Postavite sebi ovo NEZGODNO PITANJE i dobro razmislite Stellen Sie sich diese SCHWIERIGE FRAGE und denken Sie sorgfältig darüber nach Ask yourself this DIFFICULT QUESTION and think carefully

Dragi moji dobro mi došli! Ja sam Slavica Squire

i ovo je moj YouTube kanal na kome ja

želim ljude da ohrabrim

da ih inspirišem i da ih naučim veoma konkretne metode to inspire them and to teach them very concrete methods

strukture, razne tehnike...

koje mogu da im pomognu da kreiraju život i posao

koje će da obožavaju.

Danas je poslednji dan u godini 2020.

i danas imam jedno pitanje za vas

koje je veoma, veoma nezgodno:

nadam se da ćete pogledati video do kraja

i da ćete dati sebi

za pravo da odgovorite na ovo pitanje.

Jako je nezgodno pitanje It's a very awkward question

i ako ne volite nezgodna pitanja, bolje je da ne gledate video do kraja. and if you don't like tricky questions, it's better not to watch the video until the end.

Jer, u stvari, kao što godina ima

poslednji dan, kao što je 31. decembar, the last day, such as December 31,

tako svako od nas so does each of us

ima svoj poslednji dan. it has its last day.

I niko od nas, srećom, ne zna And none of us, fortunately, know

kad je taj poslednji dan

ali mnogi ljudi ne znaju čak but many people don't even know

odnosno, nisu svesni toga that is, they are not aware of it

da je život ograničen. that life is limited.

Postoji ona izreka i kaže se There is a saying and it is said

mi svi imamo dva života we all have two lives

Jedan je

život koji imamo, a drugi život počinje onda

kada shvatimo da imamo samo jedan život. when we realize that we only have one life.

I obično se to dešava kada ljudi dožive nešto And usually that happens when people experience something

dramatično,

traumatično... Možda imaju neku dijagnozu

nešto im se desi i odjednom something happens to them all of a sudden

shvate:

"Čoveče, ja ću umreti..." "Man, I'm gonna die..."

I onda se dešava da ljudi preokrenu svoj život And then it happens that people turn their lives around

i da krenu da žive and start living

drugačije. Da sve nekako prečiste differently. To clean everything somehow

i preporode se jednostavno. and they are simply reborn.

Zato ja želim da vam dam jednu drugu perspektivu So I want to give you another perspective

da vas stavim u poziciju da razmišljate to put you in a position to think

na drugačiji način, baš danas, baš ovog poslednjeg dana in a different way, just today, just this last day

kada verovatno i tako i tako puno toga razmišljate. when you are probably thinking so and so much.

Većina vas neće biti na nekom veselju Most of you will not be at a party

kao što je to uobičajeno zbog as it is usual because

ove pandemije. Mi smo svi nekako

okrenuti više sebi i mirnom provođenju vremena kod kuće turn more to yourself and spend time peacefully at home

i možda ćete imati vremena baš da razmišljate. and you might have time to think.

A ja želim da vas podstaknem da razmislite:

šta ako, na primer, what if, for example,

bi 2021. godina would be the year 2021

bila poslednja godina vašeg života? was the last year of your life?

Šta onda? Razmislite.

Kako biste onda živeli? How would you live then?

Kako biste preorganizovali svoj život? How would you reorganize your life?

Jer verujem, kada iz te perspektive pogledate Because I believe, when you look at it from that perspective

verovatno biste znali sa kim želite da provodite vreme you would probably know who you want to spend time with

čega želite više, čega ne želite uopšte, what you want more of, what you don't want at all,

u tim poslednjim danima svog života. in those last days of his life.

I ono što je stvarno važno: ja samo želim da vam dam jedan misaoni eksperiment And what's really important: I just want to give you a thought experiment

da stvarno razmislite, da stavite u perspektivu.

Ok, neki od vas Okay, some of you

znaju da će imati mnogo više godina i svesni su toga da they know that they will be much older and they are aware of that

ne mogu kao: "Sad mi je poslednja godina, pa ću sve da proćerdam..." I can't be like: "It's my last year, so I'm going to waste everything..."

"Daću otkaz, neću ništa da radim, samo ću da putujem...." "I'm going to quit my job, I'm not going to do anything, I'm just going to travel..."

Ok, jasno mi je da bi to možda Ok, I understand that it might

uradili neki, kada bi znali da im je poslednje some did, if they knew it was their last

ali poenta je u tome da but the point is that

znam da morate svoje resurse da štedite I know you have to conserve your resources

zato što ćete živeti i da drugačije because you will live differently

pristupite tome, ali approach it but

ono što bih jako volela je da razmislite. what I would really like is for you to think.

Kada bi ovo bila poslednja godina vašeg života If this were the last year of your life

i kada biste znali da sledećeg 31. decembra and if you knew that next December 31st

vi nećete više biti ovde, you won't be here anymore

nećete,

kako biste proveli ovu godinu?

Želim stvarno da vam dam jednu perspektivu I want to really give you some perspective

iz koje možda neke brige i neki problemi from which maybe some worries and some problems

postanu besmisleni, zato što become meaningless, because

mi dođemo kući, nešto s posla nas nervira, we come home, something from work annoys us,

ide nam na živce. it gets on our nerves.

Neki projekat ne funkcioniše kako hoćemo Some project is not working as we want

kolega nas nervira

ali zamislite kada biste znali da je to poslednja godina vašeg života... but imagine if you knew it was the last year of your life…

Bilo bi vam potpuno svejedno. You wouldn't care at all.

Baš vas briga, jel tako? You don't really care, do you?

Ili barem ne biste toliko vremena i energije trošili na sve te stvari Or at least you wouldn't spend so much time and energy on all those things

koje su realno, iz perspektive toga da which are realistic, from the perspective of yes

su nam poslednji dani odbrojani, our last days are numbered,

potpuno besmislene. completely meaningless.

S druge strane, kad razmislite, na šta biste potrošili te poslednje dane. On the other hand, when you think about it, what would you spend those last days on.

Kako biste ih proveli? Da li biste How would you spend them? Would you

radili neke besmislene stvari koje godinama možda radite did some pointless things that you may have been doing for years

i koje vas ne vode nikuda and which lead you nowhere

ili biste možda više vremena provodili sa svojom porodicom or maybe you would spend more time with your family

sa ljudima koje volite,

možda biste proveli vreme da

zapišete neke stvari, da write some things down, yes

kažete "Hvala" nekim ljudima, you say "thank you" to some people,

da se zahvalite za divne stvari koje ste imali to give thanks for the wonderful things you had

da napravite neku retrospektivu dobrih momenata u vašem životu to make some retrospective of the good moments in your life

i tako dalje. Zato bih ja stvarno volela da et cetera. That's why I would really like to

vas pokrenem na ovu perspektivu. I start you on this perspective.

Stvarno da razmislite kada bi to Really think about when that would be

bio kraj,

kada biste znali da imate samo if you only knew you had

još nekoliko meseci i da a few more months and yes

na kraju 2021. nećete biti tu

kakva bi to godina za vas bila?

Kako biste je proveli? How would you spend it?

Šta biste promenili? What would you change?

Čega vam je stvarno dosta? What are you really sick of?

I šta više ne biste trpeli And what more would you not suffer

sigurno, kada biste znali da je ovome kraj? sure, when would you know it was over?

I šta je to što biste još voleli da ostvarite kada biste znali, And what else would you like to achieve if you knew,

"Ok, imam još samo toliko... Ovo hoću sigurno i želim da ostvarim". "Ok, I only have so much left... I want this for sure and I want to make it happen".

"Ovo mi je nešto što mi je važno". "This is something that is important to me".

"Ne želim da umrem, a da to nisam uradio". "I don't want to die without having done it".

Razmislite o tome. Zapišite sve te stvari! Think about it. Write all those things down!

Čega vam je dosta, šta želite sigurno da ostvarite, What is enough for you, what do you want to achieve for sure,

i razmislite o tome.

Kad malo stavite u perspektivu, videćete koliko je to u stvari When you put it into perspective, you'll see how much it really is

važno. Pod broj jedan da important. Under number one yes

neke brige postaju nevažne. some worries become irrelevant.

Pod broj dva, da neke stvari postaju važne Under number two, that some things become important

i dolazi im vreme da ih rešavate. and it's time for you to solve them.

Znači, kada biste stvarno znali danas da su So, if you really knew today that they are

vam dani odbrojani,

kako biste promenili svoj život? how would you change your life?

Razmislite o tome. Meni je to Think about it. That's me

često onako often like that

kao da me neko uhvati ovako i prodrma me like someone grabs me like this and shakes me

kao: "Aman, Slavice!"

Kad ja sebi postavim to pitanje, dobijem tu perspektivu When I ask myself that question, I get that perspective

da se prodrmam, da se probudim, da se osvestim, to shake, to wake up, to come to my senses,

i da kažem sebi: "Ma baš me briga da se nerviram zbog ovoga, boli me uvo". and to say to myself: "I don't really care if I get annoyed about this, my ear hurts".

Ili, na primer, kažem sebi Or, for example, I tell myself

"Čekaj, uradiću ja to!" "Wait, I'll do it!"

"Što bih čekala da to bude nekad" "I would wait for it to be sometime"

"kad... ovo ili ono. Ma sad ću sebi to da priuštim!" "when... this or that. But now I'm going to afford it!"

Mislimo kao da ćemo živeti večno We think as if we will live forever

nismo uopšte svesni svakoga dana da ćemo umreti nekad i da we are not at all aware every day that we will die sometime and yes

nemamo pojma kad će to da bude i može stvarno da bude we have no idea when it will be and it can really be

brže nego što smo mislili i uvek je brže nego što smo planirali.

Verujte, uvek je brže nego što smo planirali. Believe me, it's always faster than we planned.

I zato je važno da stvarno razmislite o tome. And that's why it's important that you really think about it.

Znam da je ovo sada poslednje veče u godini I know this is now the last night of the year

i svi sada slave i raduju se and everyone is now celebrating and rejoicing

i ja želim stvarno da malo drugačije sa vama ovo veče provedem and I really want to spend this evening with you a little differently

a to je da vas pokrenem da razmišljate. and that is to get you thinking.

I znate, to je specifično za mene. And you know, it's specific to me.

Vi koji me pratite dugo, znate da je to nešto što Those of you who have been following me for a long time know that this is something that

ja zaista želim da vas pokrenem, i really want to get you started

da vi razmišljate, da se ohrabrite da stvari koje su that you think, that you are encouraged to things that are

stvarno važne u vašem životu really important in your life

i zbog kojih ćete sutra da volite svoj život and because of which you will love your life tomorrow

jer to je poenta.

Stvarno, kada dođe taj poslednji dan Really, when that last day comes

sledeće godine ili one tamo, next year or so,

godine ili koje god godine year or whatever year

dođe, za 40 ili 50 godina, come, in 40 or 50 years,

vi zaista možete da pogledate unazad u svoj život i da you can really look back on your life and yes

kažete: "Wow, kreirala sam"

"fenomenalan život, živela sam predivan život"

"vredelo ga je živeti".

To je ono što ja za vas želim.

Zato, kao prvo danas That's why, first of all today

želim da vam se svima zahvalim koji me pratite, I want to thank all of you who follow me,

mnogo sam srećna i mnogo mi znači, jer znam da je danas vreme resurs

i pažnja i vreme su resursi koji su both attention and time are resources that are

stvarno dragoceni i vi ga poklanjate really precious and you give it away

ovim mojim videima

i nadam se da vam nešto znače.

I nadam se da vam nešto pomažu. And I hope they are of some help to you.

Meni mnogo znači kada komentarišete i zato hvala It means a lot to me when you comment, so thank you

svima koji komentarišete takođe

jer kad ja znam šta to vama znači, because when I know what it means to you,

onda to mene pokreće da snimam ovakvih videa više then that motivates me to make more videos like this

i da budem produktivnija i da uživam u tome and to be more productive and enjoy it

i stvarno sam srećna kad mi napišete. and I'm really happy when you write to me.

Pišite mi dole čega biste voleli još da ima Write me below what else you would like to see

jer ja planiram za sledeću godinu da nastavim ovako da radim because I plan for next year to continue working like this

volela bih što više da odgovorim na vaše neke potrebe, I would like to answer some of your needs as much as possible,

pritisnite SUBSCRIBE, ako vam se ovo sviđa. Znam da

pola ljudi koji gledaju ovo jesu već subscriber-i, ali znam da half of the people watching this are already subscribers, but I know that

pola njih koji gledaju nisu subscriber-i half of those watching are not subscribers

Pritisnite subscribe i onda ćete uvek biti obavešteni šta ima novo Press subscribe and then you will always be informed about what's new

i uvek ono što je novo je nešto što je vama korisno. and always what is new is something that is useful to you.

Nadam se da je tako. Napišite mi I hope so. Write me

šta biste još voleli

i želim vam stvarno predivnu 2021. godinu

da uživate u svemu onome što to enjoy everything that

već imate, da naučite da cenite ono you already have, to learn to appreciate it

već imate, da budete zahvalni na svim blagodetima you already have, to be grateful for all the blessings

koje već imate i da which you already have and yes

ostvarite sve svoje želje koje make all your wishes come true

još imate

ali da umete da poređate šta je stvarno važno i zato vam but to be able to sort out what is really important to you

je ovo pitanje danas možda

korisno. Razmišljajte, pišite mi...

Sve vas ljubim i želim vam srećnu Novu godinu! I love you all and wish you a happy New Year!