Ko kontroliše VAŠ život? Wer kontrolliert DEIN Leben? Who controls your life?

Dragi moji, dobro mi došli!

Ja sam Slavica Squire i ovo je moj YouTube kanal

a ovo iza mene je prelepa Opatija. and this behind me is the beautiful Opatija.

Danas želim sa vama da pričam o tome Today I want to talk to you about that

ko upravlja vašim životom? who rules your life?

zašto je to u stvari normalno postalo why has it actually become normal

da neko drugi upravlja našim životom? that someone else controls our life?

Kako se to u stvari desilo i šta možemo da uradimo How it actually happened and what we can do

da preuzmemo kontrolu nad svojim životom? to take control of our life?

Pogledajte video do kraja Watch the video till the end

jer će vam se sigurno dopasti i imaćete neke nove ideje because you will surely like it and you will have some new ideas

i neka nova razmišljanja and some new thoughts

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kako biste stalno dobijali informacije o tome to keep you informed about it

šta ima novo na mom kanalu

jer ovde imate stalno savete because you always have advice here

za to kako da kreirate život i posao koje ćete da obožavate. for how to create a life and business you'll love.

Šta se u stvari dešava? What's really going on?

Od malih nogu, još kada smo deca From a young age, even when we were children

mi se nekako naučimo na to we somehow learn to do it

da drugi ljudi upravljaju našim životom. that other people rule our lives.

I onda znate kao da ona komandna tabla And then you know like that dashboard

ako zamislimo naš život kao if we imagine our life as

avion ili neko vozilo koje an airplane or some vehicle which

ide u nekom pravcu going in some direction

i ima komandnu tablu and has a dashboard

komandna tabla uopšte nije okrenuta ka nama.

Komandna tabla je još od malih nogu okrenuta The dashboard has been turned around since childhood

ka drugim ljudima, tako da drugi ljudi to other people, so that other people

pritiskaju naše dugmiće they push our buttons

i mi, u stvari, samo reagujemo. and we are, in fact, just reacting.

Ceo život reagujemo na nešto. All our lives we react to something.

Roditelji znaju šta je za nas dobro,

šta treba da učimo, šta ne treba da radimo what we should study, what we should not do

kako treba da se ponašamo, how should we behave

kako ne treba da se ponašamo,

šta treba da želimo, šta je glupo da želimo,

sve znaju bolje od nas. they know everything better than us.

Onda posle toga to budu nastavnici, Then after that it will be the teachers,

kasnije budu supružnici, later be spouses,

i šefovi, and bosses,

i tako život prolazi, a mi jednostavno and so life goes by, and we simply

s vremenom dobijemo taj neki osećaj over time we get that feeling

da to uopšte nije naš život. that it is not our life at all.

i da to uopšte nismo mi. and that it's not us at all.

Jer ta tabla je s druge strane, ljudi pritiskaju, Because that board is on the other side, people are pressing,

mi reagujemo,

ljudi pritiskaju, mi reagujemo.

I tako život, nekako And so is life, somehow

Stignemo u neku tačku života gde počnemo da se pitamo We reach a point in life where we start to wonder

"Otkud ja ovde?" "Where did I come from?"

"Šta ja ovo živim?"

"Otkud meni ovakav život i šta će meni uopšte ovako nešto?" "Where did I get this kind of life and what is the point of something like this?"

"Otkud sam se našla u ovome?" "How did I get into this?"

Kada dođemo u tačku svog života kada uopšte sebi postavimo to pitanje, When we come to a point in our lives when we even ask ourselves that question,

mi smo jako puno dobili i napredovali smo we have gained a lot and we have progressed

mnogo više od ostalih. much more than others.

To nam daje šansu That gives us a chance

da preokrenemo tablu ka sebi. to turn the board towards us.

i da počnemo sami da upravljamo svojim životom. and to start managing our own life.

I za to postoji metodologija And there is a methodology for that

NLP i coaching NLP and coaching

kada sam upoznala, shvatila sam da je to u stvari metodologija when I met, I realized that it is actually a methodology

koja će mi dati moć which will give me power

u moje ruke into my hands

i kada sam to iskusila, and when I experienced it,

kada sam počela da okrećem tu tablu ka sebi, when I started to turn that board towards me,

onda sam shvatila da je divno da ponudim to then I realized that it was wonderful to offer it

i vama i drugim ljudima, da nauče kako da and you and other people, to learn how to

sami upravljaju svojim životom. they manage their own lives.

I kako sam ja počela da upravljam sama svojim životom, And as I began to manage my own life,

i da preokrećem to

dugmiće sa moje strane učinim funkcionalnim, make the buttons on my side functional,

tako su drugi ljudi počeli da udaraju sve snažnije so the other people started hitting harder and harder

u te dugmiće s druge strane, into those buttons on the other side,

i to su, znate, one poznate stvari koje and it's, you know, those familiar things that

koje ste vi verovatno čuli i koje vam govore which you have probably heard and which speak to you

"Ma gde ćeš ti?", "Ma jeste, samo tebe čekaju..." "Where are you going?", "Yes, they are waiting for you..."

"Ma hajde, molim te, smiri se". "Come on, please, calm down."

"Ma daj, uzmi se u pamet". "Come on, come to your senses".

"Ma šta ćeš ti?"

Jer to je bio momenat kada sam ja rešila da promenim svoj život Because that was the moment when I decided to change my life

da uzmem svoj život u svoje ruke, to take my life into my own hands,

i da uradim po svome, da and to do my own thing, yes

da radim ono što volim, da živim tamo gde volim to do what I love, to live where I love

da živim sa onim koga volim to live with the one I love

i da moj život bude moja kreacija, and let my life be my creation,

a ne kreacija nekih klišea and not the creation of some clichés

"Tako se treba", "tako mora" i tako dalje. "That's how it should be", "that's how it has to be" and so on.

Ali, kažem vam, oni su počeli sve više da udaraju po tim dugmićima s druge strane But I'm telling you, they started hitting those buttons more and more on the other side

koji su s vremenom, što sam ja više učila NLP

što sam više primenjivala coaching i NLP na svoj život the more I applied coaching and NLP to my life

postali nefunkcionalni. became non-functional.

Jer ja sam sve dugmiće okrenula ka sebi Because I turned all the buttons towards me

i sama sada pritiskam svoje dugmiće I'm pushing my own buttons now

i sama sada radim

na tome kako ću da kreiram život on how I'm going to create a life

i da održavam život koji zaista and to maintain a life that really

volim i obožavam. I love and adore.

Zato vam od srca preporučujem That's why I heartily recommend it to you

Da se raspitate, gde god da ste To inquire, wherever you are

za neku NLP edukaciju, coaching edukaciju

svejedno odakle krenete, no matter where you start,

svakako ćete imati you will definitely have

fenomenalan benefit i ljudi će vas pitati šta se s vama dešava a phenomenal benefit and people will ask you what's going on with you

i vi ćete možda moći da objasnite to and you may be able to explain it

mi imamo fantastične edukacije, dole imate link we have fantastic educations, you have the link below

kliknite i uzmite svoj život u svoje ruke click and take your life into your own hands

Krenite sa tim! Ako se ne osećate više dobro u svojoj koži Go with it! If you no longer feel good in your own skin

ako imate osećaj da je krajnje vreme da nešto promenite, if you feel like it's high time to change something,

Krenite, uzmite svoj život u svoje ruke, Go take your life in your hands,

krenite da sve dugmiće okrećete ka sebi, start turning all the buttons towards you,

i da sami upravljate svojim životom, and to manage your own life,

Da je lako, svako bi. If it was easy, everyone would.

Nije lako, ali je moguće. It is not easy, but it is possible.

I to je ono što je važno. And that is what is important.

Moguće je dok gledate ove videe, It is possible while watching these videos,

verovatno, ako me duže pratite, već ste počeli probably, if you've been following me for a while, you've already started

polako da upravljate nekim aspektima svog života, to slowly manage some aspects of your life,

ali ako hoćete to da utvrdite, da to postane nešto što je normalno u vašem životu, but if you want to establish it, to make it something that is normal in your life,

da ste vi tvorac svog predivnog života, that you are the creator of your beautiful life,

onda vam predlažem da se upišete na temeljnu, ozbiljnu edukaciju then I suggest you enroll in a thorough, serious education

i da krenete svojim putem,

i da krenete svojom stazom. and to follow your own path.

Sve vas ljubim, I love you all,

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