Eib 2- Ep1-بنت ولا ولد؟ what|episode 1|girl|or|boy Eib 2- Ep1-Mädchen oder Junge? Eib 2- Ep1- Девочка или мальчик? Eib 2- Ep1- Girl or Boy?

لو كان بإمكاننا نتذكر أول صوت سمعناه لما أجينا على هالدنيا، ||we could||||||||this world If we could remember the first sound we heard when we came into this world,

على الأغلب رح يكون إشي مثل هيك. it would probably be something like this.

ياروحي، انتي مقطية لك! Oh my soul, you are so precious!

ولد! ولد! he was born| It's a boy! It's a boy!

ولد! ولد! he was born| It's a boy! It's a boy!

يا بي عويناه! O|my|my eyes Oh my, my eyes!

معنش، معنش، مبروك! sorry|sorry|congratulations Congratulations, congratulations, congratulations!

ممكن تكون هالأصوات ترحيبية، وممكن تكون العكس. it is possible|they are|these sounds|welcoming|and it is possible|they are|the opposite These sounds could be welcoming, or they could be the opposite.

كله بيعتمد على جنس المولود. everything|depends|on|gender|newborn It all depends on the gender of the newborn.

بحلقتنا اليوم رح نحاول نفهم أسئلة in our episode|today|will|we try|to understand|questions In our episode today, we will try to understand questions

كيف يمكن أن تكون هالأصوات ترحيبية؟ how|it is possible|to|they are|these sounds|welcoming How can these sounds be welcoming?

بحلقتنا اليوم رح نحاول نفهم أسباب هذي الإختلاف in our episode|today|I will|we will try|to understand|reasons|this|difference In our episode today, we will try to understand the reasons for this difference.

ورح نناقش علاقة الطب بتحديد جنس الأطفال. and I will|we will discuss|relationship|medicine|in determining|gender|children And we will discuss the relationship between medicine and determining the gender of children.

أنا تالا العيسى، بقدم لكم بودكاست عيب من إنتاج حبر وصوت. I am|Tala|Al-Eissa|I present|to you|podcast|Aib|from|production|Hibr|wa Sawt I am Tala Al-Essa, presenting to you the podcast "Ayb" produced by Hibr and Sawt.

قضايا واقعية بتتعلق بالنوع الاجتماعي issues|real|related to|gender|social Real issues related to gender.

اللي بنظر المجتمع ما زالت تعتبر مثير للجدل أو حتى محرمة. that|I see|society|not|still|considered|provocative|for debate|or|even|forbidden What society views is still considered controversial or even forbidden.

أو بكلمة عيب. or|in word|shame Or in other words, shameful.

فلما رحت وأنا بتفرج على الألتراساند وهو معاي so when|I went|and I|I was watching|at|ultrasound|and it|with me So when I went and was watching the ultrasound with me,

فبقول لي شو بدك تجيبه؟ so I say|to me|what|you want|to bring I asked him what do you want to bring?

قلت له تجيب ولد. I said|to him|you bring|a boy I told him you should have a son.

فبقول لي هيك يعني حابة إنت؟ so he says|to me|like this|it means|I want|you So he says to me, do you want that?

قلت له آه، قلت له إنت شو عندك دكتور؟ I said|to him|yes|I said|to him|you|what|you have|doctor I said yes, I asked him what do you have, doctor?

قال لي أنا عندي بنتين وبنت. he said|to me|I|I have|two daughters|and a daughter He told me I have two daughters and a daughter.

قال لي بس أنا بدي أقولك إنك رح يصير عندك إنتي كمان he said|to me|but|I|I want|to tell you|that you|will|become|you have|you|also He told me, but I want to tell you that you will also have.

ثلاث بنات وبنت. three|girls|and a girl Three girls and a boy.

لما قررت مونة إنها تحمل للمرة الرابعة كان هدفها واضح. when|she decided|Muna|that she|to get pregnant|for the time|fourth|was|her goal|clear When Mona decided to get pregnant for the fourth time, her goal was clear.

تجيب ولد. to have|a boy To have a boy.

يعني وأنا قبل ما أتزوج وأول ما اتزوجت كنت كتير أحس إنه يا الله I mean|and I|before|not|I get married|and first|not|I got married|I was|very|I feel|that|oh|God I mean, before I got married and right after I got married, I used to feel a lot like, oh my God.

الستات اللي بيقولوا بدهم ولاد ولا يعني إنه لازم تجيبوا ولد. the women|who|they say|they want|children|or|I mean|that|must|you have to have|a son The women who say they want kids, does that mean you have to have a boy?

إنه شو إيش هالتفاهة؟ that|what|what|this nonsense What is this nonsense?

يعني إنه خلص إنه بنت أو ولد خلص مجرد ما إنك جيبتي حدا يعني من صلبك I mean|that|enough|that|a daughter|or|a son|enough|just|that|you|you have had|someone|I mean|from|your own flesh I mean, whether it's a girl or a boy, it doesn't matter, just the fact that you brought someone from your own flesh.

وحدا تربيه على إنه يكون إنسان صالح ومخلص وفيه هاي استفادة كلها الحلو someone|raise him|to|that|he is|person|good|and loyal|and there is|this|benefit|all|the nice Only upbringing to be a good and loyal person, and there is all this beautiful benefit.

مش مهم ولا تحس. not|important|and not|you feel It doesn't matter, nor do you feel.

بغياب طفل ذكر بالعيلة شعرت مونة بفراغ عاطفي كانت مقتنعة إنه ما حد بيقدر يعبيل هيا with the absence of|child|male|in the family|I felt|Muna|with emptiness|emotional|she was|convinced|that|not|anyone|can|fill|it With the absence of a male child in the family, Mona felt an emotional void; she was convinced that no one could fill it.

غير ولد بيوفر لها محبة غير مشروطة. other than|boy|provides|to her|love|unconditional|conditional Only a boy provides her with unconditional love.

يعني فيه نوع من الحماية يمكن بيوفرها الزكار أو القدرة على إنه ممكن يعمل أشياء it means|there is|kind|of|protection|may|it provides|male|or|ability|to|that|possible|he does|things It means there is a kind of protection that the male might provide or the ability to do things.

مثلاً الهيئة ويعمل أشياء فيها ويعمل أشياء فيها ويعمل أشياء فيها for example|appearance|and he does|things|in it|and he does|things|in it|and he does|things|in it For example, the authority can do things and do things and do things.

يعني المجتمع ما رح يسمح لها إنها تعملها. it means|society|not|will|it allows|to her|that|she does it It means the society will not allow her to do them.

يعني البنت بكرة تتزوج إن كانت روحها بيت زوجها it means|girl|tomorrow|she marries|if|she is|her spirit|house|her husband It means the girl will get married tomorrow if her spirit is in her husband's house.

بتضل ممكن يحكمها المكان أو المساحة الجغرافية إنها تبعدها عني it remains|possible|it governs|place|or|space|geographical|that it|it distances|from me It might still be influenced by the place or geographical area that keeps it away from me.

بس أنا يمكن كنت أحس إنه لا الولد رح يضل مرتبط فيي أكتر هو وأنا مسؤولة منه but|I|maybe|I was|I feel|that|not|the boy|will|he remains|connected|to me|more|he|and I|responsible|for him But I might have felt that the boy would remain more connected to me since I am responsible for him.

أكتر من إنه أنا مسؤولة من البنت يعني فكنت بدي هذا النوع more|than|that|I|responsible|for|the girl|I mean|so I was|I wanted|this|type More than I am responsible for the girl, so I wanted this type.

إذا كانت بديها مرتبطة فيي أكتر هو وأنا مسؤولة منه if|she was|I wanted her|connected|to me|more|he|and I|responsible|for him If she wanted to be more connected to me, then I am responsible for him.

أكتر من إنه أنا مسؤولة من البنت يعني فكنت بدي هذا النوع more|than|that|I|responsible|for|girl|I mean|so I was|I wanted|this|type More than being responsible for the girl, I wanted this type.

إضافة إلى قناعتها وإرادتها الشخصية المجتمع كان له دور في تعزيز شعور مونة بن نقص addition|to|her conviction|and her will|personal|society|it was|to it|role|in|strengthening|feeling|Muna|of|deficiency In addition to her conviction and personal will, society played a role in enhancing Muna's feeling of deficiency.

مما زاد من تصميمها لإنجاب ولد which|increased|from|her determination|to have|boy This increased her determination to have a son.

لما جبت بنتي الثانية كل حدا بس ييجي بارك لي الله يعوض عليك when|I gave birth to|my daughter|second|every|person|as soon as|they come|they congratulate|to me|God|may compensate|on you When I had my second daughter, everyone who came to congratulate me would say, 'May God compensate you.'

كأنه أنت ما خلفتي يعني مرة وحدي وأنا بالمستشفى طبعاً أنا بولد بعملية as if|you|not|you left|I mean|once|alone|and I|in the hospital|of course|I|I am giving birth|by surgery It's like you didn't give birth, I mean, I was alone and I'm in the hospital, of course, I'm giving birth through surgery.

فشايفتني بتقول لي يا خالتي ليش شو معلك؟ so she saw me|she says|to me|oh|my aunt|why|what|is wrong with you So she saw me and said, 'Aunt, what's wrong with you?'

فتلقيتني شخصية مونة بن نقص ما انا ولدة وعملولي عملية so I received|personality|Muna|I am|lacking|not|I|I gave birth|and they did for me|surgery So I received the character of Mona, I didn't give birth, and they performed surgery on me.

فتقول لي وشو جبتي البركة؟ so she says|to me|and what|you brought|the blessing So she asks me, 'What did you bring, the blessing?'

بقول لها جبت بنت I say|to her|I brought|daughter I tell her I brought a girl.

تقول لي نعم وشقحوكي عشان جيبي بنت she says|to me|yes|and they pressured you|to|bring|daughter She tells me yes, and what did they do to you to bring a girl?

يعني أنا كتير زهلت أنه شو يعني؟ I mean|I|very|I was shocked|that|what|I mean I mean, I was really surprised, what does that mean?

يعني مش بني آدم إنها تيجي عالحياة عشان هاي بنت؟ I mean|not|human|being|that she|comes|to life|for|this|daughter I mean, it's not human for her to come to life just for this girl?

عرفت كتير دقت منها قلت لها شو أصدك؟ I knew|a lot|I called|her|I said|to her|what|you mean I knew a lot, I asked her what do you mean?

فهذه الأشياء يعني بتخليك هيك بتترك من غير ما أنت تحسي so these|things|I mean|they make you|like this|you leave|without|without|not|you|you feel These things make you feel this way without you realizing it.

بس ما تتوقع أنه كانوا هيقولك نفس الشيء لو كان عندك ولادين؟ but|not|you expect|that|they would|they would tell you|same|thing|if|you had|you have|two children But don't expect that they would say the same thing if you had two children?

ممكن كان يقولك إن شاء الله بتتقبل maybe|he would|he would tell you|that|||you will be accepted Maybe they would say, God willing, you will be accepted.

آه بس يعني مش كتير رح يتحسروا يعني ah|but|I mean|not|very|will|regret|I mean Oh, but I mean they won't regret it much.

مش هيقولولك الله يعود عليك not|they will say to you|God|return|to you They won't say 'may God return it to you'.

يعني مش كأنه عندك خسارة I mean|not|as if|you have|loss I mean, it's not like you have a loss.

يعني لا أنه انت عندك زي رصيد كبير لعندك ولادين I mean|no|that|you|you have|like|balance|big|to you|two children I mean, you have a large balance because you have two children.

لو إجابينات خلاص مش مشكلة يعني عرفتين؟ if|we have answered|enough|not|problem|that means|you understood If the answers are final, it's not a problem, you know?

بعد إنجاب البنت الرابعة كان عمر مونة 40 سنة after|giving birth to|the girl|fourth|was|age|Mouna|years After giving birth to the fourth girl, Mona was 40 years old.

وبالتالي حاول زوجها يقنعها أنه ما يرجعوا يحاولوا and therefore|he tried|her husband|to convince her|that|not|they return|to try Therefore, her husband tried to convince her not to try again.

خاصة في ظل الغلاء المعيشي especially|in|light|inflation|living Especially in light of the high cost of living.

ولكن ظلت مونة مصممة إنها تحاول مرة أخيرة but|she remained|Muna|determined|that she|she tries|time|last But Mona remained determined to try one last time.

ووعدت زوجها إنه هاي المرة رح تكون مضمونة and she promised|her husband|that|this|time|will|be|guaranteed And she promised her husband that this time it would be guaranteed.

الولد رح يجي يجي إن شاء أم أبغ the boy|will|come|come|if|he wants|or|I want The boy will come, God willing.

لأنه الطب رح يدخل because|medicine|will|enter Because medicine will intervene.

اقتنعت مونة إنه الحظ مش حليفها I convinced|Mouna|that|luck|not|her ally Mouna was convinced that luck was not on her side.

وبالتالي لجأت لما يسمى بالتشقيس الجيني مقبل الزرع and therefore|I resorted|to what|is called|genetic diagnosis|genetic|before|implantation Therefore, she resorted to what is called genetic diagnosis before implantation.

أو الـPGD وهي تقنية ظهرت بأول التسعينات or|PGD|and it|technique|appeared|in early|90s Or PGD, which is a technique that emerged in the early 1990s.

باتيح فرصة اختيار جنس المولود allowing|opportunity|to choose|gender|of the baby It allows the opportunity to choose the gender of the baby.

كان الهدف الأساسي من التقنية تحديد وتفادي الأمراض الوراثية was|goal|primary|of|technology|to determine|and to avoid|diseases|genetic The primary goal of the technology was to identify and avoid genetic diseases.

ولكن اتطور استخدامها لتحديد جنس الجنين but|evolved|its use|to determine|sex|fetus However, its use has evolved to determine the sex of the fetus.

عن طريق زراعة الجنين الحامل للجنس المرغوب في رحم الأم by|means|implantation|fetus|carrying|of the sex|desired|in|womb|mother By implanting the fetus of the desired sex in the mother's womb.

باستخدام التلقيح الصناعي أو ما يعرف بأطفال الأنابيب using|fertilization|artificial|or|what|known|as children|tubes Using artificial insemination or what is known as in vitro fertilization.

قابلت الدكتور عارف الخالدي لحتى أسمع رأيه بهذا الموضوع I met|the doctor|Aref|Al-Khalidi|in order to|I hear|his opinion|on this|topic I met Dr. Aref Al-Khalidi to hear his opinion on this subject.

الدكتور عارف بقوم بإجراء عملية الـPGD في الأردن the doctor|Aref|he performs|in conducting|procedure|PGD|in|Jordan Dr. Aref performs the PGD procedure in Jordan.

وهو حاليا رئيس الجامعية الأردنية للخصوبة والوراثة and he is|currently|president|association|Jordanian|for fertility|and genetics He is currently the president of the Jordanian Society for Fertility and Genetics.

نحن اليوم لا نتحدث عن اختيار جنس جنين we|today|not|we talk|about|choosing|gender|embryo Today, we are not talking about choosing the gender of the embryo.

لأنني نفسي أكره هذه الكلمة because I|myself|I hate|this|word Because I myself hate this word.

أنا أتحدث هنا عن موازنة الأسرة I|I talk|here|about|balancing|family I am talking here about family balancing.

وهو الـFamily Balancing and it is|the Family|Balancing This is the Family Balancing.

يعني لا يوجد أحد من حقه يأتي لي من بره العيادة it means|not|there is|anyone|from|his right|to come|to me|from|outside|the clinic It means that no one has the right to come to me from outside the clinic.

يقول لي أنا لحالة اتزوجت ولم أريد غير أولاد he says|to me|I|in case|I married|and not|I want|other than|children He tells me I got married and I only wanted children.

أنا لا أستطيع ساعدتك I|not|I can|I helped you I cannot help you.

أسرة لديها طفل أو طفلين family|has|child|or|two children A family with one or two children.

دعونا نقول طفلين على الأقل let's|say|two children|at|least Let's say at least two children.

يحق لهم إذا نفس الجنس أن يختاروا الجنس الثاني it is right|for them|if|same|gender|to|they choose|gender|second They have the right, if of the same sex, to choose the second gender.

لأن الأسرة الآن ليست معدد كالأول because|family|now|is not|plural|like the first Because the family now is not multiple as before.

أسرة ممتدة family|extended Extended family.

الناس يدوا يربيوا طفلين أو ثلاث أطفال بحد أقصى people|they want|they raise|two children|or|three|children|with a maximum|maximum People want to raise two or three children at most.

بسبب تكاليف المعيشة وصعوبة الحياة because of|costs|living|and difficulty|life Due to the cost of living and the difficulty of life

فالـOption أنهم يقوموا بإستمرار صعبه so the option|that they|they continue|continuously|difficult The option is that they continue to face difficulties

حتى يأتي الجنس المطلوب until|comes|gender|desired Until the desired gender comes

فأنت أعمالك تساعد على بناء أسرة سليمة so you|your work|helps|to|building|family|healthy Your work helps in building a healthy family

طبييا ونفسيا واجتماعيا medically|psychologically|socially Medically, psychologically, and socially.

بأكد الدكتور عارف أن معظم الخاضعين للعملية بعيادته I confirm|the doctor|Aref|that|most|those subjected|to the procedure|in his clinic Dr. Aref confirms that most of those undergoing the procedure in his clinic.

بفضله الدكر عن الأنثى he prefers|the male|over|the female Thanks to him, the male is preferred over the female.

ولكن بالرغم من ذلك but|despite|of|that However, despite that.

بيعتبر أن العملية إذا كان بيحكمها طوابط أخلاقية مفيدة he considers|that|the process|if|it was|it is governed by|controls|ethical|beneficial It is considered that the process, if governed by beneficial ethical constraints,

خاصة إنها ممكن تقلل من التفكك الأسري especially|that it|possible|it can reduce|from|disintegration|familial especially since it can reduce family disintegration,

اللي للأسف بينتج عن طلاق الزوج من زوجته أو الزواج عليها which|unfortunately|it results|from|divorce|husband|from|his wife|or|marriage|to her which unfortunately results from a husband divorcing his wife or marrying another,

في حال إنها ما ولدت دكر in|case|that she|not|she gave birth|male in case she did not give birth to a male.

أما المعاردين لهذه التقنية as for|opponents|to this|technology As for the opponents of this technology

فبيعتقدوا إنها بتدعي لزيادة التمييز والكراهية ضد النساء they believe that|that it|advocates|for increasing|discrimination|and hatred|against|women they believe that it promotes increased discrimination and hatred against women

خاصة في المجتمعات الدكورية especially|in|societies|patriarchal especially in male-dominated societies

اللي بتفضل إنجاب الدكور عن الإناث that|prefer|giving birth to|boys|over|girls that prefer giving birth to males over females

لأسباب تتعلق بحق الدكر في الورثة ونقل اسم العيلة for reasons|related|to the right|male|in|inheritance|and transferring|name|family For reasons related to the male's right in inheritance and carrying the family name.

واعتباره المعيل للوالدين عند الشيخوها and considering him|the provider|for the parents|with|their sheikh And considering him the provider for the parents when they are married.

بقدر الدكتور عارف عدد النساء اللي بيخضعوا لعملية أطفال الأنابيب as much as|the doctor|knows|number|of women|who|undergo|to the procedure|children|test tubes Dr. Aref knows the number of women undergoing in vitro fertilization.

فقط من أجل تحديد الجنس في الأردن only|for|the purpose of|determining|gender|in|Jordan Only for the purpose of gender selection in Jordan.

ما بين 1500 و2700 بالسنة الوحدة not|between|and|per year|alone Between 1500 and 2700 per year.

يوجد ما لا يقل عن 14 مركز في الأردن بيجروا العملية there are|not|not|less|than|center|in|Jordan|they perform|procedure There are at least 14 centers in Jordan that perform the procedure.

خلينا نرجع لمنا اللي قررت تخضع للتلقيح الصناعي let's|return|to the one|that|she decided|to undergo|to the fertilization|artificial Let's go back to the woman who decided to undergo artificial insemination.

بالرغم من إنها ما بتواجه أي مشاكل في الحمل although|of|that she|not|she faces|any|problems|in|pregnancy Even though she does not face any issues with pregnancy.

فطبعا شاورنا أنا وزوجي وقال لي قديش التكاليف so of course|we consulted|I|and my husband|he said|to me|how much|the costs So of course my husband and I consulted, and he asked me how much the costs are.

حتى كنا شارين بيت جديد even|we were|buying|house|new We had even bought a new house.

فقال لي طب هلأ بيت جديد وكمان he said|to me|well|now|house|new|and also So he said to me, 'Now a new house too?'

قلت له آه آه بيت جديد عشان بدنا نعمل غرفة لأحمد I said|to him|yes|yes|house|new|because|we want|to make|room|for Ahmad I said to him, 'Yes, yes, a new house because we want to make a room for Ahmed.'

وكانوا يعني كنت خالص نميت حالي أم أحمد يعني على المضمون And they meant, I was completely relying on my situation, Umm Ahmad, I mean, on the guaranteed.

إن رح أجي أحمد I will come, Ahmad.

التكلفة كانت تقريبا 3000 دينار The cost was approximately 3000 dinars.

بعد إجراءات طبية عديدة After many medical procedures.

إجا الوقت لزرع جنينين ذكور في رحم منا it came|time|to plant|two embryos|male|in|womb|of mine The time has come to plant two male embryos in Muna's womb.

أنا الحقيقة لما عرفت إني أنا حامل I|truth|when|I knew|that I|I|pregnant The truth is, when I found out that I am pregnant.

باتنين أجنة أولاد with two|embryos|boys With two male embryos.

شوفي الفرحة إني أنا يعني أشعر بدني إنه أنا يا الله look at|joy|that I|I|I mean|I feel|my body|that|I|oh|God Look at the joy, I mean I feel my body, oh God.

معقول بعد أربع بنات بدي أجيب كمان اتنين أولاد is it reasonable|after|four|girls|I want|to have|also|two|boys Is it reasonable that after having four daughters, I want to have two more sons?

قديش الله بيحبني how much|God|loves me How much does God love me?

إنه مرة واحدة يعني إيش يعني that|once|one|I mean|what|I mean What does it mean to be a mother once?

إيش هالفرحة العارمة اللي رح تصير فيي تخيلي what|this joy|overwhelming|that|will|happen|in me|imagine What a tremendous joy that will happen to me, just imagine!

كتير يعني حلقت في دنيا الأحلام a lot|means|I flew|in|world|dreams I have flown a lot in the world of dreams.

إنه أنا خلقت في دنيا الأحلام that|I|I was created|in|world|dreams I was created in the world of dreams.

وعندما أصبح أولاداً and when|I became|children And when I become a child.

كتير أحلقت في دنيا الأحلام a lot|I flew|in|world|dreams I have flown a lot in the world of dreams.

إنه أنا خلص ازهقت لون زهري it is|I|enough|I got tired of|color|pink It's me, I'm done, I'm tired of pink.

ازهقت باربي I got tired of|Barbie I'm tired of Barbie.

ازهقت صرت بدي مسدسات I got tired of|I became|I want|guns I'm tired, I want guns.

وهيك يعني إشي ذكوري يعني وشرطات and like this|means|something|masculine|means|and stripes And like, you know, something masculine, like stripes.

وصرت كيف بعمل خطط and I became|how|I make|plans And I became how I make plans.

يعني زي ما قلت لك أنا كتير بخطط يعني I mean|like|not|I said|to you|I|a lot|I plan|I mean I mean, as I told you, I plan a lot.

إنه كيف هاد الولد ما that|how|this|boy|not How this boy is not...

هدول الولدين ما بدي ياهم يكونوا these|boys|not|I want|them|to be I don't want these two boys to be...

يعني يتأثروا بخواتهم البنات means|they are affected|by their sisters|girls It means they are influenced by their sisters.

كيف بدي أخشنهم how|I want|to make them tough How am I supposed to toughen them up?

بديش يعني يكونوا مدللين I don't want|means|they are|spoiled I don't want them to be spoiled.

أو هيك يعني مدلعين or|like this|means|spoiled Or like, you know, pampered.

يعني بس عرفت وانبسطت كتير it means|just|I found out|and I was happy|a lot I just found out and I was really happy.

مش عارفة ليش فيه إشي من وراء not|I know|why|there is|something|from|behind I don't know why there's something behind it.

هيك كان يقرصني كان يقولي استني يا مونة like this|he was|pinching me|he was|telling me|wait|oh|Muna He used to pinch me and say, 'Wait, Muna.'

فيه إلك مفاجأة there is|for you|surprise There's a surprise for you.

بالشهر الثالث نزلت مونة واحد من الأجنة in the month|third|I found|supplies|one|of|embryos In the third month, one of the embryos was released.

ولكن ما كانت هاي المفاجأة but|not|it was|this|surprise But that was not the surprise.

المفاجأة الفعلية ظهرت بالشهر الرابع the surprise|actual|it appeared|in the month|fourth The actual surprise appeared in the fourth month.

لما إجا موعد السونار when|it came|time|ultrasound When the ultrasound appointment came.

أنا ولا مرة يعني زوجي راح شاف معاي جنس المرض I|not|once|I mean|my husband|he went|he saw|with me|type|disease I have never, I mean my husband went to see the disease with me.

بس أنا هالمرة أصرت أنه لا but|I|this time|I insisted|that|not But this time I insisted that no.

لازم تيجي معاي must|you come|with me You have to come with me.

بشان راح نشوف اليوم إشي جديد بالسونار because|we will|we will see|today|something|new|on the ultrasound Because we are going to see something new in the ultrasound today.

وراح تكون مفاجأة كتير حلو and will|be|surprise|very|nice And it will be a very nice surprise.

أنا إشي قاعدة يعني هيك وثقة بالنفس يعرفتي I|something|sitting|I mean|like this|and confidence|in myself|you know I am just sitting here, you know, with confidence.

خلاص لأول مرة بدخل عالسونار that's it|for the first|time|I am entering|to the ultrasound This is the first time I am going for the ultrasound.

مش خايفة أبدا not|afraid|at all I am not scared at all.

ولا فرقاني معي لأنه أنا إشي متأكدة and not|he cares|with me|because|I|something|sure And it doesn't matter to me because I am sure of one thing.

إنه راح يكون ولد that|will|be|boy That it will be a boy.

طبعاً الدكتور اللي عمل لي السونار of course|the doctor|who|did|for me|ultrasound Of course, the doctor who did the ultrasound for me.

مش نفس الدكتور اللي عمل لي تلقيح not|same|doctor|who|did|for me|insemination Is not the same doctor who did the insemination.

واحد تاني ما بعرف بالقصة one|other|not|I know|about the story Another one I don't know about the story.

ولا قلتله أنا إنه عملت أطفال أنابيب ولا إشي nor|I told him|I|that|I made|children|tubes|nor|anything Nor did I tell him that I had done IVF or anything.

بتفرج هيك عالسونار أنا عرفت I look|like this|at the ultrasound|I|I knew I was watching the ultrasound like this, I knew.

فبقولي يا ينبستي هاي جايتك عروس |oh|you must be happy|this|coming to you|bride So he tells me, 'Oh, this is your bride coming.'

هاي جايتك عروس this|I brought you|bride Here comes your bride

هاي جايتك عروس this|I brought you|bride Here comes your bride

فأنا إشي دي أقولك يعني so I|something|I|I tell you|I mean So I have something to tell you

يعني إشي حسيت ندمية لفت فيي كتير I mean|something|I felt|regret|I turned|on me|a lot I mean, I felt a lot of regret about this

وحسيت هيك يعني إنه المستشفى نهد عراسي and I felt|like this|I mean|that|the hospital|it collapsed|on my head And I felt like the hospital was collapsing on my head.

بقوله يعني كيف يعني عروس I tell him|I mean|how|I mean|bride I said to him, what do you mean, like a bride?

الدكتور قال لي آه إيه يا عروس حلوة the doctor|he said|to me|oh|yes|oh|bride|beautiful The doctor said to me, yes, yes, beautiful bride.

شوفي ما أسكعك كانت مباينة كتير look|not|I will bother you|it was|obvious|very Look, I wasn't exaggerating, it was very obvious.

فبقولي طب لها زعلاني شو عندك أنت so he says to me|well|to her|upset|what|you have|you So I said to him, 'Why are you upset, what's wrong with you?'

قلتله مش هيك القصة I told him|not|like this|the story I told him, 'That's not how the story goes.'

مش قصة أنا شو عندي قصة not|story|I|what|I have|story It's not about what I have, it's a story.

أنا عندي أربع بنات بس قصة إنه أنا عملت I|I have|four|daughters|but|story|that|I|I did I have four daughters, but the story is about what I did.

هيك هيك هيك عشان أجيب ولد like this|like this|like this|in order to|I get|boy This is how I get a boy.

ومفروض إني أنا متأكدة إنه هذا الجنين and supposed|that I|I|am sure|that|this|fetus And I should be sure that this fetus.

إنه هذا ولد that|this|boy That this is a boy.

بعد ما بحثت في الأمر اكتشفت مونة after|not|I searched|in|matter|I discovered|Muna After I researched the matter, I discovered Muna.

إنه حصل في خطأ في المختبر it|happened|in|error|in|laboratory There was an error in the laboratory

خلال غربلة السائل المنوي during|screening|fluid|seminal during the screening of the semen

فتم تخصيب البويضة بحيوان حامل لبنت and it was|fertilization|egg|with a sperm|carrying|for a girl so the egg was fertilized by a sperm carrying a girl

بدل ولد instead of|boy instead of a boy

مع إنه نسبة نجاح العملية عالي جدا with|that|rate|success|operation|high|very Although the success rate of the operation is very high.

وظل في نسبة خطأ بتتراوح ما بين 1 إلى 5% and remained|in|rate|error|ranging|not|between|to There remains a margin of error ranging from 1 to 5%.

المهم إنه كل فترة الحمل وأنا بعيت the important thing|that|every|period|pregnancy|and I|I sold The important thing is that throughout the pregnancy, I was selling.

كنت كتير كتير متأثرة وكتير ديبريست I was|very|very|affected|and very|depressed I was very, very affected and very depressed.

يعني إنه أنا رح أجيب البنت الخامسة it means|that|I|will|I will bring|the girl|fifth It means that I will bring the fifth girl.

سؤال خاص شوي بس question|special|a bit|but It's a bit of a personal question.

أه yes Yes.

ما فكرت بالإشهاد not|I thought|about the testimony I didn't think about the testimony.

لا ما فكرت لا لا no|not|I thought|no|no No, I didn't think about it, no, no.

لا لا no|no No, no.

يعني مش لهذا الدرجة الحلم تبعي إنه I mean|not|to this|degree|dream|my|that I mean, my dream isn't that extreme.

إنه أقصى على هذا لا بالعكس that|extreme|on|this|not|on the contrary It's not that extreme, on the contrary.

هلأ لما نولدت وسميتها هبة now|when|I was born|and I named her|Hiba Now when she was born, I named her Hiba.

لأنها هي بالحقيقة هبة because she|she|in reality|gift Because she is truly a gift.

يعني هي هدية I mean|she|gift I mean, she is a present.

وحمدت ربنا الحقيقة إنها كانت صحتها كتير منيحة and I thanked|our God|in reality|that she|she was|her health|very|good And I thanked God, in truth, that her health was very good.

بس بالرغم من هيك أنا نزلت من المستشفى but|despite|from|this|I|I got out|from|hospital But despite that, I left the hospital.

قلت بدي أرجع أحمل كمان مرة I said|I want to|I return|I carry|again|time I said I want to get pregnant again.

بدي أجيب الولد لرقم 6 I want to|I bring|boy|to number I want to have the boy at number 6.

بس بعدين يعني لما انكبرت شوي وهيك but|later|I mean|when|I grew up|a little|and such But later, I mean when I got a little older and stuff.

قلت لا خلص أنا ما بدي أكون أنانية I said|not|enough|I|not|want|to be|selfish I said, 'No, that's it, I don't want to be selfish.'

لأنه أنا صرت عم بكبر because|I|I became|progressive aspect marker|I am growing Because I have started to grow up.

فأنا ما كنت أتخيل أنا بس كان الهاجز تبعي so I|not|I was|I imagine|I|just|it was|the obsession|my I couldn't imagine, it was just my obsession.

اللي عامل ماسك وماحي تفكيري that|I am making|a mask|and I am erasing|my thinking That was holding me back and clouding my thoughts.

يعني أنا زي ما قلت لك مخططة كتير it means|I|like|not|I said|to you|I am planning|a lot I mean, as I told you, I have planned a lot.

بس أنا عم بدي أجيب ولد وخلص نقطة but|I|I am|I want|to have|a child|and that's it|point But I want to have a child, and that's it.

بغض النظر شو كان عمري بقدر ولا ما بقدر أربي regardless|of|what|it was|my age|I can|or not|not|I can|to raise Regardless of my age, whether I can or cannot raise a child.

هل هذا الاشي مفيد مضر is|this|thing|useful|harmful Is this thing beneficial or harmful?

خلص بدي أجيب أحمد يا عم بدي أجيب أحمد that's it|I want to|to bring|Ahmad|oh|uncle|I want to|to bring|Ahmad I want to bring Ahmed, I want to bring Ahmed.

وما إجي أحمد and not|he came|Ahmad And Ahmed didn't come.

بالبداية كان الشرط لاختيار الأجنة وإقصاؤها at the beginning|it was|the condition|for selecting|embryos|and excluding them At the beginning, there was a condition for selecting and excluding embryos.

بيترتب على تفادي الأمراض الوراثية it results|from|avoiding|diseases|genetic It is related to avoiding genetic diseases.

للحد من معاناة الطفل والأهل to limit|from|suffering|child|and parents To reduce the suffering of the child and the parents.

بعدين ارتخت الشروط then|relaxed|conditions Then the conditions relaxed.

لحتى أصبح اختيار الجنس من ضمن الممكنات until|became|choice|gender|from|among|possibilities Until choosing the gender became one of the possibilities.

وهلأ عم بدور النقاش حول استخدام التقنية and now|am|looking for|discussion|about|use|technology And now the discussion is revolving around the use of technology.

لاختيار صفات الأطفال الجسدية to choose|traits|of the children|physical To choose the physical traits of the children

مثل لون العيون like|color|of the eyes Such as eye color

وين منرسم الحد where|we draw|the boundary And where we will draw the boundary

ومين اللي رح يرسم التقاطعات and who|that|will|draw|the intersections And who will draw the intersections

ما بين التكنولوجيا والعنصرية والطب what|between|technology|and racism|and medicine Between technology, racism, and medicine

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ومن الهندسة الصوتية أندوني حنم and from|engineering|audio|Andoni|Hanem And in sound engineering, Andoni Hanem

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