How to Learn a Language the LAZY Way
Hi there, Steve Kaufmann here. Today I want to talk about habits, habits of a lazy language learner. Remember if you enjoy these videos, please subscribe, click on the bell for notifications. Yeah, I want to talk about my language learning style now. Uh, and what I would call being a lazy language learner, which doesn't necessarily mean that you aren't being a successful language learner.
It just means that you're being lazy the way I'm being lazy. And so there are seven habits I think that we need to acquire if we're going to be effective, successful, lazy language learners, the first is to set low goals. Okay, so on my 90-Day Challenge, I've set my goal for creating LingQs at 13 for Arabic and 13 for Persian.
And there was a time when I was trying to do a hundred new LingQs in Arabic, Persian, and Turkish. It was simply too much. Um, so I've changed my style. Now I set low goals. Now I regularly exceed these goals if I look at my statistics, but the low goal just gets me going. I don't see, you know that I, I don't feel any great burden or obligation I just get started.
And once I'm launched, I'll generally, you know, exceed my goals. But my first habit therefore, is to set low goals. Now I have a bit of a cheat sheet here and I'm going to make sure I don't forget. The second thing is don't compete with others. I'm not competing with other people. Uh, in my challenge, I'm not comparing myself to others.
Some people are going faster. I see that I'm ranked 1,572 on my streak. That's fine. Uh, some people are going to pronounce better. Some people are going to learn faster, slower, whatever. It doesn't matter, I'm learning it for myself. So I'm not competing. It reduces the stress level. Anything that reduces the stress level makes learning more enjoyable, makes learning more effective.
The next thing is to be a lazy language you've got to go with the flow, do things that you want to do. For example, uh, I'm on my Arabic and Persian challenge, but lo and behold, my wife starts watching a Danish series on Netflix and I love listening to Danish and there's lots of words I don't understand.
So I say, I'm going to do a bit of Danish. So I spent a day out of my week or more listening to the mini stories in Danish, uh, Hans Christian Anderson stories in Danish, uh, saving a bunch of Danish words. So that I have some sense of some of these words that I hear in this, uh, TV series called The Sea View Hotel that I don't understand.
And now I understand that a lot better. Uh, similarly I started watching an Egyptian movie for fun. So follow your wishes. And I guess that ties into the fourth habit of a lazy language learning learner, and that is treat language learning as a form of entertainment. Okay, and include entertainment. So obviously, when I watched the Danish series, I understand a lot of it.
And by doing a little work on LingQ, I understand a lot more, uh, with the movies, the Egyptian movies, I'm speaking with my tutor or at least we're going over the mini stories in Egyptian Arabic, which is different from standard Arabic. And my hope is that I'll understand Egyptian movies better, but watching an Egyptian movie, like the movie I saw, I think it's called, uh, Asmaa uh, about a woman who has AIDS in Egypt.
I can enjoy the movie. I get the... I hear the language. I don't really understand much of it, but it's a form of entertainment. It brings me into the culture, language learning is... should be entertainment as well. It shouldn't just be routine and drills and that kind of thing. So allow yourself to be entertained.
Um, another thing about being a lazy language learner is I don't prepare for my sessions with my tutor. I don't prepare, I just show up, um, with Mohammed and Egyptian Arabic, we just open up a mini story, I read a bit of it. Then maybe we have some questions on it. Then we fade into a discussion of something else.
In Egyptian Arabic or in Standard Arabic more, if we're free conversation, it's more Standard Arabic than Egyptian Arabic. I struggle in both, but I don't prepare. I just show up and, and again, whatever exposure I get, whatever I'm doing with the language, engaging with the language during that hour with Mohammed is all to the good.
So no need to get hung up about preparing for the session, lazy language learner, you just show up one-on-one and benefit. Another important... number six habit of a lazy language learner is when you're tired of doing something, go and do something else. Introduce is a lot of variety. As long as you are engaging with the language you are achieving something.
So you're tired of listening, go do more reading. I sometimes feel I have to push myself a little bit on the reading because I think the reading is, is essential to acquiring vocabulary. Uh, obviously the listening is easier to do while I'm doing other chores, um, but uh, introduce movies and switch from one language to another, uh, introduce variety around it.
Keeps it interesting. You have less of a sense that you're constantly sort of pounding on the same door. Variety keeps things interesting. Enables you to be a lazy language or, and the final seventh habit of a lazy language learner is in a way don't measure yourself. Don't compare yourself to what you did before or where you would like to be, or what other people do don't measure.
Accept the fact that the process is success. Success is the fact that you are engaging with the language, accept the fact that whatever you're doing as a lazy language learner, it is helping you. It is helping the brain get used to the language. Some days you would like to be better. Some days you're better than you thought you were.
Uh, sometimes you feel you have achieved a lot over the last three months. Some days you feel you're treading water. It doesn't matter. The fact that you are engaging with the language is in itself success. The fact that you are enjoying the process, the fact that you are continuing to get involved with the language, listening, reading, watching movies, speaking, whenever you're doing that is that that makes you successful because you're continuing to do it.
And if you continue to do it, and if you enjoy the process, even as a lazy language learner, you will reach your goals faster than, in my opinion, forcing yourself to do things that you don't want to do. So there you have the seven habits of a lazy language learner, which I consider myself to be. Although I do spend a lot of time with my languages.
Bye for now.