LJILJANA w CLIFF #3.1
Today Ljiljana and I started to talk about music, but we took one heck of a detour on that when we started to talk a little bit about singing. I found out that Ljiljana had been involved with with a boyfriend who was quite accomplished in music, was good at it, but he was also brutally honest about what he thought her abilities were and she told me she was a terrible singer, but more importantly she told me that her ex-boyfriend said that she actually had anti talent. That was harsh. She asked him at one point to teach her to play the synthesizer and his response was that that also was not something that they would be doing because she did not have the natural aptitude for that. And then I was floored to hear that he would actually say that in front of other people, but it was as a joke. However we did we did hit a point where she said that though she had been hearing this for a while, she personally doesn't think she's terrible.