Çevrendeki İnsanları Nasıl Etkilersin? 5 Yöntem
the people around you|people|how|you will influence|methods
Wie Sie Ihre Mitmenschen beeinflussen: 5 Methoden
Πώς να επηρεάζετε τους ανθρώπους γύρω σας: 5 μέθοδοι
你如何影响你周围的人? 5种方法
How Do You Influence the People Around You? 5 Methods
- Şu hayatta muhtemelen çok fazla insanla
this|in life|probably|very|many|with people
- In this life, you probably encounter a lot of people
karşılaşıyosun
you are encountering
and you want to influence these people.
ve bu insanları etkilemek istiyorsun
and|these|people|to influence|you want
peki
okay
okay
etrafındaki insanları nasıl
around you|people|how
how can you
etkileyebilirsin?
you can influence
influence the people around you?
etrafındaki insanların senin fikirlerine
around you|people's|your|opinions
the people around you have your opinions
senin kişiliğine saygı duymasını nasıl sağlayabilirsin
your|personality|respect|to have|how|you can ensure
How can you make them respect your personality?
sana bu videoda insanları etkileme konusunda
to you|this|in video|people|to influence|on the subject of
In this video, I will talk about
bazı pratik önerilerden bahsedeceğim.
some|practical|suggestions|I will talk about
some practical tips on how to influence people.
Bir iş görüşmesi
a|job|interview
A job interview
ya da bir toplantı için bir yere gidiyorsun etrafında
||a|meeting|for|a|place|you are going|around
or you are going somewhere for a meeting and there are people around you
insanlar var ve sen de en güzel en şık halinle oradasın
people||||||||||
and you are there in your most beautiful and stylish form
tek derdin ortaya fikirlerini koymak
only|your concern|out|your ideas|to put
your only concern is to present your ideas
ve onları diğer insanları etkilemek karşıdaki insanlar
and to impress the people in front of you
sana bilmediğin konu hakkın da bir soru soruyolar
to you|you don't know|topic|about|also|a|question|they are asking
they are asking you a question about a topic you don't know.
diyorlar ki; yapay zeka hakkın da ne düşünüyorsun? Senin
they say|that|artificial|intelligence|about|also|what|you think|your
They say; what do you think about artificial intelligence? You have
zerre kadar fikrin yok." Ay yapay zeka mı
particle|as much as|your opinion|there is none||||
not the slightest idea." Oh, is artificial intelligence
uzmanlık alanım benim süper, harika anlarım."
expertise|my field|my|super|great|I understand
my area of expertise, my super, wonderful moments."
Kendini saklamaya çalışıyorsun, olduğundan
yourself|to hide|you are trying|than you are
You are trying to hide yourself, trying to appear different and cooler than you are.
daha farklı daha havalı göstermeye çalışıyosun.
more|different|more|cool|to show|
Let me tell you this: No one is stupid!
ben sana şunu söyleyeyim. Kimse gerizekalı değil!
I|to you|this||nobody|idiot|not
When you try to force yourself, when you try to look different from who you are.
sen kendini kastığın zaman, sen olduğundan farklı görünmeye çalıştığın zaman
you|yourself|when you mean|when|you|than you are|different|to look|when you are trying|
etrafındaki insanlar yalan söylediğini anlamasa bile
the people around|people|lie|that you said|even if they don't understand|even
even if the people around you do not realize that you are lying
ya bi tutarsızlık sezerler bi güvensizlik sezerler
either|a|inconsistency|they sense|a|distrust|they sense
they will sense some inconsistency or some distrust
çok hissi bi şeydir bu ve ortadaki
very|emotional|a|it is|this|and|the one in the middle
this is a very emotional thing and in the middle
etkileşim zarar görür. Napıcaksın peki ben
interaction|damage|it experiences|what will you do|well|I
the interaction gets damaged. So what will you do?
şöyle düşünüyorum. Bilmediğin bir konu varsa bilmediğini
like this|I think|that you don't know|a|topic|if there is|that you don't know
I think like this. If there is a topic you don't know, admit that you don't know it.
ifade et samimi olan insan her yerde kazanıyor.
express|you do|sincere|that is|person|every|everywhere|is winning
A sincere person wins everywhere.
ne kadar samimiysen ne kadar kendinsen ne kadar
how|much|if you are sincere|how|much|if you are yourself|how|much
The more sincere you are, the more yourself you are, the less you are trying too hard,
kasmıyosan, karşı taraf der ki; ya bu adam
|opposite|side|they say|that|or|this|guy
the other party will say; this guy
bilmiyor ama bu adam güvenilir bi adam bu
he doesn't know|but|this|man|reliable|a|man|this
he doesn't know, but this man is a reliable guy.
adam eksikliklerini de biliyo iyi yanlarını da biliyo
man|his shortcomings|also|he knows|good|his sides|also|he knows
he knows his shortcomings and he knows his good sides.
kötü yanlarını da biliyo. Bu adamla çalışılır bu adama
bad|his sides|also|he knows|this|with this man|one can work|this|to this man
he knows his bad sides too. This man is someone you can work with.
güvenilir bu adamla iş yapılır diye düşünüyo o yüzden
reliable|this|with this man|work|can be done|that|he thinks|that|therefore
he thinks that this man is reliable and that business can be done with him, that's why.
ne kadar samimi olursan ne kadar kendin olursan
how|much|sincere|you are|how|much|yourself|you are
the more sincere you are, the more you are yourself
ne kadar kasmazsan karşı tarafı etkilemen
how|much|you don't force|opposite|side|your influence
the less you try to impress the other party
o kadar muhtemel olur.
the more likely it is.
Değer görmek istiyor musun bu hayatta çok büyük ihtimalle
Do you want to be valued in this life, most likely?
cevabın EVET ama şunu unutmamak lazım bu değer görme ihtiyacı sadece sende yok etrafındaki
your answer|YES|but|this|not to forget|necessary|this|value|seeing|need|only|in you|not|around you
the answer is YES but it should not be forgotten that this need for recognition is not only within you but also around you.
herkes değer görmek istiyor önemli olduğunu
everyone|value|to see|wants|important|that it is
Everyone wants to feel valued, to feel that they are important.
hissettirilmesini istiyo ama sen sadece
to be felt|wants|but|you|only
They want to feel it, but when you think that this desire, this need is only within you,
bu istek bu ihtiyaç sende varmış gibi düşününce
this|desire|this|need|in you|it was as if it exists|like|when thinking
ortaya ciddi bir etkileşim ve iletişim sıkıntısı çıkıyo
out|serious|a|interaction|and|communication|difficulty|it arises
a serious interaction and communication problem arises
bir insanla oturdun bir projeden bahsediyosun
a|with a person|you sat|a|from a project|you are talking
you sit with a person and talk about a project
olası iş birliklerini konuşacaksın öğretmene, hocana tezini
possible|work|collaborations|you will talk|to your teacher|to your instructor|your thesis
you will discuss possible collaborations with your teacher, your advisor about your thesis
anlatıcaksın şimdi ortada karşı taraf
you will explain|now|in front of|opposite|side
now the other party is in front of you
bir şey konuştuğu zaman sen belki kötü bir
a|thing|he/she/it talks|time|you|maybe|bad|a
when someone is talking, you may not have bad intentions, but you are aware of your own needs at that moment.
niyetin yok ama kendi ihtiyacının farkındasın o anda
your intention|not|but|own|your need|you are aware|that|moment
It's my turn to speak, so I can put myself out there.
sıra bana gelsin de ben kendimi ortaya koyayım
turn|to me|it comes|and|I|myself|out|I put
I want to show my worth and have the other party recognize my value.
değerimi bir göstereyim ve karşı taraf bana değer göstersin diye
my value|a|I show|and|opposite|side|to me|value|it shows|in order to
şimdi burada bi sıkıntı yok evet senin böyle bir ihtiyacın var ama
now|here|a|problem|not|yes|your|such|a|need|there is|but
there is no problem here now yes you have such a need but
unuttuğun nokta karşı tarafta aynısını bekliyo onu hiç
you forgot|point|opposite|side|the same|is waiting|it|never
the point you forgot is that the other side is expecting the same thing
doyurmazsan onun değer ihtiyacını hiç karşılamazsan
if you don't satisfy|its|value|need|never|if you don't meet
if you don't satisfy them at all, if you don't meet their value needs at all
ne olacak iki tarafta bu ilişkiden
what|will happen|both|sides|this|from this relationship
what will happen to both sides in this relationship
tatmin olmayarak ayrılıcak ve olası iş birliktelikleri olası
satisfaction|not having|will leave|and|possible|work|collaborations|possible
will leave unsatisfied and possible collaborations are possible
etkileşimler bundan zarar görücek ne yapıcaksın peki
interactions|from this|harm|will see|what|will you do|then
interactions will be harmed, what will you do then?
tamam sen kendine sıra gelince elinden geldiği
okay|you|to yourself|turn|when it comes|from your hand|as much as it can
okay, when it's your turn, do your best to present yourself
şekilde kendini ortaya koy ve değer ihtiyacını karşıla
||||and|value|your need|meet
and meet your need for value.
ama sıra karşı taraftayken onu
but|line|opposite|while on the other side|him
but when it's your turn, listen to him
adam akıllı dinle ilk başta başka bir şeyle oyalanma
man|smart|listen|first|at the beginning|another|a|thing|don't get distracted
pay attention properly, don't get distracted by something else at first
tavana bakma, etrafa bakma, sıranı bekleme adam
to the ceiling|don't look|to the surroundings|don't look|your turn|don't wait|man
don't look at the ceiling, don't look around, don't wait for your turn, man
kadın ne anlatıyo bir bak bakalım
woman|what|she is telling|a|look|let's see
see what the woman is talking about
hakkını ver o dinlemenin ve sonrasında o anlatırken
your right|give|that|listening|and|afterwards|that|while explaining
give the right to listen to that and then when they are explaining it
merak eden sorular sor de ki
curiosity|who is curious||ask|say|that
ask curious questions and say
neden böyle düşünüyosun, ya hakikaten burda , bu konu da
why|like this|you think|or|really|here|this|topic|too
why do you think this way, I mean really here, on this topic
ne düşünüyosun bu konudaki fikrin nedir ya da o arada
what|you think|this|about this topic|your opinion|what is|or|too|that|in between
what do you think about this topic, what is your opinion or in the meantime
bazı şeyler anlattığı zaman ara noktalar da
some|things|he/she/it told|when|intermediate|points|also
when they explain some things, there are also intermediate points
özet geçebilirsin ne diyebilirsin demek bu konu da böyle
summary|you can summarize|what|you can say|to mean|this|topic|also|like this
you can summarize, you can say this topic is like this
düşünüyosunuz ya da bu konu da böyle hissediyosunuz bu konu da biraz
you are thinking|or|also|this|topic|also|like this|you are feeling|this|topic|also|a bit
you are thinking like this or you are feeling like this about this topic a bit
endişeli gördüm sizi gibi bir yaklaşımla
anxious|I saw|you|like|a|with an approach
with an approach like I saw you a bit worried
o tarafa yaklaştığın zaman karşı tarafta kendini değerli hissedicek
that|side|you approach|when|opposite|side|yourself|valuable|will feel
When you get closer to that side, you will feel valuable on the other side.
ve ortaya çok güzel bi etkileşim çıkıcak
and|out|very|beautiful|a|interaction|will come out
And a very beautiful interaction will emerge.
sen bile şaşıracaksın!
you|even|you will be surprised
You will even be surprised!
İnsanlarla etkileşim içine girdiğin zaman arada sırada
with people|interaction|into|you enter|when|occasionally|among
When you engage in interaction with people from time to time.
tartışmaların çıkması kadar doğal bir şey yok her zaman insanlarla
discussions|arising|as|natural|a|thing|there is not|every|always|with people
There is nothing more natural than discussions arising with people.
aynı fikirde olamazsın olmamalısın da zaten
same|opinion|you cannot be|you should not be|either|already
You can't always agree with others, and you shouldn't have to.
ama şöyle bir durum var bazen karşı tarafla bir tartışmaya
but|such|a|situation|there is|sometimes|opposite|side|a|discussion
But there is a situation where sometimes when we enter into a discussion with the other side,
girdiğimiz zaman hararetli bi tartışmaya girdiğimiz zaman
we enter|when|||||
when we get into a heated debate.
şöyle psikoloji içine giriyosun karşı tarafı GÖMMELİYİM
like this|psychology|into|you are getting|opposite|side|I must bury
you get into psychology like this, I MUST BURY the other side
onun olumlu yanlarını da gömmeliyim her yandan
its|positive|sides|also|I must bury|every|from side
I must also bury their positive aspects from every angle
saldırmalıyım ama şunu unutma her zaman
I must attack|but|this|do not forget|always|time
I should attack, but never forget this
karşı tarafa işin düşebilir o insanla
opposite|side|your work|it may fall|that|with that person
you may need that person at some point
bu gün farklı bir fikir de farklı bir nokta da duruyor olsan bile
this|day|different|a|idea|also|different|a|point|also|you are standing|even if you are|even
even if you stand at a different point with a different idea today
yarın iş birliği yapabilirsin hiçbir
tomorrow|work|collaboration|you can do|no
you can collaborate tomorrow, you must not slam any
kapıyı sert çarpmaman lazım peki ne yapıcaksın aslında atalarımız burda çok güzel bir cümle kurmuşlar diyolar ki
the door|hard|not slamming|necessary|well|what|you will do|actually|our ancestors|here|very|beautiful|a|sentence|they have made|they say|that
doors shut, so what will you do? Actually, our ancestors have made a very beautiful statement here, they say
Yiğidi öldür ama hakkını yeme şimdi
the brave man|kill|but|his right|do not eat|now
Kill the brave man but do not take away his rights now.
karşı tarafla tartışıyosun ya her zaman karşı tarafın
against|side|you are arguing|you know|always|time|against|your side
you are arguing with the other side, and the other side always has
haklı olan iyi olan yanları vardır
right|that is|good||sides|there are
valid and good points.
o tartışma esnasında bile onun haklı olan
that|argument|during|even|its|right|that is
Even during that argument, it is important to emphasize their valid
iyi olan yanlarını vurgulamak lazım öyle olunca
|||||that way|when it is
and good points, and when you do that,
hem o şiddeti harareti birazcık düşürmüş olursun hemde
both|that|violence|heat|a little|you would have lowered|you would be|and also
you will both reduce that intensity a little and
karşı taraf şunu bilir evet biz Beyhanla
opposite|side|this|he/she knows|yes|we|with Beyhan
the other side knows that yes, we are not
bu konu da aynı fikir de değiliz ama insan olarak
|||||||but|human|as
on the same page about this issue with Beyhan, but as human beings
yan yanayız yarın bir gün bu gün anlaşamasak bile
||tomorrow|a|day|this|day|even if we do not agree|even
we are side by side, even if we cannot agree today.
yarın bir gün anlaşırız bir işte yapabiliriz
tomorrow|a|day|we will agree|a|in work|we can do
one day we will agree, we can do a job together
ve senin insanlığına saygı duyar o zaman ve karşı
and|your|humanity|respect|he will have|that|time|and|opposite
and then I will respect your humanity and you will affect the other side
tarafı etkilemiş olursun yiğidi öldür ama hakkını yeme
|||the brave man|kill|but|his right|do not eat
kill the brave but do not take away his right
Çok sevdiğim bir abimle bir gün beraber lokantaya gittik ve
very|I love|a|with my brother|a|day|together|to the restaurant|we went|
One day I went to a restaurant with an older brother I love very much and
lokantaya oturduk yemek yiyecez garson geldi ne istiyorsunuz
to the restaurant|we sat|food|we will eat|waiter|he came|what|you want
We sat down at the restaurant, we are going to eat, the waiter came and asked what do you want?
dedi bizim bu abi garsona daha siparişi
he said|our|this|brother|to the waiter|still|the order
This guy gave the waiter a tip before even placing the order.
vermeden önce bahşiş verdi
without giving|before|tip|he gave
I was very surprised, until that day I had always thought that tips were given after.
ben çok şaşırdım o güne kadar bahşişin hep
I|very|I was surprised|that|day|until|the tip|always
yemekten sonra hesap geldiği zaman verildiğini
after the meal|after|bill|when it came|time|that it was given
I had seen that it was given when the bill came after the meal.
görmüştüm sonrasında garson
I had seen|afterwards|waiter
After that, I asked the waiter.
gittikten sonra sordum bu abiye, Abi dedim neden önce
after he left|then|I asked|this|to this guy|bro|I said|why|first
After he left, I asked this guy, I said, 'Why did you give the tip first?'
bahşişi verdin şimdi o da bana çok güzel aslında
Actually, that's very nice of you.
hayat dersi niteliğin de bir cevap verdi sonradan verdiğin
life|lesson|quality|also|a|answer|you gave|later|your answer
You later gave an answer that was a life lesson.
bahşişin bi katkısı yok ki bana çünkü garson öncesin de
your tip|a|contribution|there is not|that|to me|because|waiter|before you|
Your tip doesn't contribute to me because it's before the waiter.
benim ne kadar bahşiş vereceğimi bilmiyo ama
my|how|much|tip|I will give|he/she doesn't know|but
He doesn't know how much tip I will give, but
öncesinde verdiğim zaman garson kendini minnet altında hissedicek
before|I gave|when|waiter|himself|gratitude|under|he will feel
when I give it beforehand, the waiter will feel indebted.
böyle olunca çok daha
this|becomes|much|more
when it is like this, you will see much better
iyi hizmet iyi muameleyi görürsün lokantalar da
good|service|good|treatment|you will see|restaurants|too
service and good treatment in restaurants
ve ben buradan aslında bir psikolojik ders çıkardım kendi adıma
and|I|from here|actually|a|psychological|lesson|I derived|my|for myself
and I actually learned a psychological lesson from this for myself
insanları onlar senden bir şey istemeden
people|they|from you|a|thing|without asking
people, they do not ask you for something
önce onlara güzel bir şey yaparsan bir jest
first|to them|nice|a|thing|if you do|a|gesture
if you do something nice for them first, it's a gesture
yaparsan bir iyilik yaparsan karşı taraf
if you do|a|kindness|if you do|opposite|side
if you do a good deed, the other party
bir minnet altına giriyor ve sana aslında çok daha
a|gratitude|under|it enters|and|to you|actually|very|more
falls under a debt of gratitude and actually offers you much more
daha iyi şeyler sunmaya eylemin doğuyo
better things are born from your action.
ya da bir şey talep ettiğin zaman olumlu cevap alma
or|also|a|thing|request|you made|when|positive|answer|not getting
or when you request something, the likelihood of receiving a positive response increases.
ihtimalin çok yükseliyor bu konu da yapılmış deneyler var hatta
your probability|very|is increasing|this|topic|also|done|experiments|there are|even
Your chances are significantly higher; there are even experiments conducted on this topic.
bir kutu kola deneyi var iki insan bekleme
a|can|soda|experiment|there is|two|people|waiting
There is a Coca-Cola experiment where two people are waiting.
salonunda oturuyorlar birisi
in the living room|they are sitting|one of them
They are sitting in a room, one of them.
gidiyor diyor ki kendine kutu kola alacak bekleme salonundaki yerden
he is going|he says|that|to himself|box|cola|he will buy|waiting|in the lounge|from the seat
he is going and saying to himself that he will buy a can of cola from the waiting room.
sormadan yanındakine bi kendine alıyo
without asking|to the person next to him|a|to himself|he is buying
without asking, he buys one for himself.
bi de ona alıyo geldiğin de diyo ki sana da kutu kola aldım
a|also|to him|he is buying|when you arrive|also|he says|that|to you|also|box|cola|I bought
and he buys one for the person next to him, and when he comes back, he says, 'I bought a can of cola for you too.'
eee sonrasın da o kolayı ona verdikten sonra diyo ki
well|after that|also|that|cola|to him|after giving|then|he says|that
and then after giving that cola to him, he says,
ben bi hayr toplantısı için bilet satıyorum 5 dolar
I|a|charity|meeting|for|ticket|I am selling|dollars
I am selling tickets for a charity meeting for 5 dollars.
alır mısın 100 kişiden 50 kişi
will you buy|you|people|people
Would you buy it? 50 out of 100 people.
alıyor ama o kolayı almadan önce
he/she is buying|but|that|soda|without buying|before
are buying, but before taking that soda,
hiç böyle bi ikramda bulunmadan önce
never|such|a|offering|without making|before
before making such an offer at all.
böyle bir şey sorarsa cevap %10- %15
such|a|thing|if (he/she) asks|answer
if they ask such a thing, the answer is around 10% - 15%
seviyesinde yani karşı taraf senden bir şey istemeden
at the level|that is|opposite|side|from you|a|thing|without (he/she) asking
at a level where the other party does not ask you for anything
ona bi güzellik bi iyilik yaparsan sonrasın da
to him/her|a|favor|a|kindness|if (you) do|afterwards|also
if you do a favor or a good deed for them afterwards
hem onu etkilemen daha kolay olur hem işlerin daha kolay olur.
both|him/her|your influencing|more|easy|it becomes|both|your work|more|easy|it becomes
it will be easier to influence them and your work will be easier.
İnsanlara iyilik yapmak iyi hoş tamam ama
to people|kindness|to do|good|nice|okay|but
Doing good for people is nice and all, but
bir nokta var çok önemli bir nokta sınır koymayı
a|point|there is|very|important|a|point|boundary|to set
there is one point, a very important point, you need to set boundaries.
bilmen lazım şimdi etrafındaki insanlara güzellik yaparken
||now|around you|to people|beauty|while doing
Now, while you are doing good for the people around you,
yaparken herkes iyi niyetli değil herkes çok
while doing|everyone|good|intentioned|not|everyone|very
not everyone is well-intentioned, not everyone is very.
anlayışlı değil senin bu iyi niyetini senin bu verici
understanding|not|your|this|good|intention|your|this|giving
not understanding, people may want to exploit your good intentions and this giving nature of yours.
halini istismar etmek isteyebilir insanlar
|exploit|to|may want|people
People may want to take advantage of your state.
etrafındaki insanlara sen sunuyosun bol keseden
around you|people|you|you are offering|plenty|from the pocket
You are offering generously to the people around you.
etrafındaki insanlarda veeer veeeer veer
around you|people|they give|they give|they give
And the people around you take and take and take.
diye geliyolar sana ve sen ne yapıcaksın sen onlara
saying|they are coming|to you|and|you|what|you will do|you|to them
they come to you saying that and what will you do to them?
her istediğin de her istediklerin de verirsen ortaya
every|thing you want|also|every|things you wanted|also|if you give|out
if you give them everything they want, no matter what it is,
koyduğun şey ne kadar değerli olursa olsun
|thing|how|as|valuable|if it is|let it be
no matter how valuable the thing you put out is,
bir süre sonra etrafındaki insanların gözünde
a|period|after|around you|people's|in the eyes
after a while, in the eyes of the people around you,
çok kolay ulaşılabilir olduğu için değersizleşecektir
very|easy|accessible|being|because|will become worthless
it will become worthless because it is very easily accessible
sen inanılmaz çaba sarf edersin seen inanılmaz
you|incredible|effort|||you|incredible
you put in incredible effort, you are incredible
ürünler ortaya koyarsın inanılmaz
products|out|you put|incredible
you produce amazing products, incredible
fedakarlıklar yaparsın ama bunu çok
sacrifices|you make|but|this|very
you make sacrifices, but this is too much
kolay sunarsan her zaman bunun sonucu
easy|if you offer|every|always|this|result
if you present it easily, the result will always be this
şöyle olacak değersiz olacaktır insanların kafasında
thus|will be|worthless|will be|people's|in their minds
it will be considered worthless in people's minds
şöyle otomatik bir kural var diyo ki
thus|automatic|a|rule|there is|it says|that
there's an automatic rule that says
kolay ulaştığın şey değersizdir ne yapıcaksın peki
easy|that you reach|thing|is worthless|what|you will do|well
what you easily attain is worthless, so what will you do?
tamam insanlara güzellik yapıcaksın ama insanlar senin
okay|to people|beauty|you will do|but|people|your
Okay, you will bring beauty to people, but people will know your
duruşun bi karakterin bi kişiliğin olduğunu bilecekler
stance|a|character|a|personality|that it is|they will know
stance, that you have a character, a personality.
Beyhan nın bir sınırı olduğunu bilecekler ve şu var
Beyhan|'s|a|limit|that it is|they will know|and|this|there is
They will know that Beyhan has a limit, and here is the thing,
bunların bedelsiz olmadığını karşılıklı
these|free|that it is not|mutual
these things are not without cost, mutually.
ilkesi uyarınca olduğunu bilecekler
principle|according to|that it is|they will know
they will know that it is in accordance with the principle
böyle olunca hem senin ortaya koyduğun şeyin değerli
this|when it is|both|your|out|that you put|thing|valuable
in this case, both people will realize that what you have presented is valuable
olduğunu farkına varacak insanlar hem de sana
||||both|also|to you
and they will also value you
değer verecekler bunu nasıl sağlayacaksın peki
||this|how|you will achieve|well
how will you achieve this?
arada sırada istemediğin şeyler konusun da
occasionally|sometimes|unwanted|things|regarding|too
sometimes you have to deal with things you don't want
Hayır demeyi bilmelisin her şeye evet dersen
no|to say|you should know|every|thing|yes|if you say
You should know how to say no; if you say yes to everything
her şeye tamam dersen hem insanlarının seni istismar etmeye
every|thing|okay|if you say|both|people's|you|to exploit|to
if you agree to everything, both the likelihood of people exploiting you
ihtimali oraya çıkar hemde ortaya koyduğun şeyler
possibility|there|it comes out|and also|in front|you put|things
increases, and the things you put out there
hakkını değerini bulamaz bu sebeple yeri geldiğin de Hayır
your right|your value|cannot find|this|therefore|place|when you come|also|No
you won't find your worth, that's why when the time comes, don't hesitate to say No.
demekten çekinme peki sen neler yapıyorsun
from saying|don't hesitate|okay|you|what|you are doing
So, what are you doing?
insanları etkilemek için güzel ilişkiler kurmak için ya da
people|to influence|for|nice|relationships|to establish|for|or|also
To influence people, to establish good relationships, or
güzel etkileşimler ortaya çıkarmak için bunlardan
nice|interactions|out|to create|for|from these
to create beautiful interactions, these are some of them.
yorumlar kısmında bahsedersen herkes bu yorumlardan
comments|in the section|if you mention|everyone|these|comments
If you mention it in the comments section, everyone will benefit from these comments.
faydalınacaktır. Beni dinlediğin için çok Teşekkür Ediyorum.
|me|you listened|for|very|thank|I am
Thank you very much for listening to me.
Güzel İnsan, kendine iyi davran. Görüşmek üzere :)
beautiful|person|to yourself|good|behave|seeing|until
Beautiful person, take care of yourself. See you soon :)
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