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Thomas Frank Study Tips, How to Be More DISCIPLINED - 6 Ways to Master Self Control

How to Be More DISCIPLINED - 6 Ways to Master Self Control

- Hey, what is goin' on guys?

So today we are gonna be covering six important strategies

for improving your level of self-discipline.

Now before we get into the nitty gritty,

I do wanna take a brief moment to define

what exactly self-discipline is,

because when I asked you guys to tell me

about your problems with discipline on Twitter

the other day, I got a lot of answers,

ranging from motivation to distractions

to cell phone addiction, all kinds of things in between.

And while all these answers are legitimate problems,

I don't think that all of them fit neatly

into the category of self-discipline.

Where they do fit is in the broader category

of behavior change, and that is the big goal for most of us,

we wanna change our behaviors to be more aligned

with our goals and our long-term desires.

And when it comes to that general mission

to change your behaviors, I see four main areas

that we need to focus on, one of which is

the cultivation of self-discipline,

which we're gonna tackle in this video,

but also the building of new habits,

which can make that behavior automatic,

the customization of our environment,

which can remove roadblocks and help us resist temptations

by basically removing them, and of course,

the consumption of as much Brawndo as possible,

since it is the thirst mutilator.

But, as you may have guessed,

this video is only about that first area, self-discipline.

And where I wanna start is by asking

and answering two questions.

Number one, what exactly is self-discipline?

And number two, how does it differ from motivation?

Because I think a lot of people

get these two terms confused.

To start, I wanna share a quote from the writer

Samuel Thomas Davies because it actually answers

both those questions in a pretty tidy way.

Self-discipline is about leaning into resistance,

taking action in spite of how you feel,

living life by design, not by default.

But, most importantly, it's acting in accordance

with your thoughts, not your feelings.

Put another way, motivation is your overall level

of desire to do something, whereas discipline

is your ability to do it regardless of how you feel.

And for any of you who've ever woken up thinking,

I don't feel like it, which is all of you, myself included,

you can see now how important self-discipline is.

It's building that baseline that allows you to act

in accordance with your long-term goals,

no matter how motivated you feel.

So, with that being said, let's cover

six important strategies for building your self-discipline.

And we're gonna start with one that doesn't seem

very tangible or actionable at first,

but stick with me here, because this is a mindset shift

that I've found more helpful than any other

self-improvement technique I've tried in recent memory.

(smooth, upbeat music)

To put it simply, when you're trying to change your behavior

forget about the goal you're trying to achieve,

the external outcome, and instead focus on

the change in identity you want to happen.

This is a concept that I first read about

in James Clear's book, Atomic Habits,

which I highly recommend, by the way.

And there's this passage near the beginning of the book

that really encapsulates it well.

So I'm just gonna read it to you here.

Imagine two people resisting a cigarette.

When offered a smoke, the first person says,

"No thanks, I'm trying to quit."

It sounds like a reasonable response,

but this person still believes they are a smoker

who's trying to be something else.

They are hoping that their behavior will change,

while carrying around the same beliefs.

The second person declines by saying,

"No thanks, I'm not a smoker."

It's a small difference, but the statement signals

a shift in identity.

Smoking was a part of their former life,

not their current one.

They no longer identify as someone who smokes.

So, the general idea here is that

once you've embraced a change in your identity,

you're gonna find yourself acting in alignment

with that change.

And if you're wondering why exactly this happens,

the third chapter of Robert Cialdini's book

Influence, The Psychology of Persuasion,

has a great explanation for it.

Essentially, humans feel this natural compulsion

to act consistently with their past decisions.

As he writes in the book, once we have made a choice

or taken a stand, we will encounter personal

and interpersonal pressures to behave consistently

with that commitment.

Those pressures will cause us to respond in ways

that justify our earlier decision.

And shifting my mindset in this way

has been incredibly helpful in the past couple of months.

And the first way that I implemented it

was by starting to think of myself as an athlete.

Now, I've always been a pretty active person,

and I've had a laundry list of athletic goals on my website

for quite a long time now.

But I never really took the leap

and started thinking of myself as an athlete.

And there was some imposter syndrome reasons for this.

But, after reading that passage in the book,

I decided to take the leap and start thinking of myself

as an athlete, not just as somebody who does active things.

And that shift in mindset has done wonders

for my levels of self-discipline in many different areas,

from going to the gym more consistently,

to training harder while I'm there,

to even improving my diet, which has been a lot better

than it used to be over the past couple of months.

So, seriously, if you take nothing else from this video,

I'm puttin' this first for a reason,

start thinking about behavior change

in terms of the identity that you want to embody

rather than the goals that you want to achieve.

(smooth, upbeat music)

All right, strategy number two

is to frequently remind yourself

of why you're being disciplined in the first place.

At the end of the day, we have to have a strong why

for our actions if we want to do them consistently.

And every time I think about this concept,

I'm reminded of a story about the actor, Jim Carrey,

and it goes like this.

After he had arrived in Hollywood

and he was still kind of an impoverished actor,

one day he took out a napkin and he drew himself a check

made out to himself for $10 million,

and postdated for 10 years in the future.

And then he put that check in his wallet

so that every time he'd bring out his wallet,

he could see it and remind himself

of why he was working so hard, what he was working towards.

And this is something that you might find

very helpful to do as well.

Try writing down your goal or the identity

you wanna assume and put it maybe on a sticky note

next to your desk or by your computer

so you can see it every single day

and know that this is why I'm building my self-discipline,

this is the reason for all the work I'm putting in.

(smooth, upbeat music)

All right, strategy number three is to find ways

to embrace discomfort and embrace the resistance

you feel towards doing something

that takes hard work or that's unpleasant.

Just like going to an actual gym and lifting weights

makes you better at lifting weights in the future,

and able to lift more weight the next time you go in,

every time you embrace discomfort,

you're essentially doing a rep of the exercise

that is self-discipline because it is a skill

that can be learned, it is a muscle

that can be built over time.

This is why I'm such a proponent of taking cold showers,

because a cold shower is something

that most people don't want to do.

It's not very comfortable standing under that stream

of ice cold water, and that's the point.

Every morning that you get into the shower

and you choose to turn that handle to cold instead of hot,

you are embracing discomfort,

you're leaning into the resistance,

and that makes you better at doing so in the future

regardless of what the task is.

So, as you go through your daily life,

find ways to embrace discomfort.

It could be cold showers, it could be signing up

for a 6:00 a.m. ROTC fitness class,

it could be takin' the stairs instead of the elevator.

Basically, whenever your brain throws up that

I don't feel like it excuse,

that is an opportunity to build that self-discipline muscle,

and you should take it.

(smooth, upbeat music)

Okay, we are on to item number four of our list,

which is to target the fundamentals first,

and by the fundamentals I mean

the biological necessities of life,

your sleep, your nutrition, and your exercise habits.

These are all crucial to pay attention to

because the part of your brain

that handles executive functioning,

the part that regulates your desires and you impulses,

requires a lot of energy and regular rest

to function at peak levels.

Always remember that you are first and foremost

a collection of biological systems,

all of which require the right inputs

if you wanna get the best outputs out of them.

And, I know, it's easy to picture the brain

as separate from all of this,

as existing in this metaphysical realm

where the only needed fuel sources are motivation,

and determination, and wholesome memes.

But, the brain needs rest, and it needs exercise,

and it needs the right balance of nutrients

just as the rest of your body does.

So, if you're sleep deprived,

which, judging from the amount of views on this video,

you probably are, or you haven't gotten enough exercise

regularly, or your diet is crap,

that is where you should focus your discipline first.

(smooth, upbeat music)

And that brings us to our fifth item on the list

and it pains me to say this one

because I personally hate doing it but,

you may wanna try meditation.

And the reason you might wanna do this

is that meditation has been shown scientifically

to help people improve their levels of self-discipline.

In fact, a 2013 study at Stanford University

showed that people who went through compassion training,

which was a specific meditation program,

were better able to regulate their emotions afterwards.

And this is crucial for remaining disciplined

and being able to make rational decisions.

Now, an easy way to get started would be

by using guided meditation, which you can use

through apps like Headspace and Calm,

or through many free videos here on YouTube.

But the form of meditation that I've always practiced,

which I think is better for the development

of self-discipline specifically,

is a form of what's called zazen meditation,

where I simply sit and concentrate on my breath

with my eyes closed.

And when my attention is inevitably pulled away

by a random thought, I work to notice that,

and let that thought go,

and then bring my attention back to my breath.

And doing this over the long term

has helped with both self-discipline and concentration.

And like I said, I am not a huge fan of meditation,

it's probably the self-development practice

that I hate doing the most,

but the benefits of doing so are undeniable.

(smooth, upbeat music)

And that brings us to our final item on the list,

which is to practice building new habits.

Now like I said earlier, building new habits

is kind of a separate discipline in the overall pursuit

of changing your behavior.

But, the initial stages of building a new habit

often require self-discipline,

because the behavior isn't automatic yet.

So, this can be a great way to,

not only establish a new habit,

but become more disciplined in the process.

Now, I've got an entire video on building new habits

coming up for you guys in the next couple of weeks,

but until then, remember that for whatever habit

you choose to build, start small, track your progress,

maybe use an app like Habitica, or Strides,

which is my current favorite one, or HabitBull on Android.

Celebrate your wins, and also remember to not focus

too much on purity, on perfect streaks.

Instead, focus on making sure that your trend

is going on an overall positive direction.

And remember that as it is doing that,

and as that behavior is becoming more automatic,

your self-discipline is improving in the process.

Now, if you've already taken care of

those health fundamentals we talked about earlier,

and you're looking for a new habit to sink your teeth into

and to get this process started with,

then one that I might suggest would be taking on

an independent learning project

and putting some daily effort into learning something new.

Perhaps, if you have the same interests that I do

in the area of computer science and algorithms,

not only are these two topics incredibly fascinating,

but if you happen to be the kind of person

who wants to be web developer someday

or wants to be a programmer,

then learning these computer science fundamentals

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Now, with this approach,

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But, when you find yourself in that stuck situation,

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- Hey, what is goin' on guys? - Hej, co se děje na klucích? - Hey, was ist los mit Jungs? - Oye, ¿qué pasa chicos? -ねえ、みんな何をしているの? -야, 무슨 일이야? - Hej, co się dzieje z chłopakami? - Эй, что происходит, ребята? - Гей, що відбувається, хлопці?

So today we are gonna be covering six important strategies Así que hoy cubriremos seis estrategias importantes. Donc, aujourd'hui, nous allons couvrir six stratégies importantes 今日は6つの重要な戦略を取り上げます 오늘은 6 가지 중요한 전략을 다루겠습니다. Więc dzisiaj będziemy omawiać sześć ważnych strategii Hoje, vamos abordar seis estratégias importantes Bu yüzden bugün altı önemli stratejiyi ele alacağız.

for improving your level of self-discipline. 자기 훈련 수준을 향상시키기 위해. para melhorar o seu nível de auto-disciplina.

Now before we get into the nitty gritty, Bevor wir nun zur Sache kommen, Ahora, antes de entrar en el meollo de la cuestión, さて、核心に入る前に、 이제 우리는 우스꽝스러운 견해에 들어가기 전에 Zanim przejdziemy do sedna, Agora, antes de entrarmos no âmago da questão, Теперь, прежде чем мы перейдем к мельчайшим деталям, Тепер, перш ніж ми перейдемо до дрібниць, 现在,在我们深入讨论细节之前,

I do wanna take a brief moment to define Ich möchte mir einen kurzen Moment Zeit nehmen, um es zu definieren Quiero tomarme un breve momento para definir 私は定義するために少し時間をとりたいです 잠시 정의하고 싶습니다 Eu quero tomar um breve momento para definir Tanımlamak için kısa bir süre ayırmak istiyorum Я хочу приділити коротку хвилину, щоб визначити 我确实想花一点时间来定义

what exactly self-discipline is, qué es exactamente la autodisciplina, 自己規律とは що таке самодисципліна,

because when I asked you guys to tell me porque cuando les pedí que me dijeran parce que quand je vous ai demandé de me dire 私があなたに私に言うように頼んだとき 내가 너희들에게 말해달라고 요청했을 때

about your problems with discipline on Twitter sobre sus problemas de disciplina en Twitter Twitterでの規律に関する問題について

the other day, I got a lot of answers, في اليوم الآخر ، حصلت على الكثير من الإجابات ، 先日、たくさんの答えを得ました

ranging from motivation to distractions allant de la motivation aux distractions 動機から気晴らしに至るまで 동기 부여에서 산만에 이르기까지 variando de motivação a distrações 从动机到干扰

to cell phone addiction, all kinds of things in between. a la adicción al teléfono celular, todo tipo de cosas en el medio. 携帯電話中毒に、間にあるすべての種類のもの。 휴대폰 중독, 그 사이의 모든 종류의 것들. ao vício do telefone celular, todos os tipos de coisas no meio. залежність від мобільного телефону, усілякі речі між ними.

And while all these answers are legitimate problems, Und obwohl all diese Antworten legitime Probleme sind, Y aunque todas estas respuestas son problemas legítimos, Et bien que toutes ces réponses soient des problèmes légitimes, これらすべての答えは正当な問題ですが、 이 모든 대답은 합법적 인 문제이지만 E enquanto todas essas respostas são problemas legítimos,

I don't think that all of them fit neatly Ich glaube nicht, dass alle genau passen Je ne pense pas qu'ils s'emboîtent tous parfaitement それらのすべてがきちんとフィットするとは思わない 나는 그들 모두가 깔끔하게 맞는다고 생각하지 않습니다 Nie sądzę, by wszystkie z nich pasowały do siebie. Eu não acho que todos eles se encaixam perfeitamente Я не думаю, що всі вони підходять акуратно 我不认为所有这些都完美契合

into the category of self-discipline. 自己規律のカテゴリに。 na categoria de autodisciplina.

Where they do fit is in the broader category حيث تناسبهم في الفئة الأوسع Wo sie passen, liegt in der breiteren Kategorie Donde encajan es en la categoría más amplia Là où ils rentrent, c'est dans la catégorie plus large 彼らが適合する場所はより広いカテゴリーにあります 그들이 적합한 곳은 더 넓은 범주에 있습니다 Pasują one do szerszej kategorii Onde eles se encaixam está na categoria mais ampla Uygun oldukları yer daha geniş bir kategoridedir Де вони дійсно підходять, так це в ширшій категорії 它们确实适合属于更广泛的类别

of behavior change, and that is the big goal for most of us, 行動変化のことであり、それは私たちのほとんどにとって大きな目標です、 행동의 변화가 있습니다. 그것이 우리 대부분의 큰 목표입니다. de mudança de comportamento, e esse é o grande objetivo para a maioria de nós, зміни поведінки, і це головна мета для більшості з нас,

we wanna change our behaviors to be more aligned نريد تغيير سلوكنا ليكون أكثر تناسقًا 私たちはより整列するように行動を変えたいです 우리는 행동이 더 정렬되도록 행동하고 싶습니다

with our goals and our long-term desires. 私たちの目標と私たちの長期的な欲望。 z naszymi celami i długoterminowymi pragnieniami.

And when it comes to that general mission Y cuando se trata de esa misión general Et quand il s'agit de cette mission générale そして、その一般的な使命になると 그리고 그 일반적인 임무에 관해서 E quando se trata dessa missão geral

to change your behaviors, I see four main areas あなたの行動を変えるために、私は4つの主要な領域を見ます

that we need to focus on, one of which is en el que debemos centrarnos, uno de los cuales es 私たちが焦点を当てる必要があることの一つは que precisamos focar, um dos quais é

the cultivation of self-discipline, die Kultivierung der Selbstdisziplin, 自己規律の育成、 자제력을 기르는 것입니다, o cultivo da autodisciplina,

which we're gonna tackle in this video, die wir in diesem Video angehen werden, que nous allons aborder dans cette vidéo, 이 비디오에서 다룰 내용입니다, którym zajmiemy się w tym filmie, que abordaremos neste vídeo, про які ми поговоримо в цьому відео,

but also the building of new habits, sino también la construcción de nuevos hábitos, だけでなく、新しい習慣の構築、 mas também a construção de novos hábitos, але й формування нових звичок,

which can make that behavior automatic, que puede hacer que ese comportamiento sea automático, o que pode tornar esse comportamento automático, що може зробити цю поведінку автоматичною,

the customization of our environment, die Anpassung unserer Umgebung, 環境のカスタマイズ 환경의 맞춤화 кастомізація нашого середовища,

which can remove roadblocks and help us resist temptations die Hindernisse aus dem Weg räumen und uns helfen können, Versuchungen zu widerstehen 障害物を取り除き、誘惑に抵抗するのに役立ちます 장애물을 제거하고 유혹에 저항 할 수있는 які можуть усунути перешкоди і допомогти нам протистояти спокусам 它可以消除障碍并帮助我们抵制诱惑

by basically removing them, and of course, en les supprimant essentiellement, et bien sûr, просто видаливши їх, і, звісно ж,

the consumption of as much Brawndo as possible, la consommation d'un maximum de Brawndo, 可能な限りブラウンドの消費、 가능한 많은 Brawndo의 소비, o consumo de tanto Brawndo quanto possível, потребление как можно большего количества Brawndo, mümkün olduğu kadar çok Brawndo tüketimi, споживання якомога більшої кількості Brawndo, 消耗尽可能多的布劳多,

since it is the thirst mutilator. denn er ist der Durstlöscher. puisqu'il est le mutilateur de la soif. それはのどの渇きの切断者だからです。 갈증을 일으키는 뮤 테이터이기 때문입니다. ponieważ jest to okaleczacz pragnienia. já que é o mutilador da sede. susuzluk bozucu olduğu için. бо це калічить спрагу. 因为它是止渴剂。

But, as you may have guessed, Pero, como habrás adivinado, Mais, comme vous l'avez peut-être deviné, しかし、ご想像のとおり、 Mas, como você deve ter adivinhado,

this video is only about that first area, self-discipline. このビデオは、その最初の領域、自己規律についてのみです。

And where I wanna start is by asking 내가 시작하고 싶은 곳은

and answering two questions.

Number one, what exactly is self-discipline? Erstens: Was genau ist Selbstdisziplin? По-перше, що таке самодисципліна?

And number two, how does it differ from motivation? Und zweitens, wie unterscheidet sie sich von der Motivation? 둘째, 동기와 어떻게 다른가요? A po drugie, czym różni się ona od motywacji?

Because I think a lot of people

get these two terms confused. confundir estos dos términos. 이 두 용어를 혼동하십시오.

To start, I wanna share a quote from the writer まず、作家からの引用を共有したいと思います

Samuel Thomas Davies because it actually answers サミュエル・トーマス・デイビス それは実際に答えるからです

both those questions in a pretty tidy way. Beide Fragen auf eine ziemlich ordentliche Art und Weise. ces deux questions d'une manière assez ordonnée. これらの質問の両方をかなりきちんとした方法で。 ambas as perguntas de uma maneira bem arrumada. обидва ці питання в досить акуратний спосіб. 这两个问题都以一种非常简洁的方式提出。

Self-discipline is about leaning into resistance, La autodisciplina se trata de inclinarse hacia la resistencia, 自己規律とは、抵抗に傾倒することです。 자기 훈련은 저항에 집중하는 것입니다. Samodyscyplina polega na stawianiu oporu, Autodisciplina é sobre apoiar-se na resistência, Öz disiplin, direnişe eğilmekle ilgilidir. Самодисципліна - це схиляння до опору, 自律就是倾向于抵抗,

taking action in spite of how you feel, Maßnahmen ergreifen, ungeachtet Ihrer Gefühle, actuar a pesar de cómo te sientes, agir malgré ce que vous ressentez, 気分がどうであれ行動を起こし、 기분에도 불구하고 행동하기 podejmowanie działań pomimo tego, jak się czujesz, agindo apesar de como você se sente, діяти, незважаючи на те, що ви відчуваєте, 不管你的感受如何,采取行动,

living life by design, not by default. Das Leben nach Plan leben, nicht nach Vorgabe. viviendo la vida por diseño, no por defecto. vivre sa vie à dessein, pas par défaut. デフォルトではなく、デザインによって人生を生きる。 기본적으로가 아니라 디자인에 의한 생활. vivendo a vida por design, não por padrão. жити життям за задумом, а не за замовчуванням.

But, most importantly, it's acting in accordance Aber das Wichtigste ist, dass man entsprechend handelt Pero, lo más importante, es actuar de acuerdo Mais, plus important encore, il agit conformément しかし、最も重要なことは、それに従って行動していることです 그러나 가장 중요한 것은 但最重要的是,它的行为符合

with your thoughts, not your feelings. avec vos pensées, pas vos sentiments. あなたの気持ちではなく、あなたの考えで。 com seus pensamentos, não seus sentimentos.

Put another way, motivation is your overall level Anders ausgedrückt: Motivation ist Ihr allgemeines Niveau Dicho de otra manera, la motivación es tu nivel general Autrement dit, la motivation est votre niveau global 言い換えれば、モチベーションはあなたの全体的なレベルです 다시 말하면 동기는 당신의 전반적인 수준입니다 Em outras palavras, a motivação é o seu nível geral Başka bir deyişle, motivasyon genel seviyenizdir 换句话说,动力就是你的整体水平

of desire to do something, whereas discipline del deseo de hacer algo, mientras que la disciplina du désir de faire quelque chose, alors que la discipline 何かをしたいという欲求の一方で、規律 do desejo de fazer algo, enquanto a disciplina

is your ability to do it regardless of how you feel. est votre capacité à le faire, peu importe ce que vous ressentez. あなたの気持ちに関係なく、それを行うあなたの能力です。 기분에 관계없이 할 수있는 능력입니다. é a sua capacidade de fazê-lo, independentemente de como você se sente.

And for any of you who've ever woken up thinking, Y para cualquiera de ustedes que alguna vez se haya despertado pensando, Et pour tous ceux d'entre vous qui se sont déjà réveillés en pensant, そして、今まで考えて目覚めたことのある人にとっては、 그리고 생각을 깨운 적이 있다면 E para qualquer um de vocês que já acordou pensando, И для любого из вас, кто когда-либо просыпался с мыслью, 对于那些曾经醒来思考过的人来说,

I don't feel like it, which is all of you, myself included, No me apetece, que son todos ustedes, yo incluido, Je n'en ai pas envie, c'est-à-dire vous tous, moi y compris, 気が進まないのは、私も含めて皆さんです。 나는 그런 느낌이 들지 않습니다. Não me apetece, que é todos vocês, inclusive eu,

you can see now how important self-discipline is. 이제 자기 훈련이 얼마나 중요한지 알 수 있습니다.

It's building that baseline that allows you to act Es construir esa línea de base que te permite actuar それはあなたが行動できるベースラインを構築することです 그것은 당신이 행동 할 수있는 기준을 구축하고 있습니다 Está construindo essa linha de base que permite que você aja

in accordance with your long-term goals, 장기적인 목표에 따라 de acordo com suas metas de longo prazo,

no matter how motivated you feel. peu importe à quel point vous vous sentez motivé. não importa o quão motivado você se sinta. 无论你感觉多么有动力。

So, with that being said, let's cover Entonces, dicho esto, cubramos Donc, cela étant dit, couvrons Então, com isso dito, vamos cobrir

six important strategies for building your self-discipline. 自己規律を構築するための 6 つの重要な戦略。

And we're gonna start with one that doesn't seem Y vamos a empezar con uno que no parece そして、私たちはそうではないものから始めるつもりです E vamos começar com um que não parece

very tangible or actionable at first, muy tangible o procesable al principio, 最初は非常に具体的または実行可能であり、 bardzo namacalne lub możliwe do podjęcia na początku, muito tangível ou acionável a princípio,

but stick with me here, because this is a mindset shift pero quédate conmigo aquí, porque esto es un cambio de mentalidad mais restez avec moi ici, parce que c'est un changement de mentalité しかし、これは考え方の変化であるため、ここで私に固執してください 하지만 이건 사고방식의 전환이니까요. ale zostań ze mną, ponieważ jest to zmiana sposobu myślenia mas fique comigo aqui, porque esta é uma mudança de mentalidade

that I've found more helpful than any other que he encontrado más útil que cualquier otro que j'ai trouvé plus utile que tout autre que eu achei mais útil do que qualquer outro

self-improvement technique I've tried in recent memory. técnica de superación personal que he probado en la memoria reciente. technique d'auto-amélioration que j'ai essayée récemment.

(smooth, upbeat music) (música suave y alegre) (música suave e otimista)

To put it simply, when you're trying to change your behavior En pocas palabras, cuando intentas cambiar tu comportamiento Pour le dire simplement, lorsque vous essayez de changer votre comportement 간단히 말해서, 행동을 바꾸려고 할 때 Simplificando, quando você está tentando mudar seu comportamento

forget about the goal you're trying to achieve, 달성하려는 목표를 잊어 버리고 esqueça o objetivo que você está tentando alcançar,

the external outcome, and instead focus on 외부 결과, 대신에 집중 o resultado externo e, em vez disso, concentre-se em 外部结果,而是关注

the change in identity you want to happen. el cambio de identidad que quieres que suceda. 당신이 원하는 정체성의 변화. a mudança na identidade que você deseja que aconteça. gerçekleşmesini istediğiniz kimlik değişikliği.

This is a concept that I first read about Este es un concepto sobre el que leí por primera vez 이것은 내가 처음 읽은 개념입니다 Este é um conceito que li pela primeira vez sobre 这是我第一次读到的一个概念

in James Clear's book, Atomic Habits, James Clear의 저서 인 Atomic Habits에서 在詹姆斯·克利尔的书《原子习惯》中,

which I highly recommend, by the way. que recomiendo mucho, por cierto. que je recommande vivement d'ailleurs. 를 적극 추천합니다. que eu recomendo, a propósito.

And there's this passage near the beginning of the book Y hay este pasaje cerca del comienzo del libro. Et il y a ce passage vers le début du livre 이 책은 책의 시작 부분 근처에 있습니다 I jest taki fragment na początku książki E tem essa passagem perto do começo do livro

that really encapsulates it well. das bringt es wirklich gut auf den Punkt. qui l'encapsule vraiment bien. 실제로 잘 캡슐화합니다. to naprawdę dobrze to ujmuje. que realmente o encapsula bem.

So I'm just gonna read it to you here. 그래서 나는 여기서 당신에게 그것을 읽을 것입니다. Então, eu vou ler para você aqui.

Imagine two people resisting a cigarette. 담배에 저항하는 두 사람을 상상해보십시오. Wyobraźmy sobie dwie osoby opierające się papierosowi. Imagine duas pessoas resistindo a um cigarro.

When offered a smoke, the first person says, Cuando se le ofrece un cigarrillo, la primera persona dice: Lorsqu'on lui propose de fumer, la première personne dit : 담배를 피우면 첫 번째 사람이 말합니다.

"No thanks, I'm trying to quit." "No gracias, estoy tratando de dejarlo". "Não, obrigado, estou tentando sair."

It sounds like a reasonable response, Cela ressemble à une réponse raisonnable, Brzmi to jak rozsądna odpowiedź, Parece uma resposta razoável,

but this person still believes they are a smoker 하지만이 사람은 여전히 그들이 흡연자라고 믿고 mas essa pessoa ainda acredita que é fumante

who's trying to be something else. que está tratando de ser otra cosa. quem está tentando ser outra coisa.

They are hoping that their behavior will change, Esperan que su comportamiento cambie, 그들은 그들의 행동이 변하기를 바라고 있습니다. Eles estão esperando que seu comportamento mude,

while carrying around the same beliefs. mientras llevan las mismas creencias. tout en véhiculant les mêmes croyances. 같은 믿음을 가지고 다니면서 enquanto carregava as mesmas crenças. при этом придерживаясь одних и тех же убеждений.

The second person declines by saying, La segunda persona declina diciendo: 두 번째 사람은 말하기를 거절합니다.

"No thanks, I'm not a smoker." "Não, obrigado, eu não sou fumante."

It's a small difference, but the statement signals Es una pequeña diferencia, pero la declaración señala C'est une petite différence, mais la déclaration signale 약간의 차이가 있지만 진술은 신호를 보냅니다. É uma pequena diferença, mas a declaração sinaliza 虽然差异很小,但该声明表明

a shift in identity. 정체성의 변화. uma mudança de identidade. 身份的转变。

Smoking was a part of their former life, Fumar era parte de su vida anterior, Fumer faisait partie de leur vie antérieure, 흡연은 전생의 일부 였지만 Palenie było częścią ich poprzedniego życia, Fumar fazia parte da vida anterior, 抽烟是他们以前生活的一部分,

not their current one. no su actual. pas leur actuel. 그들의 현재가 아닙니다.

They no longer identify as someone who smokes. Ya no se identifican como alguien que fuma. Ils ne s'identifient plus comme quelqu'un qui fume. 더 이상 담배를 피우는 사람으로 식별되지 않습니다. Já não se identificam como alguém que fuma.

So, the general idea here is that 일반적인 아이디어는

once you've embraced a change in your identity, una vez que haya aceptado un cambio en su identidad, une fois que vous avez adopté un changement d'identité, depois de adotar uma mudança em sua identidade,

you're gonna find yourself acting in alignment te encontrarás actuando en alineación tu vas te retrouver à agir dans l'alignement 당신은 자신을 정렬에서 행동 찾을 수 있습니다 você vai encontrar-se agindo em alinhamento 你会发现自己的行为一致

with that change. 그 변화와 함께. com essa mudança.

And if you're wondering why exactly this happens, Y si te preguntas por qué sucede exactamente esto, 왜 이런 일이 발생하는지 궁금하다면 E se você está se perguntando por que exatamente isso acontece,

the third chapter of Robert Cialdini's book Robert Cialdini의 책의 세 번째 장

Influence, The Psychology of Persuasion, 설득의 심리학,

has a great explanation for it. 그것에 대한 좋은 설명이 있습니다.

Essentially, humans feel this natural compulsion Im Wesentlichen verspürt der Mensch diesen natürlichen Zwang Esencialmente, los humanos sienten esta compulsión natural 본질적으로 인간은이 자연적인 강박감을 느낍니다 Essencialmente, os seres humanos sentem essa compulsão natural

to act consistently with their past decisions. d'agir conformément à leurs décisions passées. 과거의 결정에 일관되게 행동합니다. agir de forma consistente com suas decisões passadas. geçmiş kararlarıyla tutarlı hareket etmek. діяти відповідно до своїх минулих рішень.

As he writes in the book, once we have made a choice Como escribe en el libro, una vez que hemos hecho una elección 그가 책을 쓸 때, 일단 우리가 선택을하면 Como ele escreve no livro, uma vez que escolhemos

or taken a stand, we will encounter personal o tomado una posición, nos encontraremos con personal ou pris position, nous rencontrerons des 아니면 서서, 우리는 개인적으로 만날 것입니다 ou tomar uma posição, encontraremos pessoal або зайняв позицію, ми зіткнемося з особистим

and interpersonal pressures to behave consistently y presiones interpersonales para comportarse consistentemente 일관되게 행동해야하는 대인 관계 압력 e pressões interpessoais para se comportar de forma consistente і міжособистісний тиск, щоб поводитися послідовно 以及行为一致的人际压力

with that commitment. con ese compromiso. 그 헌신으로. з цим зобов'язанням. 带着这样的承诺。

Those pressures will cause us to respond in ways Esas presiones harán que respondamos de maneras 이러한 압력으로 인해 우리는 어떤 방식 으로든 반응 할 것입니다 Цей тиск змусить нас реагувати різними способами 这些压力将促使我们做出反应

that justify our earlier decision. que justifican nuestra decisión anterior. 우리의 이전 결정을 정당화합니다. що виправдовує наше попереднє рішення.

And shifting my mindset in this way Y cambiando mi forma de pensar de esta manera 이런 식으로 내 마음가짐을 바꾼다 E mudando minha mentalidade dessa maneira І таким чином змінюю своє мислення 并以这种方式改变我的心态

has been incredibly helpful in the past couple of months. ha sido increíblemente útil en los últimos meses. 지난 몇 달 동안 엄청나게 도움이되었습니다. foi incrivelmente útil nos últimos dois meses. був неймовірно корисним за останні пару місяців.

And the first way that I implemented it 그리고 그것을 구현 한 첫 번째 방법 І перший спосіб, який я реалізував

was by starting to think of myself as an athlete. 자신을 운동 선수로 생각하기 시작했습니다. foi começar a me considerar um atleta. почала думати про себе як про спортсмена.

Now, I've always been a pretty active person, Ahora, siempre he sido una persona bastante activa, 저는 항상 활동적인 사람이었습니다. Agora, eu sempre fui uma pessoa muito ativa, Зараз я завжди був досить активною людиною,

and I've had a laundry list of athletic goals on my website y he tenido una larga lista de objetivos atléticos en mi sitio web et j'ai eu une longue liste d'objectifs sportifs sur mon site Web 웹 사이트에 운동 목표에 대한 세탁 목록이 있습니다. e eu tive uma lista de metas atléticas no meu site і на моєму веб-сайті є повний список спортивних цілей

for quite a long time now. desde hace bastante tiempo. depuis bien longtemps maintenant. por um bom tempo agora. вже досить давно.

But I never really took the leap Pero nunca di el salto Mais je n'ai jamais vraiment sauté le pas 그러나 나는 결코 도약하지 않았다 Mas eu realmente nunca dei o salto Але я ніколи не робив такого стрибка

and started thinking of myself as an athlete. і почав думати про себе як про спортсмена.

And there was some imposter syndrome reasons for this. Y hubo algunas razones del síndrome del impostor para esto. 그리고 이에 대한 몇 가지 임 포스터 증후군 이유가있었습니다. E havia algumas razões da síndrome do impostor para isso. І на це був певний синдром самозванця. 这其中有一些冒名顶替综合症的原因。

But, after reading that passage in the book, Mas, depois de ler essa passagem do livro, Але, прочитавши цей уривок у книзі,

I decided to take the leap and start thinking of myself J'ai décidé de sauter le pas et de commencer à penser à moi Eu decidi dar o salto e começar a pensar em mim Я вирішив зробити стрибок і почати думати про себе

as an athlete, not just as somebody who does active things. 활동적인 일을하는 사람이 아니라 운동 선수로서 como atleta, não apenas como alguém que faz coisas ativas. як спортсмен, а не просто як хтось, хто займається активними речами.

And that shift in mindset has done wonders Y ese cambio de mentalidad ha hecho maravillas 그리고 그 사고 방식의 변화는 놀라운 일이었습니다. E essa mudança de mentalidade fez maravilhas І ця зміна мислення творила дива

for my levels of self-discipline in many different areas, для мого рівня самодисципліни в багатьох різних сферах,

from going to the gym more consistently, 더 일관되게 체육관에가는 것에서 від більш постійного відвідування тренажерного залу,

to training harder while I'm there, a entrenar más duro mientras estoy allí, 내가있는 동안 더 열심히 훈련하기 위해 para treinar mais enquanto estou lá,

to even improving my diet, which has been a lot better 훨씬 개선 된 식단 개선에도 até mesmo melhorar minha dieta, que tem sido muito melhor

than it used to be over the past couple of months. de lo que solía ser en los últimos meses. qu'il ne l'était au cours des deux derniers mois. 지난 몇 달 동안 그랬던 것보다 do que costumava ser nos últimos dois meses. ніж це було за останні пару місяців.

So, seriously, if you take nothing else from this video, Entonces, en serio, si no tomas nada más de este video, Donc, sérieusement, si vous ne prenez rien d'autre de cette vidéo, 이 비디오에서 아무 것도 가져 오지 않으면 Então, sério, se você não tirar mais nada deste vídeo,

I'm puttin' this first for a reason, Je mets ça en premier pour une raison, 나는 이유를 위해 이것을 처음으로 썼다. Estou colocando isso primeiro por uma razão, Я ставлю це на перше місце не просто так,

start thinking about behavior change 행동 변화에 대해 생각하기 시작 comece a pensar em mudança de comportamento

in terms of the identity that you want to embody en términos de la identidad que quieres encarnar en fonction de l'identité que vous souhaitez incarner 구현하려는 정체성의 관점에서 em termos da identidade que você deseja incorporar з точки зору ідентичності, яку ви хочете втілити

rather than the goals that you want to achieve. en lugar de los objetivos que desea alcanzar. 달성하고자하는 목표보다는 em vez dos objetivos que você deseja alcançar. а не цілі, яких ви хочете досягти.

(smooth, upbeat music) (плавна, весела музика)

All right, strategy number two よし、戦略第2

is to frequently remind yourself 자주 자신을 생각 나게하는 것입니다 é lembrar-se frequentemente це часто нагадувати собі

of why you're being disciplined in the first place. de pourquoi vous êtes discipliné en premier lieu. 처음부터 징계를받는 이유에 대해 de por que você está sendo disciplinado em primeiro lugar. про те, чому вас взагалі дисциплінують. 首先解释为什么你会受到纪律处分。

At the end of the day, we have to have a strong why 하루가 끝날 때, 우리는 강한 이유를 가져야합니다 No final do dia, temos que ter um forte porquê Зрештою, у нас має бути вагоме «чому».

for our actions if we want to do them consistently. 일관되게 행동하고 싶다면 para nossas ações, se quisermos fazê-las de forma consistente.

And every time I think about this concept, E toda vez que penso nesse conceito, І кожного разу, коли я думаю про цю концепцію,

I'm reminded of a story about the actor, Jim Carrey, 배우 짐 캐리에 관한 이야기가 생각납니다. Я згадав історію про актора Джима Керрі,

and it goes like this. Et ça va comme ça. 이렇게됩니다. e é assim. і це відбувається так.

After he had arrived in Hollywood Après son arrivée à Hollywood 그가 할리우드에 도착한 후 Depois que ele chegou em Hollywood

and he was still kind of an impoverished actor, y todavía era una especie de actor empobrecido, et il était encore une sorte d'acteur pauvre, 그는 여전히 가난한 배우 였고 і він все ще був трохи збіднілим актором,

one day he took out a napkin and he drew himself a check un día sacó una servilleta y se dibujó un cheque un jour il a sorti une serviette et il s'est tiré un chèque 어느 날 그는 냅킨을 꺼내서 수표를 그렸습니다. um dia ele tirou um guardanapo e se deu um cheque Одного разу він дістав серветку і витягнув собі чек 有一天,他拿出一张餐巾纸,给自己开了一张支票

made out to himself for $10 million, 천만 달러에 자신을 만들어 fez para si mesmo por US $ 10 milhões, заробив собі на 10 мільйонів доларів,

and postdated for 10 years in the future. y con fecha posterior a 10 años en el futuro. et postdaté de 10 ans dans le futur. 앞으로 10 년 동안 게시되었습니다. e pós-datado por 10 anos no futuro. і датовано на 10 років у майбутнє.

And then he put that check in his wallet Et puis il a mis ce chèque dans son portefeuille 그리고 그는 수표를 지갑에 넣었습니다. Ve sonra o çeki cüzdanına koydu А потім поклав цей чек у свій гаманець

so that every time he'd bring out his wallet, para que cada vez que sacara su billetera, 지갑을 꺼낼 때마다 para que toda vez que ele traga sua carteira, böylece cüzdanını her çıkardığında щоб кожного разу, коли він діставав свій гаманець,

he could see it and remind himself podía verlo y recordarse a sí mismo 그는 그것을보고 자신을 생각 나게했다 görebilir ve kendine hatırlatabilirdi

of why he was working so hard, what he was working towards. de por qué estaba trabajando tan duro, para qué estaba trabajando. 왜 그렇게 열심히 일했는지, 무엇을 향해 노력했는지 de por que ele estava trabalhando tão duro, para o que ele estava trabalhando. neden bu kadar çok çalıştığını, ne için çalıştığını. чому він так наполегливо працював, до чого працював.

And this is something that you might find Y esto es algo que podrías encontrar 그리고 이것은 당신이 찾을 수있는 것입니다. E isso é algo que você pode encontrar

very helpful to do as well. très utile à faire aussi. 매우 도움이됩니다. muito útil para fazer também.

Try writing down your goal or the identity Trate de escribir su objetivo o la identidad Essayez d'écrire votre objectif ou l'identité 당신의 목표 나 정체성을 적어보십시오

you wanna assume and put it maybe on a sticky note quieres asumir y ponerlo tal vez en una nota adhesiva tu veux supposer et le mettre peut-être sur une note collante 당신은 가정하고 스티커 메모에 넣어 싶어 ви хочете припустити і помістити це, можливо, на липкій записці

next to your desk or by your computer біля вашого столу або біля комп’ютера

so you can see it every single day

and know that this is why I'm building my self-discipline, 이것이 제가 자제력을 키우는 이유입니다.

this is the reason for all the work I'm putting in. esta es la razón de todo el trabajo que estoy haciendo. це причина всієї роботи, яку я докладаю.

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All right, strategy number three is to find ways Also gut, Strategie Nummer drei besteht darin, Wege zu finden 세 번째 전략은 방법을 찾는 것입니다

to embrace discomfort and embrace the resistance Unbehagen annehmen und den Widerstand annehmen abrazar la incomodidad y abrazar la resistencia embrasser l'inconfort et embrasser la résistance 불편 함과 저항을 받아들이는 것 abraçar o desconforto e abraçar a resistência rahatsızlığı kucaklamak ve direnişi kucaklamak прийняти дискомфорт і прийняти опір

you feel towards doing something te sientes hacia hacer algo vous vous sentez à l'idée de faire quelque chose 당신은 무언가를하는쪽으로 느낀다 você sente em fazer algo ви бажаєте щось зробити

that takes hard work or that's unpleasant. que requiere trabajo duro o que es desagradable. 열심히 일하거나 불쾌합니다. isso exige muito trabalho ou é desagradável. що потребує важкої роботи або це неприємно.

Just like going to an actual gym and lifting weights 실제 체육관에 가서 역도처럼 Assim como ir a uma academia de verdade e levantar pesos Так само, як ходити в справжній тренажерний зал і піднімати тяжкості

makes you better at lifting weights in the future, 앞으로 웨이트 리프팅을 향상시킬 수 있습니다. melhora você no levantamento de pesos no futuro, допоможе вам краще піднімати тяжкості в майбутньому,

and able to lift more weight the next time you go in, y capaz de levantar más peso la próxima vez que entre, e capaz de levantar mais peso da próxima vez que entrar,

every time you embrace discomfort, 불편 함을 느낄 때마다

you're essentially doing a rep of the exercise esencialmente estás haciendo una repetición del ejercicio 당신은 본질적으로 운동의 담당자를하고 있습니다 você está essencialmente fazendo um representante do exercício ви, по суті, повторюєте вправу 你实际上是在做一次练习

that is self-discipline because it is a skill 그것은 기술이기 때문에 자기 훈련입니다 isso é autodisciplina porque é uma habilidade

that can be learned, it is a muscle 배울 수있는 것은 근육입니다 чого можна навчитися, це м’яз

that can be built over time. que se puede construir con el tiempo. qui peut se construire au fil du temps. que pode ser construído ao longo do tempo.

This is why I'm such a proponent of taking cold showers, Es por eso que soy tan partidario de tomar duchas frías, C'est pourquoi je suis si partisan de prendre des douches froides, 이것이 제가 찬물로 샤워를하는 것을지지하는 이유입니다. É por isso que sou um defensor de tomar banho frio, Ось чому я такий прихильник прийняття холодного душу,

because a cold shower is something тому що холодний душ - це щось

that most people don't want to do. 대부분의 사람들은 원하지 않습니다. що більшість людей не хочуть робити.

It's not very comfortable standing under that stream No es muy cómodo pararse debajo de ese arroyo. 그 개울 아래에서는 것은 매우 편안하지 않습니다. Não é muito confortável ficar embaixo daquele riacho Не дуже зручно стояти під тим струменем

of ice cold water, and that's the point. 얼음처럼 차가운 물을 마시는 것이 중요합니다. de água gelada, e esse é o ponto. крижаної води, і в цьому суть.

Every morning that you get into the shower Кожного ранку, коли ви йдете в душ

and you choose to turn that handle to cold instead of hot, y eliges cambiar ese mango a frío en lugar de caliente, 그 손잡이를 뜨겁지 않고 차갑게 돌리고 e você escolhe transformar essa alça em fria em vez de quente, і ви вирішили повернути цю ручку на холодну, а не на гарячу,

you are embracing discomfort, 당신은 불편 함을 수용하고 있습니다 ти відчуваєш дискомфорт,

you're leaning into the resistance, tu t'appuies sur la résistance, 저항에 기대어 você está se inclinando para a resistência, direnişe yaslanıyorsun ти схиляєшся до опору,

and that makes you better at doing so in the future y eso te hace mejor en hacerlo en el futuro 그러면 앞으로 더 잘할 수있게됩니다 і це зробить вас кращими в цьому в майбутньому

regardless of what the task is. independientemente de cuál sea la tarea. quelle que soit la tâche. 작업이 무엇이든 관계없이 independentemente da tarefa. незалежно від того, яке завдання.

So, as you go through your daily life, Entonces, a medida que pasa por su vida diaria, Ainsi, au cours de votre vie quotidienne, 그래서 일상 생활을하면서 Então, ao longo de sua vida diária, Отже, коли ви проходите через своє повсякденне життя,

find ways to embrace discomfort. 불편을 포용하는 방법을 찾으십시오. знайти способи впоратися з дискомфортом.

It could be cold showers, it could be signing up Podrían ser duchas frías, podría ser registrarse Ça pourrait être des douches froides, ça pourrait être une inscription 차가운 샤워 일 수도 있고 가입 할 수도 있어요 Pode ser um banho frio, pode estar se inscrevendo Це може бути холодний душ, це може бути реєстрація

for a 6:00 a.m. ROTC fitness class, para una clase de acondicionamiento físico ROTC a las 6:00 am, 오전 6시 ROTC 피트니스 클래스 для фітнес-класу ROTC о 6:00, 上午 6:00 的 ROTC 健身课程,

it could be takin' the stairs instead of the elevator. poderia estar pegando as escadas em vez do elevador. це може бути сходами замість ліфта.

Basically, whenever your brain throws up that Básicamente, cada vez que tu cerebro vomita eso Fondamentalement, chaque fois que votre cerveau émet cela 기본적으로 뇌가 그것을 던질 때마다 Basicamente, sempre que seu cérebro vomita По суті, щоразу, коли ваш мозок викидає це

I don't feel like it excuse, No tengo ganas de disculpar, Je n'ai pas envie d'excuser, 변명 인 것 같지 않아요 Eu não sinto desculpa, Мені не хочеться вибачте,

that is an opportunity to build that self-discipline muscle,

and you should take it. y deberías tomarlo. e você deveria levá-lo. і ви повинні це прийняти.

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Okay, we are on to item number four of our list, Bien, estamos en el punto número cuatro de nuestra lista, Ok, estamos no item número quatro da nossa lista, Гаразд, ми перейшли до пункту номер чотири нашого списку,

which is to target the fundamentals first, que es apuntar primero a los fundamentos, qui est de cibler d'abord les fondamentaux, 기본을 먼저 타겟팅하는 것입니다. яка полягає в тому, щоб спочатку націлитися на основи,

and by the fundamentals I mean 그리고 기본적으로 내 말은 і під основами я маю на увазі

the biological necessities of life, 생명의 생물학적 필요성, as necessidades biológicas da vida, біологічні життєві потреби,

your sleep, your nutrition, and your exercise habits. ваш сон, ваше харчування та ваші звички до вправ.

These are all crucial to pay attention to Todos estos son cruciales para prestar atención a На все це важливо звернути увагу

because the part of your brain 뇌의 일부가 тому що частина вашого мозку

that handles executive functioning, que maneja el funcionamiento ejecutivo, qui gère le fonctionnement exécutif, 집행 기능을 처리하고 que lida com o funcionamento executivo, який керує виконавчою діяльністю, 处理执行功能,

the part that regulates your desires and you impulses, la parte que regula tus deseos y tus impulsos, a parte que regula seus desejos e seus impulsos, частина, яка регулює ваші бажання та імпульси,

requires a lot of energy and regular rest requiere mucha energía y descanso regular 많은 에너지와 규칙적인 휴식이 필요합니다 вимагає багато енергії та регулярного відпочинку

to function at peak levels. para funcionar a niveles máximos. pour fonctionner à des niveaux de pointe. 피크 레벨에서 작동합니다. para funcionar em níveis de pico. працювати на пікових рівнях.

Always remember that you are first and foremost Recuerde siempre que usted es ante todo Rappelez-vous toujours que vous êtes avant tout 항상 당신이 최우선임을 기억하십시오 Lembre-se sempre de que você é, em primeiro lugar Завжди пам’ятайте, що ви перш за все

a collection of biological systems, una colección de sistemas biológicos, 생물학적 시스템 모음 сукупність біологічних систем,

all of which require the right inputs todos los cuales requieren las entradas correctas qui nécessitent tous les bons apports 모두 올바른 입력이 필요합니다 todos os quais requerem as entradas corretas усі вони вимагають правильних вхідних даних 所有这些都需要正确的输入

if you wanna get the best outputs out of them. si desea obtener los mejores resultados de ellos. 최상의 결과를 얻으려면 se você quiser obter os melhores resultados deles. якщо ви хочете отримати від них найкращі результати.

And, I know, it's easy to picture the brain Et, je sais, c'est facile d'imaginer le cerveau 그리고 나는 뇌를 그리는 것이 쉽다는 것을 안다 І я знаю, мозок легко уявити

as separate from all of this, como separado de todo esto, 이 모든 것과 별도로 окремо від усього цього,

as existing in this metaphysical realm como existente en este reino metafísico comme existant dans ce domaine métaphysique 이 형이상학 적 영역에 존재하는 como existente neste domínio metafísico як існуюче в цьому метафізичному царстві 存在于这个形而上的领域

where the only needed fuel sources are motivation, donde las únicas fuentes de combustible necesarias son la motivación, où les seules sources de carburant nécessaires sont la motivation, 필요한 유일한 연료 원은 동기 부여, де єдиним джерелом палива є мотивація,

and determination, and wholesome memes. y determinación, y memes saludables. e determinação e memes saudáveis. ve kararlılık ve sağlıklı memler. і рішучість, і корисні меми.

But, the brain needs rest, and it needs exercise, 그러나 뇌에는 휴식이 필요하고 운동이 필요합니다. Але мозку потрібен відпочинок і тренування,

and it needs the right balance of nutrients 영양소의 적절한 균형이 필요합니다 і йому потрібен правильний баланс поживних речовин

just as the rest of your body does. como lo hace el resto de tu cuerpo. 몸의 나머지 부분과 마찬가지로. так само, як і решта вашого тіла.

So, if you're sleep deprived, Entonces, si tienes falta de sueño, 자, 수면이 부족하면 Então, se você estiver privado de sono,

which, judging from the amount of views on this video, que, a juzgar por la cantidad de vistas en este video, qui, à en juger par le nombre de vues sur cette vidéo, 이 동영상의 조회수로 판단하면 que, a julgar pela quantidade de visualizações neste vídeo, який, судячи з кількості переглядів цього відео, 从该视频的观看量来看,

you probably are, or you haven't gotten enough exercise probablemente lo estés o no hayas hecho suficiente ejercicio 당신은 아마, 또는 충분한 운동을하지 않은 você provavelmente é, ou não se exercitou o suficiente Ви, мабуть, так, або ви не отримали достатньо фізичних вправ

regularly, or your diet is crap, regularmente, o tu dieta es una mierda, 규칙적으로, 아니면식이 요법이 регулярно, або ваша дієта лайно,

that is where you should focus your discipline first. ahí es donde debes enfocar tu disciplina primero. 그것은 당신이 먼저 훈련에 집중해야하는 곳입니다. é aí que você deve focar sua disciplina primeiro. саме на цьому ви повинні в першу чергу зосередити свою дисципліну.

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And that brings us to our fifth item on the list Y eso nos lleva a nuestro quinto elemento de la lista. 그리고 그것은 우리를 목록의 다섯 번째 항목으로 가져옵니다.

and it pains me to say this one y me duele decir esto et ça me fait mal de dire celui-ci 이 말을 아프게 і мені боляче це говорити

because I personally hate doing it but, 개인적으로는 싫어하지만 тому що я особисто ненавиджу це робити, але,

you may wanna try meditation. es posible que desee probar la meditación. vous voudrez peut-être essayer la méditation. ви можете спробувати медитацію.

And the reason you might wanna do this Et la raison pour laquelle tu pourrais vouloir faire ça 그리고 당신이 이것을하고 싶어하는 이유

is that meditation has been shown scientifically es que la meditación ha sido demostrada científicamente 명상은 과학적으로 보여 졌다는 것입니다 é que a meditação foi demonstrada cientificamente полягає в тому, що медитація доведена науково 冥想已被科学证明

to help people improve their levels of self-discipline. щоб допомогти людям покращити рівень самодисципліни.

In fact, a 2013 study at Stanford University 실제로 스탠포드 대학교에서의 2013 년 연구

showed that people who went through compassion training, mostró que las personas que pasaron por el entrenamiento de la compasión, a montré que les personnes qui ont suivi une formation à la compassion, 연민 훈련을받은 사람들이 mostrou que pessoas que passaram por treinamento de compaixão, показали, що люди, які пройшли навчання співчуттю, 表明接受过同情心训练的人,

which was a specific meditation program, 특정 명상 프로그램이었습니다 que era um programa de meditação específico, яка була спеціальною програмою медитації,

were better able to regulate their emotions afterwards. fueron más capaces de regular sus emociones después. étaient mieux en mesure de réguler leurs émotions par la suite. 나중에 감정을 더 잘 조절할 수있었습니다. foram mais capazes de regular suas emoções depois. пізніше вони могли краще контролювати свої емоції. 事后能够更好地调节自己的情绪。

And this is crucial for remaining disciplined Y esto es crucial para permanecer disciplinado. Et c'est crucial pour rester discipliné 그리고 이것은 훈련 된 상태를 유지하는 데 중요합니다 E isso é crucial para permanecer disciplinado А це вкрай важливо для збереження дисципліни 这对于保持纪律至关重要

and being able to make rational decisions. y ser capaz de tomar decisiones racionales. 합리적인 결정을 내릴 수 있습니다. і здатність приймати раціональні рішення. 并能够做出理性的决定。

Now, an easy way to get started would be Ahora, una manera fácil de comenzar sería 이제 시작하는 쉬운 방법은 Agora, uma maneira fácil de começar seria

by using guided meditation, which you can use 안내 명상을 사용하면

through apps like Headspace and Calm,

or through many free videos here on YouTube. oa través de muchos videos gratuitos aquí en YouTube.

But the form of meditation that I've always practiced, Pero la forma de meditación que siempre he practicado, 하지만 항상 연습했던 명상의 형태는 Mas a forma de meditação que eu sempre pratiquei, Але форма медитації, яку я завжди практикував,

which I think is better for the development que creo que es mejor para el desarrollo 개발에 더 좋다고 생각합니다 o que eu acho melhor para o desenvolvimento що, на мою думку, краще для розвитку

of self-discipline specifically, 구체적으로 자기 훈련

is a form of what's called zazen meditation, es una forma de lo que se llama meditación zazen, 'Zazen 명상'의 한 형태입니다.

where I simply sit and concentrate on my breath 단순히 앉아서 숨에 집중하는 곳 де я просто сиджу і зосереджуюсь на диханні

with my eyes closed.

And when my attention is inevitably pulled away Y cuando mi atención se aleja inevitablemente Et quand mon attention est inévitablement détournée 그리고 내주의가 필연적으로 없어 질 때 E quando minha atenção é inevitavelmente desviada Ve kaçınılmaz olarak dikkatim çekildiğinde І коли моя увага неминуче відволікається

by a random thought, I work to notice that, 임의의 생각으로 나는 rastgele bir düşünceyle, bunu fark etmeye çalışıyorum, через випадкову думку, я працюю, щоб помітити, що,

and let that thought go, y deja ir ese pensamiento, et laisse tomber cette pensée, 그 생각을 놔주세요 e deixe esse pensamento ir, і відпусти цю думку,

and then bring my attention back to my breath. y luego llevar mi atención de nuevo a mi respiración. 그런 다음 다시주의를 환기시킵니다.

And doing this over the long term Y hacer esto a largo plazo E fazendo isso a longo prazo

has helped with both self-discipline and concentration. ha ayudado con la autodisciplina y la concentración. 자기 훈련과 집중에 도움이되었습니다. ajudou na autodisciplina e na concentração.

And like I said, I am not a huge fan of meditation, Y como dije, no soy un gran fanático de la meditación, 내가 말했듯이, 나는 큰 명상 팬이 아니에요

it's probably the self-development practice 아마도 자기 개발 관행 일 것입니다 provavelmente é a prática de autodesenvolvimento

that I hate doing the most, 내가 가장 많이하는 것을 싫어하고 що я найбільше ненавиджу робити,

but the benefits of doing so are undeniable. pero los beneficios de hacerlo son innegables. 그러나 그렇게하는 것의 이점은 부인할 수 없습니다. 但这样做的好处是不可否认的。

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And that brings us to our final item on the list, 그러면 목록의 마지막 항목으로 이동합니다. І це підводить нас до нашого останнього пункту в списку,

which is to practice building new habits. que es practicar la construcción de nuevos hábitos. 새로운 습관 만들기를 연습하는 것입니다. який полягає в тому, щоб практикувати формування нових звичок.

Now like I said earlier, building new habits 내가 앞서 말했듯이 새로운 습관을 쌓아 Тепер, як я вже говорив раніше, будуємо нові звички

is kind of a separate discipline in the overall pursuit es una especie de disciplina separada en la búsqueda general 전반적인 추구에서 별도의 징계입니다 é uma espécie de disciplina separada na busca geral є якоюсь окремою дисципліною в загальній гонитві

of changing your behavior. змінити свою поведінку.

But, the initial stages of building a new habit Pero, las etapas iniciales de la construcción de un nuevo hábito 그러나 새로운 습관을 쌓는 초기 단계 Але, початкові етапи формування нової звички

often require self-discipline, a menudo requieren autodisciplina, 종종 자기 훈련이 필요합니다. muitas vezes exigem autodisciplina, часто вимагають самодисципліни,

because the behavior isn't automatic yet. porque el comportamiento aún no es automático. 아직 자동 동작이 아니기 때문입니다. porque o comportamento ainda não é automático. оскільки поведінка ще не є автоматичною.

So, this can be a great way to, Entonces, esta puede ser una excelente manera de, 그래서 이것은 좋은 방법이 될 수 있습니다. Portanto, essa pode ser uma ótima maneira de,

not only establish a new habit, no solo establecer un nuevo hábito, 새로운 습관을 확립 할뿐만 아니라 não apenas estabelecer um novo hábito, не тільки створити нову звичку,

but become more disciplined in the process. 그 과정에서 더 훈련을받습니다.

Now, I've got an entire video on building new habits Ahora, tengo un video completo sobre la creación de nuevos hábitos. 이제 새로운 습관 만들기에 대한 전체 비디오가 있습니다.

coming up for you guys in the next couple of weeks, Próximamente para ustedes en las próximas dos semanas, 앞으로 몇 주 안에 여러분을 위해 chegando para vocês nas próximas semanas,

but until then, remember that for whatever habit pero hasta entonces, recuerda que por cualquier hábito mas até então, lembre-se disso por qualquer hábito але до тих пір пам'ятайте, що для будь-якої звички

you choose to build, start small, track your progress, usted elige construir, comenzar poco a poco, realizar un seguimiento de su progreso, 소규모로 시작하고 진행 상황을 추적하고 você escolhe construir, começar pequeno, acompanhar seu progresso, ви вирішили будувати, починати з малого, відстежувати свій прогрес, 你选择构建,从小事做起,跟踪你的进展,

maybe use an app like Habitica, or Strides, Habitica 또는 Strides와 같은 앱을 사용하거나 talvez use um aplicativo como o Habitica, ou Strides,

which is my current favorite one, or HabitBull on Android. 이것은 내가 현재 가장 좋아하는 것 또는 Android의 HabitBull입니다. який зараз є моїм улюбленим, або HabitBull на Android.

Celebrate your wins, and also remember to not focus 당신의 승리를 축하하고 또한 집중하지 않는 것을 기억하십시오 Celebre suas vitórias e lembre-se de não se concentrar Святкуйте свої перемоги, а також не забувайте не зосереджуватися

too much on purity, on perfect streaks. demasiado en la pureza, en vetas perfectas. 순도, 완벽한 줄무늬에 너무 많이. muito em pureza, em listras perfeitas. занадто багато на чистоті, на ідеальних смугах. 太注重纯洁、完美条纹。

Instead, focus on making sure that your trend En su lugar, concéntrese en asegurarse de que su tendencia 대신 트렌드를 확인하는 데 집중하십시오 Натомість зосередьтеся на тому, щоб переконатися, що ваш тренд

is going on an overall positive direction. va en una dirección positiva general. розвивається в загальному позитивному напрямку.

And remember that as it is doing that, Y recuerda que mientras lo hace, そして、それを行っていることを覚えておいてください。 그렇게하는 것을 기억하십시오. Ve bunu yaparken bunu unutmayın, І пам’ятайте, що коли він це робить,

and as that behavior is becoming more automatic, y a medida que ese comportamiento se vuelve más automático, 그리고 그 행동이 더욱 자동화되면서 і оскільки така поведінка стає все більш автоматичною,

your self-discipline is improving in the process. ваша самодисципліна покращується в процесі.

Now, if you've already taken care of Ahora, si ya te has ocupado de Agora, se você já cuidou de Тепер, якщо ви вже подбали про

those health fundamentals we talked about earlier, esos fundamentos de salud de los que hablamos antes, 앞서 말씀 드린 건강 기초, ті основи здоров’я, про які ми говорили раніше,

and you're looking for a new habit to sink your teeth into y estás buscando un nuevo hábito en el que hincarle el diente e você está procurando um novo hábito para afundar os dentes і ви шукаєте нову звичку, щоб впитися в зуби 你正在寻找一种新的习惯来坚持

and to get this process started with, y para comenzar este proceso, 이 과정을 시작하려면 і щоб розпочати цей процес,

then one that I might suggest would be taking on 次に、私が提案する可能性のあるものは、 내가 제안 할 수도있는 것은 тоді той, який я міг би запропонувати взяти на себе

an independent learning project 独立した学習プロジェクト 독립적 인 학습 프로젝트 незалежний навчальний проект

and putting some daily effort into learning something new. y poner un poco de esfuerzo diario en aprender algo nuevo. і щодня докладати зусиль, щоб дізнатися щось нове.

Perhaps, if you have the same interests that I do Tal vez, si tienes los mismos intereses que yo Можливо, якщо у вас ті ж інтереси, що й у мене

in the area of computer science and algorithms, в області інформатики та алгоритмів,

not only are these two topics incredibly fascinating, not only are these two topics incredibly fascinating, この 2 つのトピックは非常に魅力的であるだけでなく、 esses dois tópicos não são apenas incrivelmente fascinantes, не тільки ці дві теми неймовірно захоплюючі,

but if you happen to be the kind of person pero si resulta que eres el tipo de persona でももしあなたがそのような人だったら але якщо ти така людина

who wants to be web developer someday хто колись хоче стати веб-розробником

or wants to be a programmer, або хоче бути програмістом,

then learning these computer science fundamentals потім вивчати ці основи інформатики

can really give you a leg up on the competition. realmente puede darle una ventaja sobre la competencia. дійсно може дати вам перевагу в конкурентній боротьбі.

And, if you're looking for a good place to get started, E, se você está procurando um bom lugar para começar, І якщо ви шукаєте хороше місце для початку,

then you should check out the computer science courses entonces deberías revisar los cursos de informática то вам варто переглянути курси інформатики

over on Brilliant. en Brilliant. acabou em Brilhante. на Brilliant.

Brilliant is a fantastic learning platform

for anyone wanting to learn math, science,

and yes, computer science, much more effectively

and much faster than they normally would. y mucho más rápido de lo que normalmente lo harían.

This is because Brilliant takes

an incredibly active approach to learning. un enfoque increíblemente activo para el aprendizaje.

Instead of just passively delivering material En lugar de solo entregar material pasivamente Em vez de apenas entregar passivamente material

like in a lecture, they immediately throw you como en una conferencia, inmediatamente te tiran como em uma palestra, eles imediatamente jogam você

into challenging problems that keep your interest high

and give you something to apply your current skill set to y darle algo para aplicar su conjunto de habilidades actual

right from the get-go. desde el principio. desde o início.

Now, with this approach, Ahora, con este enfoque, Agora, com essa abordagem,

you are going to get stuck sometimes. te vas a quedar atascado a veces. você vai ficar preso às vezes.

Like I got stuck with the sorting algorithms part Me quedé atascado con la parte de los algoritmos de clasificación Como eu fiquei preso com a parte dos algoritmos de classificação

in their computer science algorithms course.

But, when you find yourself in that stuck situation, Mas, quando você se encontra nessa situação presa, Але коли ти опиняєшся в цій безвихідній ситуації,

they do have this incredibly detailed wiki tienen esta wiki increíblemente detallada eles têm este wiki incrivelmente detalhado вони дійсно мають цю неймовірно детальну вікі

where you can go look at example problems куди ви можете звернутися, подивитись приклади проблем

and detailed explanations of all the concepts

within their courses. dentro de sus cursos.

And once you've done that, you can then go back Y una vez que hayas hecho eso, puedes volver E depois de fazer isso, você pode voltar

to those problems armed with new knowledge and solve them. до тих проблем, озброївшись новими знаннями та вирішуючи їх.

And the best part is, while you're doing this, Y la mejor parte es que, mientras haces esto, І найкраще те, що поки ви це робите,

while you're solving these problems,

in their computer science courses

or maybe in their calculus course

or their course on classical physics, або їхній курс класичної фізики,

you're not just getting better at solving problems você não está apenas melhorando na resolução de problemas ви не просто стаєте кращими у вирішенні проблем

within that one topical area that you're focused on, nessa área tópica em que você está focado, в одній тематичній сфері, на якій ви зосереджені,

you're becoming a better problem solver in general. você está se tornando um melhor solucionador de problemas em geral.

So, if you wanna start improving your analytical

and creative problem-solving skills across the board e habilidades criativas de resolução de problemas em geral та творчі навички вирішення проблем у всіх сферах

and start learning something new,

then you should go over to Brilliant.org/ThomasFrank entonces deberías ir a Brilliant.org/ThomasFrank

and sign up to start learning for free today. і зареєструйтеся, щоб почати навчатися безкоштовно вже сьогодні.

And if you're one of the first 83 people to sign up Y si eres una de las primeras 83 personas en registrarse І якщо ви один із перших 83 людей, які зареєструвалися

with that link, you're also gonna get 20% off за цим посиланням ви також отримаєте знижку 20%.

their annual premium subscription. річну преміум-підписку.

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and I will see you in the next one. і я побачу тебе в наступному.