How to Trick Your Brain to Like Doing Hard Things – Atomic Habits by J... (3)
worse when i don't work out any better
when i do
now at no point was i trying to build
better nutrition habits
or better focus or better sleep habits
or improved energy
but all those things happen as a side
effect as a result of the one keystone
habit
some other common examples of keystone
habits ceos will often talk about their
daily meditation habit
they get 10 or 20 minutes of meditation
in then the rest of their day flows more
smoothly
artists really being on a daily walk
there are tons of famous artists there's
a great book called daily rituals
that talks about the habits and
behaviors of many famous artists and
scientists
and it's interesting how many of them
had a daily walk as part of their
routine
but these are some examples of if you
just do this one behavior
you can trust that it will ripple into
other areas of your personal and
professional
life
the basic idea here that i want to share
with you is this idea of designing for
laziness
so bj fogg the professor from stanford
university he likes popcorn he enjoys
eating popcorn he just didn't want to
eat that much of it
and so he took the popcorn out of his
kitchen walked down the hallway and into
the storage room into his garage
climbed up on a ladder and put the
popcorn on the highest shelf
in the garage now if he really wants to
eat it
he can just go out and get it it's only
going to take 60 seconds
but if he's designing for his lazy
decision for his default action
he's not going to go get the popcorn and
so the idea is
how can we design the spaces we live in
and the places we work
so that the default action the lazy
behavior is a better choice
the key idea is that i've never seen a
person consistently stick to positive
habits in a negative environment
if you're trying to fight the
environment that you live and work in
all the time
it's going to be very very hard to stick
with the things that are important to
you
jerry seinfeld very famous comedian in
the u.s
he was on tour doing a comedy tour and
there was a young comic
named brad isaac who was opening for
seinfeld on stage that night
and he caught seinfeld backstage before
the show he said mr seinfeld
you know i'm an aspiring comic i'm a
young comic what tips do you have for a
young comic on how to succeed
and seinfeld thought for a minute he
said well the secret to being a better
comic is to write better jokes
and the secret to writing better jokes
is to write every day
so here's what you should do get a wall
calendar
where you can see every day of the month
and the year mapped out
on one page then each day that you stick
to your behavior
of writing for 10 minutes or 15 minutes
writing jokes
i want you to put an x on that day at
the beginning you'll do it every now and
then but eventually at some point you're
gonna get a string going
five six seven eight nine days in a row
you'll have a chain
and at that point your only goal becomes
don't break the chain
it doesn't matter how good or how bad
the behavior is it doesn't matter
whether the writing makes it into the
performance that you do it doesn't
matter how you feel about the jokes
all that matters is that you stick to
the behavior and this idea
that sticking to the things that we want
to measure over a consistent basis
is what makes the biggest difference is
something that i think
ties into the point i tried to make at
the very beginning of this which is that
one percent gains
when aggregated add up to very
significant results in the long run
you