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Valuetainment, The Rise Of Weak Men (2)

The Rise Of Weak Men (2)

They give us this trophy that my dad has till today, a last place trophy.

And he puts it right there and he says, you know why we have this trophy?

To remind you how bad you lost.

It's almost like, experience the pain, son.

And I'm like, dude, throw that thing away.

He says, no, you lost by 104 points.

Look at the psyche of a father.

A mother would say, why would you do that to him?

That hurts his feelings.

My dad's like, that's exactly what he needs.

The pain of a loss.

Makes a man come back and improve.

Makes him stay up late at night practicing while everybody else is sleeping.

Makes this guy say, one day I'm going to prove to the world that I'm a winner.

So, going back to you.

There's nothing wrong with competing.

There's nothing wrong with losing.

As long as you keep showing up and competing, eventually, you're going to get your shot.

But you're better off being a capitalist than being a socialist.

Because being a socialist is just not attractive.

Final thoughts here.

Look, as you're going through the process from being a boy to a man, or from a man to

a man's man, many times you're by yourself.

Say you don't have a father figure.

Say you don't have a strong male role model.

You don't know who to talk to.

You're trying to please everybody.

Your mom's telling you, but that's not the way to behave.

And you don't have another man to bounce off the idea to think if it's a good idea or not.

You're like, okay, I'm going to please my mom.

I'm going to please my teacher, who's a woman.

I'm going to please my girl, who's a female.

I'm going to please my girlfriend's mom.

You're trying to please everybody, and you're becoming less and less and less of a man.

And you're in the car by yourself saying, man, I'm losing my identity.

I don't even know who I am.

Then, you lean towards making bad decisions.

Look, take your time out away from everybody and sit down and say, what do I stand for?

What are your values and principles?

What do you stand for as a man?

What do you want to do with your life?

What kind of a leader do you want to be in your life?

You!

Who do you want to be?

Not what everybody's trying to force you to become.

Who do you want to be?

Then go solve for that, and when you do that, be prepared for some people to not like it.

That includes a lot of women in your life.

Makes sense.

And then all of a sudden, you're going to be like, oh my God, I'm finding more men like

myself out there.

Fantastic!

They're out there.

They're everywhere.

You can find them.

Just like yourself.

You're not the only one that's thinking what you're thinking right now.

But you want to be a man's man.

The world gives you more opportunities when you do so.

We are living in a very, very competitive environment.

So if you got value from this video, give it a thumbs up, subscribe to the channel,

and I got two things I want to share with you.

One, I made another video titled, 20 Rules for Young Men.

If you've never watched it, you must watch this one.

And we have a quiz for you to find out what you're driven by.

You can click here or go to pbdquiz.com to find out what motivates you and what drives

you.

Take care everybody.

Bye bye.

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The Rise Of Weak Men (2) El|Auge|de|hombres|débiles Der Aufstieg der schwachen Männer (2) La montée des hommes faibles (2) 弱者の台頭 (2) 약자의 부상 (2) Powstanie słabych mężczyzn (2) A ascensão dos homens fracos (2) Восхождение слабых мужчин (2) Zayıf Adamların Yükselişi (2) Повстання слабких (2) 弱者的崛起 (2) El Auge De Los Hombres Débiles (2)

They give us this trophy that my dad has till today, a last place trophy. |||este|trofeo|||||||||| Nos dan este trofeo que mi papá tiene hasta hoy, un trofeo de último lugar.

And he puts it right there and he says, you know why we have this trophy? |||||||||te|||||| Y lo pone justo allí y dice, ¿sabes por qué tenemos este trofeo?

To remind you how bad you lost. Para recordarte lo mal que perdiste.

It's almost like, experience the pain, son. es|casi|como|experimenta|el|dolor|hijo Es casi como, experimenta el dolor, hijo.

And I'm like, dude, throw that thing away. y|yo estoy|como|amigo|tira|eso|cosa|afuera Y yo digo, amigo, tira esa cosa.

He says, no, you lost by 104 points. él|dice|no|tú|perdiste|por|puntos Él dice, no, perdiste por 104 puntos.

Look at the psyche of a father. |||psikoloji||| mira|a|la|psique|de|un|padre Mira la psicología de un padre.

A mother would say, why would you do that to him? una|madre|verbo auxiliar condicional|diría|por qué|verbo auxiliar condicional|tú|haces|eso|a|él Una madre diría, ¿por qué harías eso con él?

That hurts his feelings. eso|hiere|sus|sentimientos Eso le duele.

My dad's like, that's exactly what he needs. mi|papá|dice|eso es|exactamente|lo que|él|necesita Mi papá dice, eso es exactamente lo que necesita.

The pain of a loss. el|dolor|de|una|pérdida El dolor de una pérdida.

Makes a man come back and improve. hace|un|hombre|volver|atrás|y|mejorar Hace que un hombre regrese y mejore.

Makes him stay up late at night practicing while everybody else is sleeping. hace|él|quedarse|despierto|tarde|en|la noche|practicando|mientras|todos|los demás|está|durmiendo Hace que se quede despierto hasta tarde practicando mientras todos los demás están durmiendo.

Makes this guy say, one day I'm going to prove to the world that I'm a winner. hace|este|tipo|dice|un|día|voy a|ir|a|probar|a|el|mundo|que|soy|un|ganador Hace que este tipo diga, un día voy a demostrarle al mundo que soy un ganador.

So, going back to you. así que|volviendo|atrás|a|ti Así que, volviendo a ti.

There's nothing wrong with competing. ||||yarışmak no|nada|malo|con|competir No hay nada de malo en competir.

There's nothing wrong with losing. no|nada|malo|con|perder No hay nada de malo en perder.

As long as you keep showing up and competing, eventually, you're going to get your shot. mientras|largo|como|tú|sigas|mostrando|arriba|y|compitiendo|eventualmente|tú eres|vas|a|obtener|tu|oportunidad Mientras sigas presentándote y compitiendo, eventualmente, tendrás tu oportunidad.

But you're better off being a capitalist than being a socialist. pero|tú eres|mejor|mejor|siendo|un|capitalista|que|siendo|un|socialista Pero es mejor ser capitalista que ser socialista.

Because being a socialist is just not attractive. porque|ser|un|socialista|es|simplemente|no|atractivo Porque ser socialista simplemente no es atractivo.

Final thoughts here. finales|pensamientos|aquí Pensamientos finales aquí.

Look, as you're going through the process from being a boy to a man, or from a man to mira|como|tú estás|pasando|por|el|proceso|de|ser|un|niño|a|un|hombre|o|de|un|hombre|a Mira, mientras pasas por el proceso de ser un niño a un hombre, o de un hombre a

a man's man, many times you're by yourself. un|de un hombre|hombre|muchas|veces|tú estás|solo|ti mismo un hombre de verdad, muchas veces estás solo.

Say you don't have a father figure. di|tú|no|tienes|un|padre|figura Di que no tienes una figura paterna.

Say you don't have a strong male role model. di|tú|no|tienes|un|fuerte|masculino|papel|modelo Di que no tienes un modelo a seguir masculino fuerte.

You don't know who to talk to. tú|no|sabes|a quién|a|hablar|a No sabes con quién hablar.

You're trying to please everybody. tú estás|tratando|de|complacer|a todos Estás tratando de complacer a todos.

Your mom's telling you, but that's not the way to behave. tu|mamá|está diciendo|tú|pero|eso es|no|la|manera|a|comportarse Tu mamá te lo está diciendo, pero esa no es la manera de comportarse.

And you don't have another man to bounce off the idea to think if it's a good idea or not. y|tú|no|tienes|otro|hombre|a|rebotar|de|la|idea|a|pensar|si|es|una|buena|idea|o|no Y no tienes a otro hombre con quien discutir la idea para pensar si es una buena idea o no.

You're like, okay, I'm going to please my mom. tú estás|como|bien|yo estoy|voy|a|complacer|mi|mamá Estás como, está bien, voy a complacer a mi mamá.

I'm going to please my teacher, who's a woman. yo estoy|voy|a|complacer|mi|maestro|que es|una|mujer Voy a complacer a mi maestra, que es una mujer.

I'm going to please my girl, who's a female. yo|voy|a|complacer|mi|niña|que es|una|mujer Voy a complacer a mi chica, que es una mujer.

I'm going to please my girlfriend's mom. yo|voy|a|complacer|mi|novia|mamá Voy a complacer a la madre de mi novia.

You're trying to please everybody, and you're becoming less and less and less of a man. tú|tratando|a|complacer|todos|y|tú eres|convirtiéndote|menos|y|menos|y|menos|de|un|hombre Estás tratando de complacer a todos, y te estás convirtiendo en menos y menos y menos hombre.

And you're in the car by yourself saying, man, I'm losing my identity. ||||||||||||kimliğimi y|tú estás|en|el|carro|por|ti mismo|diciendo|hombre|yo estoy|perdiendo|mi|identidad Y estás en el coche solo diciendo, hombre, estoy perdiendo mi identidad.

I don't even know who I am. yo|no|siquiera|sé|quién|yo|soy Ni siquiera sé quién soy.

Then, you lean towards making bad decisions. ||eğilmek|||| entonces|tú|te inclinas|hacia|tomar|malas|decisiones Entonces, tiendes a tomar malas decisiones.

Look, take your time out away from everybody and sit down and say, what do I stand for? mira|toma|tu|tiempo|fuera|lejos|de|todos|y|siéntate|abajo|y|di|qué|haces|yo|defiendo|por Mira, tómate un tiempo lejos de todos y siéntate y di, ¿qué defiendo?

What are your values and principles? qué|son|tus|valores|y|principios ¿Cuáles son tus valores y principios?

What do you stand for as a man? qué|verbo auxiliar|tú|te posicionas|por|como|un|hombre ¿Qué representas como hombre?

What do you want to do with your life? qué|verbo auxiliar|tú|quieres|a|hacer|con|tu|vida ¿Qué quieres hacer con tu vida?

What kind of a leader do you want to be in your life? qué|tipo|de|un|líder|verbo auxiliar|tú|quieres|a|ser|en|tu|vida ¿Qué tipo de líder quieres ser en tu vida?

You! ¡Tú!

Who do you want to be? quién|verbo auxiliar|tú|quieres|a|ser ¿Quién quieres ser?

Not what everybody's trying to force you to become. no|lo que|todos están|tratando|a|forzar|te|a|convertir No lo que todos están tratando de obligarte a convertirte.

Who do you want to be? quién|verbo auxiliar|tú|quieres|a|ser ¿Quién quieres ser?

Then go solve for that, and when you do that, be prepared for some people to not like it. entonces|ve|resuelve|por|eso|y|cuando|tú|lo|eso|sé|preparado|para|algunas|personas|a|no|gustar|eso Entonces ve a resolver eso, y cuando lo hagas, prepárate para que a algunas personas no les guste.

That includes a lot of women in your life. eso|incluye|a|mucho|de|mujeres|en|tu|vida Eso incluye a muchas mujeres en tu vida.

Makes sense. hace|sentido Tiene sentido.

And then all of a sudden, you're going to be like, oh my God, I'm finding more men like y|entonces|todo|de|una|repentina|tú eres|vas|a|estar|como|oh|mi|Dios|yo estoy|encontrando|más|hombres|como Y de repente, vas a decir, oh Dios mío, estoy encontrando más hombres como

myself out there. yo mismo|afuera|allí yo mismo allá afuera.

Fantastic! Fantástico ¡Fantástico!

They're out there. Ellos están|afuera|allí Están ahí fuera.

They're everywhere. Ellos están|en todas partes Están en todas partes.

You can find them. tú|puedes|encontrar|ellos Puedes encontrarlos.

Just like yourself. así|como|tú mismo Al igual que tú.

You're not the only one that's thinking what you're thinking right now. tú eres|no|el|único|uno|que está|pensando|lo que|tú estás|pensando|ahora|ahora No eres el único que está pensando lo que estás pensando ahora mismo.

But you want to be a man's man. pero|tú|quieres|a|ser|un|hombre|hombre Pero quieres ser un hombre de verdad.

The world gives you more opportunities when you do so. el|mundo|da|te|más|oportunidades|cuando|tú|haces|eso El mundo te da más oportunidades cuando lo haces.

We are living in a very, very competitive environment. nosotros|estamos|viviendo|en|un|muy||competitivo|ambiente Estamos viviendo en un entorno muy, muy competitivo.

So if you got value from this video, give it a thumbs up, subscribe to the channel, |||||||||||beğeni||||| así que|si|tú|obtuviste|valor|de|este|video|da|eso|un|pulgar|arriba|suscríbete|al|el|canal Así que si obtuviste valor de este video, dale un pulgar arriba, suscríbete al canal,

and I got two things I want to share with you. y|yo|tengo|dos|cosas|que|quiero|a|compartir|contigo|ti y tengo dos cosas que quiero compartir contigo.

One, I made another video titled, 20 Rules for Young Men. |||||başlıklı|||| uno|yo|hice|otro|video|titulado|reglas|para|jóvenes|hombres Una, hice otro video titulado, 20 Reglas para Jóvenes.

If you've never watched it, you must watch this one. si|you have|nunca|visto|eso|tú|debes|ver|este|uno Si nunca lo has visto, debes ver este.

And we have a quiz for you to find out what you're driven by. y|nosotros|tenemos|un|cuestionario|para|ti|para|encontrar|descubrir|qué|you are|impulsado|por Y tenemos un cuestionario para que descubras qué te motiva.

You can click here or go to pbdquiz.com to find out what motivates you and what drives tú|puedes|hacer clic|aquí|o|ir|a|||para|encontrar|descubrir|qué|motiva|te|y|qué|impulsa Puedes hacer clic aquí o ir a pbdquiz.com para averiguar qué te motiva y qué te impulsa.

you. te a ti.

Take care everybody. cuiden|cuidado|todos Cuídense todos.

Bye bye. adiós|adiós Adiós.

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