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Spotlight August&September/2011, (Spotlight4731)Managing Anger 29 August, 2011

(Spotlight4731)Managing Anger 29 August, 2011

Voice 1

Welcome to Spotlight.

I'm Liz Waid. Voice 2

And I'm Joshua Leo.

Spotlight uses a special English method of broadcasting. It is easier for people to understand, no matter where in the world they live. Voice 1

Every person feels angry at some time.

But they may not know how to deal with it. Today's Spotlight is on managing your anger. With the right tools, every person can deal with the feeling of anger. Voice 2

Dr.

Bruce Banner was a scientist who worked with dangerous chemicals and radiation. One day one of his experiments went terribly wrong! A nuclear bomb exploded and radiation flooded the area. But Bruce did not die. Instead he began to have super-human powers! He could do things that no other person could do. Voice 1

On a normal day Bruce looked and acted just like any other person.

But when he became angry, Bruce changed. He became a frightening creature called “The Hulk.” The Hulk had green skin. He was over two meters tall. And he weighed over 475 kilograms. When Bruce turned into the Hulk, his anger ruled over him. The Hulk would fight. And he would destroy things. Voice 2

After the Hulk became calm, he changed again.

He returned to his usual human form as Bruce the scientist. Sometimes Bruce would feel regret about the things he had done as the Hulk. Voice 1

This story is not real.

It is from a popular comic story book. However, even though it is not real, people feel like they already know it. They understand it because everyone knows what it is like to feel anger. Everyone knows what it is like to want to hurt someone, or destroy something because they are angry. Voice 2

Anger is not a bad or evil emotion.

It is usually healthy to feel anger. It is a natural reaction to fears or pressure from our environment. When people show anger because of injustice, or unfairness, it shows that they care about the people around them. And this anger can lead people to make good changes in their own lives and the lives of other people. Voice 1

But sometimes the way a person reacts to anger can be bad. When some people become very angry, they over-react. They shout at others and say things that they do not really mean. Or they lose control of their actions and become very violent. They may try to hurt others. But there are some simple ways to deal with anger. And anyone can use these methods. Voice 2

One way to deal with anger is to count before you say or do anything.

It seems like a simple idea - maybe too simple. But taking a short break to count can be a very effective way to manage anger. If you feel angry, try counting to ten. If you are really angry you could count to fifty or one hundred. Count for however long it takes you to feel calm again. You can also take long, deep breaths. Voice 1

Some people also stay calm by imagining a calm situation.

Imagine sitting next to a river, or in a peaceful field. Repeating calming words can also have this effect. If you are angry say words to yourself like ‘relax' or ‘I am staying calm. Voice 2

Staying calm is a very effective method for dealing with anger.

That is because anger can become very intense very quickly. Anger can easily begin to control a person. But, by staying calm, a person can start to control his anger instead. Voice 1

Another simple method for dealing with anger is to exercise or take a short walk. Anger affects the body. It raises your blood pressure. It can increase your heart rate. But you can use your energy for physical activity instead of being angry. Doctors say that a person's brain releases chemicals during physical activity. These chemicals make people feel happier and calmer. Voice 2

Avoiding the thing that makes you angry could also be a solution.

A person cannot avoid everything that makes him angry. But, if he can avoid some things, he can avoid some anger! Voice 1

These are all simple and immediate ways to control anger.

But for more complex problems, you will need a more complex solution. The best way to manage anger is by dealing with it directly - you must learn to express your anger in a healthy and helpful way. Voice 2

Expressing yourself when you are very angry can be difficult.

But it can also be very helpful. When people can express their needs, they feel like they are solving the problem. They feel better about themselves. And most importantly, they are taking control of their own emotions. They are reacting to their anger in a good way. Voice 1

But there are things people should remember when they express their needs when angry. First, stay calm when you are expressing yourself. Experts suggest that a person thinks before he speaks. It is easy to say hurtful words. But, words can be extremely damaging to a relationship. It is also important to be clear and direct when you express yourself. If you have a need, be sure to tell the other person. You should also show respect to the other person. Voice 2

It is also important not to blame other people.

Blaming other people can lead to arguing and fighting. Instead, people should express their anger by saying what they are feeling. For example, if a person is angry, she should use “I statements”. These are simple sentences that state how a person feels. For example, you should not say “You never help me clean the home”! Instead, you could say “I am angry that you did not offer to help me clean the home”. Voice 1

When people are expressing their anger, they should remember to think about the other people who are involved in the situation. Try to look at the situation from the other person's point of view. Often, when people look at a situation in this way, they can admit that they are not always being fair. People can admit that their anger is not being helpful. People cannot always control what other people do or what happens around them. But people can control the way they react! Voice 2

These are all ways to deal with normal every-day anger.

They may not work for someone with a serious anger problem, or a medical mental problem. In these cases, it is important to find help. This may mean talking to a doctor. Or it may mean talking to an understanding friend. But do not let your anger build up inside of you! As a person once said: Voice 3

“It is not good for me to hold on to anger.

I am the only one that it is really hurting.” Voice 2

The writer and producer of this program was Liz Waid.

The voices you heard were from the United States. All quotes have been adapted for this program and voiced by Spotlight. You can hear this program again, and read it, on the internet at http://www.radioEnglish.net. This program is called “Managing Anger.” Voice 1

You can also leave a comment on our website.

Or you can email us at radio @ radioEnglish . net. We hope you can join us again for the next Spotlight program. Goodbye! Some of the music in this program came from Podington Bear.

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Voice 1

Welcome to Spotlight.

I’m Liz Waid. Voice 2

And I’m Joshua Leo.

Spotlight uses a special English method of broadcasting. It is easier for people to understand, no matter where in the world they live. Lidé ji snáze pochopí, ať už žijí kdekoli na světě. Voice 1

Every person feels angry at some time. Každý člověk se někdy cítí naštvaný. 誰でも怒りを感じる時はあります。

But they may not know how to deal with it. Možná ale nevědí, jak se s tím vypořádat. しかし、彼らはそれに対処する方法を知らないかもしれません。 Today’s Spotlight is on managing your anger. Dnešní článek je zaměřen na zvládání hněvu. With the right tools, every person can deal with the feeling of anger. Se správnými nástroji se může každý člověk vypořádat s pocitem hněvu. 適切なツールがあれば、誰もが怒りの感情に対処できます。 Doğru araçlarla her insan öfke duygusuyla başa çıkabilir. Voice 2

Dr.

Bruce Banner was a scientist who worked with dangerous chemicals and radiation. Bruce Banner byl vědec, který pracoval s nebezpečnými chemikáliemi a radiací. ブルース・バナーは、危険な化学物質と放射線を扱う科学者でした。 One day one of his experiments went terribly wrong! Jednoho dne se jeden z jeho pokusů strašlivě zvrtl! ある日、彼の実験の 1 つがひどく失敗しました。 Bir gün deneylerinden biri korkunç bir şekilde ters gitti! A nuclear bomb exploded and radiation flooded the area. Vybuchla jaderná bomba a oblast zaplavila radiace. 核爆弾が爆発し、放射線がその地域にあふれました。 Bir nükleer bomba patladı ve bölgeyi radyasyon bastı. But Bruce did not die. Bruce však nezemřel. Instead he began to have super-human powers! Místo toho začal mít nadlidské schopnosti! 代わりに、彼は超人的な力を持ち始めました! Bunun yerine süper insan güçlerine sahip olmaya başladı! He could do things that no other person could do. Dokázal věci, které nikdo jiný nedokázal. 彼は他の人ができないことをすることができました。 Başka hiç kimsenin yapamayacağı şeyleri yapabiliyordu. Voice 1 Hlas 1

On a normal day Bruce looked and acted just like any other person. V běžný den Bruce vypadal a choval se jako každý jiný člověk. 通常の日、ブルースは他の人と同じように見え、行動しました。

But when he became angry, Bruce changed. Když se však Bruce rozzlobil, změnil se. しかし、彼が怒ったとき、ブルースは変わりました。 He became a frightening creature called “The Hulk.” The Hulk had green skin. Stal se z něj děsivý tvor zvaný "Hulk". Hulk měl zelenou kůži. 彼は「ハルク」と呼ばれる恐ろしい生き物になりました。ハルクは緑色の肌をしていました。 "Hulk" adında korkutucu bir yaratığa dönüştü. Hulk'un yeşil bir derisi vardı. He was over two meters tall. Byl vysoký přes dva metry. 身長は二メートルを超えていた。 And he weighed over 475 kilograms. A vážil přes 475 kilogramů. そして彼の体重は475キログラムを超えました。 When Bruce turned into the Hulk, his anger ruled over him. Když se Bruce proměnil v Hulka, ovládl ho vztek. ブルースがハルクになったとき、彼の怒りが彼を支配した. Bruce Hulk'a dönüştüğünde, öfkesi ona hükmetti. The Hulk would fight. Hulk by bojoval. ハルクは戦うだろう。 Халк будет драться. Hulk dövüşürdü. And he would destroy things. A ničil věci. И он уничтожал вещи. Voice 2

After the Hulk became calm, he changed again. Když se Hulk uklidnil, znovu se změnil.

He returned to his usual human form as Bruce the scientist. Vrátil se do své obvyklé lidské podoby vědce Bruce. 彼は科学者ブルースとして通常の人間の姿に戻りました。 Bilim adamı Bruce olarak her zamanki insan formuna geri döndü. Sometimes Bruce would feel regret about the things he had done as the Hulk. Někdy Bruce litoval věcí, které jako Hulk udělal. ブルースは、ハルクとして自分がしたことを後悔することもありました。 Voice 1

This story is not real.

It is from a popular comic story book. Pochází z populárního komiksu. However, even though it is not real, people feel like they already know it. Přestože však není skutečná, lidé mají pocit, že ji už znají. しかし、現実ではないのに、人はすでに知っているように感じます。 They understand it because everyone knows what it is like to feel anger. Chápou to, protože každý ví, jaké to je cítit hněv. 誰もが怒りを感じることを知っているので、彼らはそれを理解しています。 Everyone knows what it is like to want to hurt someone, or destroy something because they are angry. Každý ví, jaké to je, když chce někomu ublížit nebo něco zničit, protože je naštvaný. 怒っているからといって、誰かを傷つけたり、何かを破壊したりしたいという気持ちは誰にでもあります。 Voice 2

Anger is not a bad or evil emotion. Hněv není špatná nebo zlá emoce. 怒りは悪い感情でも邪悪な感情でもありません。

It is usually healthy to feel anger. Cítit hněv je obvykle zdravé. It is a natural reaction to fears or pressure from our environment. これは、環境からの恐怖やプレッシャーに対する自然な反応です。 When people show anger because of injustice, or unfairness, it shows that they care about the people around them. Když lidé projevují hněv kvůli nespravedlnosti nebo nespravedlnosti, dávají tím najevo, že jim na lidech kolem nich záleží. 人々が不正や不公平のために怒りを示すとき、それは彼らが周囲の人々を気にかけていることを示しています. And this anger can lead people to make good changes in their own lives and the lives of other people. A tento hněv může vést lidi k dobrým změnám v jejich vlastním životě i v životě ostatních lidí. そして、この怒りは、人々を自分自身の生活や他の人々の生活に良い変化をもたらすことができます. Voice 1

But sometimes the way a person reacts to anger can be bad. Někdy však může být způsob, jakým člověk reaguje na hněv, špatný. しかし、人が怒りに反応する方法が悪い場合があります。 When some people become very angry, they over-react. Když se někteří lidé velmi rozzlobí, reagují přehnaně. 非常に怒ったとき、過剰に反応する人もいます。 They shout at others and say things that they do not really mean. Křičí na ostatní a říkají věci, které ve skutečnosti nemyslí vážně. 彼らは他人に向かって大声で叫び、本当の意味ではないことを言います。 Or they lose control of their actions and become very violent. Nebo ztratí kontrolu nad svým jednáním a stanou se velmi násilnými. または、自分の行動を制御できなくなり、非常に暴力的になります。 They may try to hurt others. Mohou se pokusit ublížit ostatním. But there are some simple ways to deal with anger. しかし、怒りに対処する簡単な方法がいくつかあります。 And anyone can use these methods. Voice 2

One way to deal with anger is to count before you say or do anything. Jedním ze způsobů, jak se vypořádat s hněvem, je počítat, než něco řeknete nebo uděláte. 怒りに対処する 1 つの方法は、何かを言ったり実行したりする前に数を数えることです。

It seems like a simple idea - maybe too simple. 単純なアイデアのように思えますが、単純すぎるかもしれません。 But taking a short break to count can be a very effective way to manage anger. Krátká přestávka na počítání však může být velmi účinným způsobem, jak zvládnout hněv. しかし、数を数えるために短い休憩を取ることは、怒りを管理するための非常に効果的な方法です。 If you feel angry, try counting to ten. Pokud se cítíte naštvaní, zkuste počítat do deseti. If you are really angry you could count to fifty or one hundred. Pokud jste opravdu rozzlobení, můžete počítat do padesáti nebo do sta. 本当に怒っているなら、50 か 100 まで数えることができます。 Count for however long it takes you to feel calm again. 再び落ち着くまでにかかる時間を数えます。 You can also take long, deep breaths. 長くて深い呼吸もできます。 Voice 1

Some people also stay calm by imagining a calm situation. 落ち着いた状況を想像して冷静でいられる人もいます。

Imagine sitting next to a river, or in a peaceful field. Bir nehrin yanında ya da huzurlu bir tarlada oturduğunuzu hayal edin. Repeating calming words can also have this effect. 心を落ち着かせる言葉を繰り返すことも、この効果をもたらす可能性があります。 If you are angry say words to yourself like ‘relax' or ‘I am staying calm. 怒っている場合は、「リラックスして」や「落ち着いている」などの言葉を自分に言い聞かせてください。 Voice 2

Staying calm is a very effective method for dealing with anger. 冷静でいることは、怒りに対処するための非常に効果的な方法です。

That is because anger can become very intense very quickly. これは、怒りが非常に急速に激しくなる可能性があるためです。 Anger can easily begin to control a person. 怒りは簡単に人をコントロールし始めます。 But, by staying calm, a person can start to control his anger instead. しかし、冷静さを保つことで、代わりに怒りをコントロールできるようになります。 Voice 1

Another simple method for dealing with anger is to exercise or take a short walk. Anger affects the body. 怒りは体に影響を与えます。 It raises your blood pressure. それはあなたの血圧を上げます。 It can increase your heart rate. 心拍数を上げることができます。 But you can use your energy for physical activity instead of being angry. しかし、怒る代わりに身体活動にエネルギーを使うことができます。 Doctors say that a person’s brain releases chemicals during physical activity. 医師は、人の脳は身体活動中に化学物質を放出すると言います。 These chemicals make people feel happier and calmer. これらの化学物質は、人々をより幸せで穏やかな気分にさせます。 Voice 2

Avoiding the thing that makes you angry could also be a solution. あなたを怒らせるものを避けることも解決策になる可能性があります。

A person cannot avoid everything that makes him angry. 人は自分を怒らせるすべてを避けることはできません。 But, if he can avoid some things, he can avoid some anger! しかし、彼がいくつかのことを避けることができれば、彼は怒りを避けることができます! Voice 1

These are all simple and immediate ways to control anger. これらはすべて、怒りをコントロールするための簡単で直接的な方法です。

But for more complex problems, you will need a more complex solution. しかし、より複雑な問題については、より複雑なソリューションが必要になります。 The best way to manage anger is by dealing with it directly - you must learn to express your anger in a healthy and helpful way. 怒りを管理する最善の方法は、怒りに直接対処することです。健康的で役立つ方法で怒りを表現することを学ぶ必要があります。 Voice 2

Expressing yourself when you are very angry can be difficult. 非常に怒っているときに自分を表現するのは難しい場合があります。

But it can also be very helpful. しかし、それは非常に役立つこともあります。 When people can express their needs, they feel like they are solving the problem. 人々は自分のニーズを表現できると、問題を解決しているように感じます。 They feel better about themselves. 彼らは自分自身について気分が良くなります。 And most importantly, they are taking control of their own emotions. そして最も重要なことは、彼らは自分の感情をコントロールしているということです。 They are reacting to their anger in a good way. 彼らは怒りに良い方法で反応しています。 Voice 1

But there are things people should remember when they express their needs when angry. しかし、怒っているときに自分のニーズを表現するときに覚えておくべきことがあります。 First, stay calm when you are expressing yourself. まず、自分を表現するときは落ち着いてください。 Experts suggest that a person thinks before he speaks. 専門家は、人は話す前に考えるよう勧めています。 It is easy to say hurtful words. 人を傷つけるようなことを言うのは簡単です。 But, words can be extremely damaging to a relationship. しかし、言葉は関係に非常にダメージを与える可能性があります。 It is also important to be clear and direct when you express yourself. 自分を表現するときは、明確かつ直接的であることも重要です。 If you have a need, be sure to tell the other person. 必要な場合は、必ず相手に伝えてください。 You should also show respect to the other person. また、相手に敬意を示す必要があります。 Voice 2

It is also important not to blame other people. 他人のせいにしないことも重要です。 Diğer insanları suçlamamak da önemlidir.

Blaming other people can lead to arguing and fighting. 他人のせいにすることは、口論や喧嘩につながる可能性があります。 Başkalarını suçlamak tartışmaya ve kavgaya yol açabilir. Instead, people should express their anger by saying what they are feeling. 代わりに、人々は自分が感じていることを言って怒りを表現する必要があります。 Bunun yerine, insanlar ne hissettiklerini söyleyerek öfkelerini ifade etmelidir. For example, if a person is angry, she should use “I statements”. たとえば、人が怒っている場合は、「I ステートメント」を使用する必要があります。 These are simple sentences that state how a person feels. これらは、人がどのように感じているかを述べる簡単な文です。 For example, you should not say “You never help me clean the home”! たとえば、「あなたは私が家を掃除するのを決して手伝ってくれません」と言うべきではありません! Instead, you could say “I am angry that you did not offer to help me clean the home”. 代わりに、「家の掃除を手伝ってくれなかったことに腹を立てています」と言うことができます。 Voice 1

When people are expressing their anger, they should remember to think about the other people who are involved in the situation. 人々が怒りを表明するときは、その状況に関与している他の人々のことを忘れないでください。 İnsanlar öfkelerini ifade ederken, duruma dahil olan diğer insanları da düşünmeyi unutmamalıdırlar. Try to look at the situation from the other person’s point of view. 相手の視点から状況を見るようにしてください。 Often, when people look at a situation in this way, they can admit that they are not always being fair. 多くの場合、人々は状況をこのように見ると、常に公正であるとは限らないことを認めることができます。 People can admit that their anger is not being helpful. 人は自分の怒りが何の役にも立たないことを認めることができます。 People cannot always control what other people do or what happens around them. 人は、他人の行動や周囲で起こっていることを常にコントロールできるわけではありません。 But people can control the way they react! しかし、人々は自分の反応をコントロールすることができます! Voice 2

These are all ways to deal with normal every-day anger. これらはすべて、通常の日常の怒りに対処する方法です。

They may not work for someone with a serious anger problem, or a medical mental problem. 深刻な怒りの問題や医学的な精神的問題を抱えている人には効果がないかもしれません. In these cases, it is important to find help. このような場合、助けを見つけることが重要です。 This may mean talking to a doctor. これは、医師に相談することを意味する場合があります。 Bu, bir doktorla konuşmak anlamına gelebilir. Or it may mean talking to an understanding friend. または、理解のある友人と話すことを意味する場合もあります。 Ya da anlayışlı bir arkadaşla konuşmak anlamına gelebilir. But do not let your anger build up inside of you! しかし、あなたの怒りをあなたの中に蓄積させないでください! Ancak öfkenizin içinizde birikmesine izin vermeyin! As a person once said: ある人がかつて言ったように: Bir zamanlar birinin dediği gibi: Voice 3

“It is not good for me to hold on to anger. 「怒りを我慢するのは良くない。 Мне вредно держать в себе гнев". "Öfkeye tutunmak benim için iyi değil.

I am the only one that it is really hurting.” 本当に苦しんでいるのは私だけです。」 Я единственный, кому это действительно причиняет боль". Gerçekten canı yanan tek kişi benim." Voice 2

The writer and producer of this program was Liz Waid.

The voices you heard were from the United States. Duyduğunuz sesler Birleşik Devletler'den geliyordu. All quotes have been adapted for this program and voiced by Spotlight. Tüm alıntılar bu program için uyarlanmış ve Spotlight tarafından seslendirilmiştir. You can hear this program again, and read it, on the internet at http://www.radioEnglish.net. This program is called “Managing Anger.” Voice 1

You can also leave a comment on our website.

Or you can email us at radio @ radioEnglish . net. We hope you can join us again for the next Spotlight program. Goodbye! Some of the music in this program came from Podington Bear. このプログラムの音楽の一部は Podington Bear から提供されました。