this show and company is to introduce you to the people and ideas that will help you Entonces, nuestro objetivo con este programa y compañía es presentarle a las personas y las ideas que lo ayudarán. Vì vậy mục tiêu với chương trình và công ty của chúng tôi là giới thiệu bạn những người và ý tưởng sẽ giúp bạn đạt được mơ ước của bạn.

actually execute on your dreams realmente ejecuta tus sueños реально реализовывать свои мечты

All right today's guest is a former monk whose wisdom has truly gone viral after finishing Business School Итак, сегодняшний гость - бывший монах, чья мудрость стала поистине вирусной после окончания бизнес-школы. Khách hôm nay của chúng tôi là một cựu tu sĩ, thật sự lan truyền những bài học nhớ đời. Sau khi hoàn thành ngành kinh doanh, anh ta từ chối cơ hội sinh lợi từ những công ty uy tín, cạo đầu và lên đường.

He turned down lucrative offers from prestigious companies shaved his head and hit the road for three years seinen Kopf kahlrasierte und hat sich auf den Weg gemacht. Rechazó lucrativas ofertas de prestigiosas empresas, se afeitó la cabeza y salió a la carretera durante tres años. Он отказался от выгодных предложений от престижных компаний, побрился налысо и отправился в путь на три года 他拒绝了知名公司的丰厚邀请,剃了光头,开始了三年的路

He traveled across India Europe and England living as a monk Für drei Jahre ist er quer durch Indien, Europa und England gereist, während er als Mönch gelebt hat, Viajó por la India, Europa e Inglaterra viviendo como monje.

Studying meditating and building food and shelter programs for those in need he was definitely in love with what he was doing Estudiando, meditando y creando programas de alimentación y refugio para los necesitados, definitivamente estaba enamorado de lo que estaba haciendo. Изучая медитацию и создавая программы питания и жилья для нуждающихся, он определенно был влюблен в то, что делал.

But he knew that it didn't scale so driven by a desire to share what he was learning with as many people as possible Getrieben von dem Wunsch zu teilen, was er gelernt hat mit so vielen Leuten wie möglich, Pero sabía que no escalaba tan impulsado por el deseo de compartir lo que estaba aprendiendo con tantas personas como fuera posible. Но он знал, что это не масштабно, поэтому им двигало желание поделиться тем, что он узнал, с как можно большим количеством людей. 但他知道,它并没有因为想要与尽可能多的人分享他所学的东西而扩大规模

He reengaged with the world and dove headfirst into learning about the tools and techniques that might allow knowledge Er beschäftigte sich wieder mit der Welt und tauchte kopfüber in das Lernen über die Werkzeuge und Techniken ein, die Wissen ermöglichen könnten Volvió a relacionarse con el mundo y se lanzó de lleno a aprender sobre las herramientas y técnicas que podrían permitir el conocimiento. 他重新融入世界,并一头扎进学习可能使知识得以实现的工具和技术

To spread as fast as entertainment and to that end he joined Sich so schnell wie Unterhaltung zu verbreiten und zu diesem Zweck schloss er sich an Para difundir tan rápido como el entretenimiento y con ese fin se unió распространяться так же быстро, как и развлечения, и с этой целью он присоединился к Eğlenceyi olabildiğince hızlı yaymak ve bu amaçla

Accenture helping them build their digital division while learning about the forces shaping the new digital landscape he learned während er sich über die Kräfte informierte, die die neue digitale Landschaft prägen. Accenture ayudándolos a construir su división digital mientras aprende sobre las fuerzas que dan forma al nuevo panorama digital que aprendió. Accenture, помогая им создавать свое цифровое подразделение и изучая силы, формирующие новый цифровой ландшафт, он узнал, что Accenture'ın dijital bölümlerini kurmalarına yardımcı olurken bir yandan da yeni dijital ortamı şekillendiren güçler hakkında bilgi edindi 埃森哲帮助他们建立数字部门,同时了解塑造他学到的新数字格局的力量

fast and quickly became their number one social media influencer in a company of Er hat schnell gelernt und wurde schnell die Nummer eins als Social Media Influencer rápida y rápidamente se convirtió en su influenciador número uno en las redes sociales en una empresa de

400,000 people along the way he also helped advise over in einem Unternehmen mit 400,000 Leuten. Auf seinem Weg half er auch dabei, 400.000 personas en el camino también ayudó a asesorar sobre

150 executives on their personal brands allowing him a very broad base with which to test his theories and was ihm eine sehr breite Basis ermöglichte, mit der er seine Theorien testen konnte 150 ejecutivos sobre sus marcas personales permitiéndole una base muy amplia con la que probar sus teorías y 150 yöneticinin kişisel markaları üzerine teorilerini test etmek için çok geniş bir tabana sahip olmasını sağladı. 150 名高管的个人品牌让他有一个非常广泛的基础来检验他的理论和

Leveraging what he learned in 2016 he launched his own Facebook page and it und nutzte das, was er 2016 gelernt hatte, um seine eigene Facebook-Seite zu eröffnen 2016'da öğrendiklerinden yararlanarak kendi Facebook sayfasını açtı ve Năm 2016, anh ta để khởi trang Facebook của anh ta và bùng nổ trong chưa đến 12 tháng, những video truyền cảm hứng, giải trí và có ích thu hút hơn 1 triệu lượt xem và bây giờ tiếp cận 2,5 triệu người theo dõi toàn cầu.

exploded in less than 12 months his inspiring entertaining and highly useful videos garnered over 1 explodierte in weniger als 12 Monaten seine inspirierenden, unterhaltsamen und äußerst nützlichen Videos, die über 1 explotó en menos de 12 meses, sus videos inspiradores, entretenidos y muy útiles obtuvieron más de 1 ilham verici, eğlenceli ve son derece faydalı videoları 12 aydan kısa bir sürede patlayarak 1 在不到 12 个月的时间里,他鼓舞人心的娱乐性和非常有用的视频获得了超过 1

Billion views and now he has north of 2.5 million followers. Globally he makes content Milliarden Aufrufe und jetzt hat er über 2,5 Millionen Follower. Er macht weltweit Inhalte Miles de millones de visitas y ahora tiene más de 2,5 millones de seguidores. Globalmente hace contenido Milyarlarca kez görüntülendi ve şu anda 2,5 milyon takipçisi var. Küresel olarak içerik üretiyor

Not only for his own pages Nicht nur für seine eigenen Seiten Sadece kendi sayfaları için değil

But for places like the Huffington Post and he has interviewed such luminaries as Tim Ferriss simon Sinek dr. Aber für Orte wie die Huffington Post und er hat Koryphäen wie Tim Ferriss, Simon Sinek, Dr. Pero para lugares como el Huffington Post y él ha entrevistado a luminarias como Tim Ferriss simon Sinek dr. Ancak Huffington Post gibi yerler için Tim Ferriss, Simon Sinek ve dr.

Shefali Deepak Chopra and countless others in the wake of his Shefali Deepak Chopra und unzählige andere in seinem Gefolge Shefali Deepak Chopra y muchos otros a raíz de su Shefali Deepak Chopra ve sayısız kişi onun ardından

ridiculous level of success as both a content creator and digital strategist lächerlicher Erfolg als Inhaltsersteller und digitaler Stratege nivel ridículo de éxito como creador de contenido y estratega digital 作为内容创作者和数字战略家的成功程度可笑

He was named to Forbes 30 under 30 list in 2017 the Asian media Awards named his blog best blog in Er wurde 2017 in die Forbes 30 under 30-Liste aufgenommen, die Asian Media Awards kürten seinen Blog zum besten Blog in 他在 2017 年亚洲媒体大奖中入选福布斯 30 under 30 榜单,将他的博客评为最佳博客

2016 and he was added to national er wurde er in den National Geographic CHASING GENIUS Council berufen, 2016 y se sumó a nacional

Geographics chasing genius counsel for which he is now helping to source solutions to some of the world's greatest challenges für den er nun hilft nach Lösungen für einige der größten Herausforderungen der Welt zu suchen. 地理追逐天才顾问,他现在正在帮助寻找解决世界上一些最大挑战的方法

So please help me in welcoming the urban monk himself the man who is proving that you really can scale impact Also bitte, helft mir den städtischen Mönchen selbst, der Mann, der beweist, dass man die Wirkung wirklich skalieren kann, Así que, por favor, ayúdenme a darle la bienvenida al propio monje urbano, el hombre que está demostrando que realmente puede escalar el impacto. Vì thế, cùng tôi chào mừng tu sĩ đô thị, người có thể chứng minh rằng bạn có thể tạo nên sự khác biệt, Jay Shetty. 所以请帮助我欢迎这位城市僧侣本人,他证明了你真的可以扩大影响力

Jay Shetty Jay Shetty.

Thanks for having me dude truly honor oh, man. Thank you goes both ways so as I was telling you before Gracias por hacerme amigo, verdaderamente honor, oh, hombre. Gracias va en ambos sentidos como te decía antes Beni ağırladığın için teşekkürler dostum. Daha önce de söylediğim gibi, her iki tarafa da teşekkür ederim. 谢谢你让我真正感到荣幸哦,伙计。谢谢你是双向的,就像我之前告诉你的那样

We started rolling in my research like I normally just go watch all the interviews that people have done normalerweise würde ich mir alle Interviews ansehen, die die Leute gemacht haben. Comenzamos a rodar en mi investigación como si normalmente fuera a ver todas las entrevistas que la gente ha hecho. Normalde insanların yaptığı tüm röportajları izlediğim gibi araştırmama başladık 我们开始进行我的研究,就像我通常只是去看人们所做的所有采访一样

And I've come across you like a million times and researching other people so I thought well this would be the easiest thing ever Y me he encontrado contigo como un millón de veces e investigando a otras personas, así que pensé que esto sería lo más fácil del mundo. 而且我遇到过你一百万次并研究其他人所以我认为这将是有史以来最简单的事情

Like this guy would have been interviewed a hundred times dass dieser Mann schon 100 Mal interviewt wurde, aber das ist nicht der Fall. Como si este tipo hubiera sido entrevistado cien veces.

And you haven't like it's insane to me like you're pumping out so much content Für mich ist das wahnsinnig, du gibst so viel Content. Y no te ha gustado, es una locura para mí que estés sacando tanto contenido Nhưng thật ra là không. Thật khó tin đối với tôi vì anh mang tầm ảnh hưởng rất nhiều nhưng vẫn chưa ai bắt anh lại. 而且你不喜欢这对我来说很疯狂,就像你抽出这么多内容一样

Nobody's nabbed you up yet, so this is gonna Bis jetzt hat dich noch niemand geschnappt, also wird es wirklich Spaß machen, wirklich tief zu gehen. Nadie te atrapó todavía, así que esto va a

Be really fun to really go deep your ideas are clearly very well Ser muy divertido para profundizar realmente tus ideas son claramente muy buenas

Thought through so there should be a lot of fun Thank You Man Pensado detenidamente, por lo que debería haber mucha diversión. Gracias, hombre.

Yeah, I'm patient yeah patient of having the right interview's the right time

being with the right people mit den richtigen Leuten zu sein,

Having it be framed correctly, so I'm very honored to be a huge fan of the show. Thank you es richtig rahmen zu lassen. Ich bin sehr geehrt, ein großer Fan dieser Show zu sein. Tenerlo enmarcado correctamente, así que me siento muy honrado de ser un gran fanático del programa. Gracias 正确地构图,所以我很荣幸成为该节目的忠实粉丝。谢谢

Thank you so much for having me absolutely so one thing. I want to talk about obviously Muchas gracias por tenerme absolutamente tan una cosa. quiero hablar de obviamente

Having lived in London knowing a little bit about what it's like to grow up as an Indian kid in England weiß ich es ein bisschen wie es ist als indisches Kind in England aufzuwachsen. Haber vivido en Londres sabiendo un poco sobre cómo es crecer como un niño indio en Inglaterra.

How on earth did you buck the trend of you once said growing up in in an Indian household Wie um alles in der Welt, hast du dich gegen den Trend gewandt, du hast mal gesagt, in einem indischen Haushalt aufzuwachsen, ¿Cómo diablos te resististe a la tendencia de que una vez dijiste que crecías en un hogar indio? 你到底是如何逆潮流而行的 你曾经说过在印度家庭长大

You're either a doctor or a lawyer or a failure? yes, that's right that's right So ist, dass du entweder ein Doktor, oder ein Anwalt oder ein Versager bist? Ja, das ist richtig, ja. ¿Eres médico o abogado o un fracasado? sí, así es eso es así

How like how'd you not fall prey to that yeah? Wie kommt es, dass du dem nicht zum Opfer fällst? ¿Cómo no fuiste presa de eso, sí? 你怎么不成为那个的牺牲品是的?

Those are my three options that was it there was no full option so according to my parents family or their community Esas son mis tres opciones, es decir, no había una opción completa, así que de acuerdo con la familia de mis padres o su comunidad.

I grew up in I'm a failure. That's crazy and Das ist verrückt. Crecí en Soy un fracaso. eso es una locura y Ghê.

How did I buck the trend I was really really fortunate? ¿Cómo me resistí a la tendencia? ¿Tuve mucha suerte?

That very early on I started to experiment with what mattered to me sometimes. I got me in a lot of trouble was mir bedeutet. Ich habe mich in große Schwierigkeiten gebracht. Que desde muy temprano comencé a experimentar con lo que a veces me importaba. me metí en muchos problemas Đôi lúc tôi mắc phải nhiều rắc rối.

What people don't know about me is that I was suspended from school three times for Was Leute von mir nicht wissen ist, dass ich dreimal von der Schule suspendiert worden bin, Thứ nhiều người không biết về tôi là tôi bị đình chỉ ở trường 3 lần với đủ thứ lý do, chẳng hạn như thứ không ai lường rằng một người trước khi trở thành tu sĩ trải nghiệm qua đủ thứ loại ma túy.

Trying out all sorts of things like things that people would never imagine if someone who goes on to be a monk. I was X Probar todo tipo de cosas como cosas que la gente nunca imaginaría si alguien se convirtiera en monje. yo era x

Anything with all the drugs in the world. I had multiple relationships. I was really trying to search for some sort of meaning Cualquier cosa con todas las drogas del mundo. Tuve múltiples relaciones. Realmente estaba tratando de buscar algún tipo de significado

Fulfillment and as far as long as I've known I've been chasing thrill Und so lange ich weiß, habe ich Nervenkitzel gejagt. Ich schätze den Nervenkitzel sehr und das Gefühl. Cumplimiento y, desde que tengo conocimiento, he estado persiguiendo emociones Nhưng tôi chỉ biết tôi mạo hiểm.

I really value thrill and feeling like it might not see that coming Das habe ich nicht erwartet. Tôi thích mạo hiểm. Jay: Và cảm giác như... Tom: Tôi thật không ngờ đến.

Ya know not many people do it's it's very different from 14 to 18 Ja, das machen nicht viele. Es ist sehr unterschiedlich. Von 14 bis 18 war ich das Kind,

I was like this kid who just wanted to find new things out and

My parents rhetoric would always be well make sure you get good grades Và khuôn mẫu của phụ huynh là tôi phải đảm bảo được điểm cao. 我父母的花言巧语总是会确保你取得好成绩

And I used to think well if I can be bad and get good grades, and then it's all works Thế thì tôi nghĩ rằng nếu tôi quậy phá và có điểm cao thì không sao.

why everyone's happy so that's that's kind of what I did and So das ist, was ich so in der Art gemacht habe. por qué todos están felices así que eso es lo que hice y Mọi người đều vui. Đó là điều tôi hay làm.

At 18. I was really fortunate when I met a monk Mit 18 war ich sehr glücklich, als ich einen Mönch traf und dieser Mönch wurde eingeladen zu sprechen. A los 18. Tuve mucha suerte cuando conocí a un monje. Vào tuổi 18, tôi rất may mắn gặp được một tu sĩ.

and this monk was invited to speak and Vị tu sĩ này được mời đến để thuyết giảng và tôi chỉ tham gia vì một người bạn ép tôi.

I kind of just went because one of my friends forced me to at that time Und ich ging, weil einer meiner Freunde mich zwang. Zu dieser Zeit, Simplemente fui porque uno de mis amigos me obligó en ese momento.

I was missing two CEOs hörte ich CEOs und Entrepreneurs und Geschäftsleuten und Marketingfachmännern zu, Me faltaban dos directores ejecutivos

and entrepreneurs and

business people and marketers who who I thought that's what I was aspiring to be like and then I hear this monk and bei denen ich dachte, dass ist, was ich sein wollte. Und dann hörte ich diesen Mönch. Rồi tôi nghe tu sĩ này.

He captivated me like no one had ever captivated me before Und er hat mich gefesselt, wie mich noch niemand zuvor gefesselt hat. Và vị này thu hút tôi như chưa ai từng làm được thế.

It was like staring at the most beautiful woman on the planet. You know I was completely fixated on him and his message and Es war wie, die schönste Frau auf dem Planeten anzustarren. Ich war völlig fixiert auf ihn und seine Message. Era como mirar a la mujer más hermosa del planeta. Sabes que estaba completamente obsesionado con él y su mensaje y Giống như ngắm một người mẫu thế giới vậy, tôi hoàn toàn bị lối cuốn bởi anh ta và thông điệp.

That is the beginning without going into too much detail before we probe Und das ist der Anfang ohne zu viel ins Detail zu gehen, bevor wir das gründlicher durchsprechen. Đó là khởi đầu ngắn gọn trước khi ta đi sâu vào.

That was the beginning of what changed Das war der Anfang, von dem was mich verändert hat, Đó là khởi đầu của xoay chuyển cuộc sống của tôi.

me

because I went from being someone who did only want all those things to become successful and Bởi vì tôi vốn dĩ là người mơ ước và cố gắng có được mọi thứ để được gọi là thành đạt. 因为我不再是一个只希望所有这些事情都成功的人

Trying to but I started hearing my own inner voice versuchte, aber ich habe meine eigene innerliche Stimme

Much more in all that noise that I had around me viel mehr in diesem ganzen Lärm, den ich um mich herum hatte. Mucho más en todo ese ruido que tenía a mi alrededor 更多的是我周围的噪音

I Remember one of my my parents had a math's tutor for me because they wanted to be amazing at math and I was I was Ich erinnere mich daran, dass meine Eltern einen Mathelehrer für mich hatten, weil sie wollten das ich spitze in Mathe bin und ich war ziemlich gut in Zahlen. Tôi nhớ phụ huynh của tôi mời gia sư toán đến bởi họ muốn tôi giỏi toán.

Pretty good at numbers Und ich hatte diesen Lehrer, der sagte, “Der Grund, warum du kämpfst mit der nächsten Frage Tôi cũng khá giỏi khi gia sư đến kèm và ông ta nói nguyên nhân tôi bí ở câu tiếp theo là bởi vì tôi luôn lo lắng về những thứ phụ huynh tôi nghĩ.

and I'd have this tutor and he'd tell me that he goes the reason that you're struggling with the next question Und ich hatte diesen Lehrer, der sagte, “Der Grund, warum du kämpfst mit der nächsten Frage y tendría este tutor y me diría que él es el motivo por el que estás luchando con la siguiente pregunta 我会有这个导师,他会告诉我他会说你在为下一个问题而苦苦挣扎的原因

is because you're always worried about what your parents think and ist, weil du dir immer Sorgen machst, was deine Eltern denken.” Und das ist wirklich in meinem Kopf geblieben.

And that really stayed in my head Y eso realmente se quedó en mi cabeza Thế là tôi nhớ đến bây giờ, và ngộ ra "Hễ tôi mất tập trung bởi họ suy nghĩ gì, tôi không bao giờ có thể thật sự tìm được câu trả lời cho câu hỏi quan trọng trong cuộc sống."

I was just like wow so as long as I'm trapped by what my parents think Estaba como guau, así que mientras esté atrapado por lo que piensan mis padres

I can actually never find the answers to the real questions of life, and there are all these little things happening De hecho, nunca puedo encontrar las respuestas a las preguntas reales de la vida, y están sucediendo todas estas pequeñas cosas.

I lost two great friends when I was 16 one girl died in a car accident Perdí a dos grandes amigos cuando tenía 16 años, una niña murió en un accidente automovilístico.

One guy died because he was involved in drugs and violence that

That made me rethink everything. I just thought to myself wait a minute these were beautiful people

people that I loved

People that in my opinion were good people, and I just lost them in a moment Leute, die meiner Meinung nach gut waren und ich habe sie einfach in einem Moment verloren.

And it was kind of like this collation of little things that just made me think wait a minute having money having Fame Y fue algo así como esta recopilación de pequeñas cosas que me hicieron pensar, espera un minuto, tener dinero, tener fama. Chuyện này có nét tương đồng ở việc có tiền, có tiếng, này nọ không có vẻ đúng đắn. 这有点像这些小事的整理让我觉得等一下有钱有名望

this that

Just doesn't seem to add up and then and then meeting the monk kind of made that shift possible and as I said he was Und dann das Treffen mit dem Mönch, machte den Shift möglich und wie ich gesagt habe, Simplemente no parece cuadrar y luego y luego conocer al monje hizo posible ese cambio y, como dije, él estaba

Completely captivating and then I found out that he'd given up jobs in Google and Microsoft to be a monk er war völlig fesselnd. Und dann habe ich herausgefunden, dass er Jobs bei Google und Microsoft aufgegeben hat, Completamente cautivador y luego descubrí que había dejado trabajos en Google y Microsoft para ser monje.

And I thought to myself who does that you know? He's given up everything that I'm chasing and that all my friends are chasing Und ich habe mich selbst gefragt, Wer macht sowas? Er hat alles aufgegeben, dass ich und all meine Freunde werden möchte. Y pensé para mis adentros, ¿quién hace eso, sabes? Ha renunciado a todo lo que estoy persiguiendo y que todos mis amigos están persiguiendo Thế là tôi nghĩ ai mà làm thế? Anh ta từ bỏ mọi thứ mà tôi và bạn của tôi đều theo đuổi nhưng anh ta có vẻ hạnh phục hơn bất kỳ ai tôi từng gặp.

But he seems happier than anyone. I've ever met before and he spoke about this incredible principle where he said that we should plant Pero parece más feliz que nadie. que he conocido antes y él habló sobre este increíble principio donde dijo que debemos plantar

trees

Under whose shade we do not plan to sit Bajo cuya sombra no planeamos sentarnos Pod čigar senco ne nameravamo sedeti 我们不打算坐在谁的树荫下

And he was speaking about this principle of selfless sacrifice and that kind of just Und er sprach über dieses Prinzip der Selbstaufopferung und das Y él estaba hablando sobre este principio de sacrificio desinteresado y ese tipo de

Penetrated me right there when he said the words drang in mich ein, als er die Worte sagte, Selbstaufopferung.

Selfless sacrifice for the first time in my life, I felt a thrill about something that I'd never felt before it'll Wow Für das erste Mal in meinem Leben, war ich begeistert von etwas, das ich noch nie zuvor gefühlt hatte. Lần đầu tiên trên đời tôi cảm thấy rung động về một thứ tôi chưa từng cảm nhận qua.

Giving up everything you have for the service of others Und ich dachte, Wow, alles aufzugeben, was du hast, für den Dienst für andere, Renunciar a todo lo que tienes por el servicio de los demás. Tôi nghĩ, "Ồ, từ bỏ mọi thứ anh có đổi lấy giúp đỡ người khác có vẻ như một điều tốt nhất mà bạn có thể làm."

sounds like the best thing you could possibly do and I don't know why I had that thought because I wasn't a

Spiritual kid growing up. I wasn't a religious kid growing up. I wasn't even a good kid growing up Ich war kein religiöses Kind, als ich aufwuchs. Ich war sogar kein gutes Kind, als ich aufwuchs. Niño espiritual creciendo. Yo no era un niño religioso mientras crecía. Ni siquiera fui un buen niño creciendo

I was just a rebel a misfit trying things out and Ich war einfach nur ein Rebelle, ein Aussenseiter, der Sachen ausprobierte Tôi chỉ là một đứa phá hoại, lạc loài, làm đủ thứ chuyện để trải nghiệm. Ngay cả bây giờ tôi vẫn cho là thế.

Experimental which I still consider myself and so what I started to do is I was interning

At companies and firms and corporates thinking I was getting a grad job afterwards und Firmen arbeitete und dachte, dass ich nachher einen guten Job bekomme. En compañías y firmas y corporaciones pensando que después obtendría un trabajo de posgrado 在公司,公司和公司认为我之后会找到一份毕业工作

And then I'd spend the rest of my summer holidays interning in India living with him as a monk Und dann verbrachte ich den Rest meiner Sommerferien als Praktikant in Indien und lebte mit ihm als Mönch.

So I'd use all my summer and Christmas holidays to just be out there with the monks Ich habe all meine Sommer- und Weihnachtsferien genutzt, um dort als Mönch zu leben Tất cả kỳ nghỉ tôi đều giành thời gian vào tu dưỡng.

And he introduced me to another 200 to 500 monks that were just like him just as smart just as bright Anh ta giới thiệu tôi 200 đến 500 vị tu sĩ khác cũng như anh ấy, thông minh, sáng suốt, từ bỏ mọi thứ và dùng mọi kỹ năng để cống hiến thế giới thành một nơi tốt hơn.

giving up everything they had and using all their skills to make the world a better place I das sie hatten und benutzten ihre Fähigkeiten, um die Welt einen besseren Ort zu machen.

want to go back yeah, so Ich möchte zurückgehen. Ja. Tôi muốn trở lại một chút

So why that resonated with you? Warum hat das bei dir Anklang gefunden? Was wirklich überraschend ist Tom: Nguyên nhân anh nghe tiếng bên trong vọng đến thật bất ngờ vì chắc hẳn anh định hướng được bản thân của anh trong tương lai nhưng lý luận như thế thì hơi không có lý, nhất là ngay lúc đó. Jay: Phải.

Which is really surprising so and maybe you're just you know so far ahead of where I was at the time

But that would have sounded absurd to me at that time yeah Ampak to bi se mi takrat zdelo absurdno, ja

Did you already have a sense of unease that like I'm a rebel without a cause or like? ¿Ya tuviste una sensación de malestar de que soy un rebelde sin causa o como? Lúc đó, anh có cảm giác khó chịu như "Tôi là lưu manh không lý do" hoặc

What was it about that moment and you you you seem very aware of yourself? Oder was war das für ein Moment und du scheinst dir deiner selbst sehr bewusst zu sein? ¿Qué fue de ese momento y tú te pareces muy consciente de ti mismo? Khoảng khắc lúc đó như thế nào vì anh có vẻ nhận thức rõ về bản thân. Tôi hi vọng rằng yếu tố đó tồn tại. Vậy điều gì đã xảy ra?

So I'm hoping that some of that awareness was present then like what was that? So ich hoffe, dass dieses Bewusstsein auch schon damals präsent war. Was war das für ein Moment?

moment I

believe the moment was I was I always had friends who are older than me and Yếu tố là tôi tin rằng tôi luôn có bạn lớn tuổi hơn.

I could see a lot of them in the most successful careers successful jobs ich konnte die meisten sehen in ihren erfolgreichsten Karrieren, erfolgreichsten Jobs, Tôi thấy họ làm việc trong công ty lớn, công việc lương cao, hẹn hò đẹp đôi, vâng vâng nhưng tôi thấy họ cảm giác thiếu bổn phận, ý nghĩa và mục đích trong cuộc sống của họ.

Beautiful partners whatever it was but I saw a sense of lack of fulfillment meaning and purpose in their lives großartigen Partner, was auch immer es war. Aber ich sah ein Gefühl von Mangel an Erfüllung, Sinn und Zweck in ihrem Leben. Hermosas parejas, sea lo que sea, pero vi una sensación de falta de significado y propósito en sus vidas.

and Ich war schon immer ein Beobachter und ich würde diese Leute sehen, die fünf, sieben, vielleicht zehn Jahre Và tôi luôn quan sát và thấy những người lớn hơn tôi 5, 7 hoặc 10 tuổi và hỏi bản thân rằng liệu đây có phải cuộc sống tôi muốn. Thường lời khuyên tôi cho mọi người thời này là tua nhanh hiện tại, nhìn bản thân vào 10, 15 và 20 năm sau, đặt hỏi rằng liệu đây là tương lai tôi muốn.

I've always been an observer and I would see these people or like five years older than me seven years older than me maybe ten Và tôi luôn quan sát và thấy những người lớn hơn tôi 5, 7 hoặc 10 tuổi và hỏi bản thân rằng liệu đây có phải cuộc sống tôi muốn. Thường lời khuyên tôi cho mọi người thời này là tua nhanh hiện tại, nhìn bản thân vào 10, 15 và 20 năm sau, đặt hỏi rằng liệu đây là tương lai tôi muốn.

Years older than me, and I'd be watching them and go is that the life. I want and often the advice älter als ich sind. Und ich würde sie beobachten und mich fragen, Ist das das Leben, das ich haben möchte?

I give to people today is Und den Rat, den ich oft den Leuten heute gebe, ist sehr direkt.

Fast-forward where you are look at yourself in 10 15 20 years time and ask yourself the question is that where I want to be Wo du gerade bist, sehe dich in 10, 15, 20 Jahren und frage dich, ob dass das ist, wo ich sein möchte?

If you're in a company look at the person who's 20 years ahead of you and ask yourself is that where I want to be Wenn du in einem Unternehmen bist, schaue dir die Person an, die 20 Jahre weiter voraus ist als du und frage dich, Ist das wo ich sein möchte? Nếu bạn làm trong công ty, quan sát người trước mình 20 tuổi, hỏi bản thân rằng đây có phải vị trí tôi muốn.

If you're in a start-up look at what other startups have got to in similar roles Wenn du in einem Start-Up bist, schaue dir andere Start-Ups, die ähnliche Rollen haben und frage dich, Nếu bạn vừa khởi nghiệp, quan sát những khởi nghiệp tương tự và hỏi bản thân rằng đây có phải vị trị tôi muốn.

And go is that where I want to be and if the answer's no “Ist das wo ich sein möchte?” Und wenn die Antwort Nein ist, dann musst du einen neuen Weg finden.

Then you need to find a new part and for me the answer at that time

from observing was know the path that my parents or

Society or the university I went to or the community. I had that was carving out for me

it didn't feel like the path for me, so I was almost seeking an

alternative or a new path

I was just so Ich hatte einfach so viel Glück, dass es ein uplifting, mächtiger Weg war, Tôi chỉ may mắn đi đúng đường, bằng không tôi đã có thể lạc lối bởi vì điều đó có khả thi.

Fortunate that it happened to be enough lifting powerful paths as opposed to something that could have actually taken me down the wrong road anstatt etwas, das mich tatsächlich die Straße hinunter hätte führen können.

Because that could've been possible too - so walk me through the first time you step off the plane in India