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Lesson to study, 8 Attractive Things You Do But Don't Realize

8 Attractive Things You Do But Don't Realize

- [Narrator] Do you think that beauty is the only thing

that makes people attractive?

For a lot of us,

it takes more than a pretty face

or dashing good looks to win us over.

It takes a kind heart, a beautiful mind,

and a genuine soul to make us fall in love with someone.

But while we are admiring these qualities in others,

we may end up forgetting that we have these qualities too.

We can oftentimes be unaware or dismissive

of all of our best traits and qualities.

To remind you that you're beautiful,

here are eight attractive things you might be doing,

but don't notice.

Number one, you smile a lot.

Do people see you as a warm and friendly person?

Are you always quick with a smile

or a hello to brighten someone's day?

While it might not seem like much to you,

that smile can catch other people's eyes

and put them in a good mood.

It makes a good impression,

and it shows other people that you are a happy person

who finds joy in everyday things.

And what's more attractive

than someone who has a positive, inviting energy?

Number two. You take care of your appearance.

Even if you might not be the best dressed

or best looking person you know,

what matters most to other people

is that you take care of your appearance.

It's the little things that make a big difference,

like freshly manicured nails, a well-put-together outfit

or a neat and tidy hairstyle,

because it's not about how trendy

or expensive your clothes are

or about what brands you're wearing.

What people find attractive is the way you carry yourself

with poise, confidence, and good grooming.

Number three, you talk about your hobbies.

Do you have a hobby that you love

or a favorite pastime you talk about with your friends?

Whether it's gardening, gaming, designing, painting

reading, music, dancing, or playing sports,

people will always find you more attractive

when you have something you're passionate about

and which you're not afraid to share.

So keep this in mind

next time you wanna impress your crush.

It probably won't take much more

than being your genuine and true self,

which includes talking to them about your hobbies

and favorite things to do.

Number four, you think before you speak.

There are few things that make someone more unattractive

than being a gossip

and getting your foot stuck in your mouth.

Imagine the person you've admired from afar for so long

finally strikes up a conversation with you

and you end up saying something stupid.

It can be a real turnoff sometimes.

People who are careful to think before they speak,

on the other hand, come off as more intelligent, mysterious,

sensitive, and sophisticated.

You say just enough to pique their interest.

So they'll want to engage more with you.

Number five, you're a good listener.

Similar to the last point,

being a good listener is a quality

a lot of people find attractive,

especially in a world where it seems like

everyone is always trying to give

their two cents about everything.

There's something nice and refreshing

about someone who doesn't just listen to respond

or who isn't just waiting for their turn to talk.

Being a good listener

makes the people you're talking to feel more validated,

appreciated, and attended to.

It shows them that unlike a lot of people out there,

you're not just preoccupied with yourself

but care about other people too.

You are a giving and empathetic person,

and this can make you more attractive than you think.

Number six, you easily make friends.

Another thing you may do that you might not realize

makes you more attractive to other people

is your easy ability to converse and make friends.

After all, who wouldn't be attracted to someone

who makes everyone else

just naturally gravitate towards them.

Warm, friendly, and easy to get along with,

people will no doubt find you more attractive

the more likable you make yourself seem.

Number seven, you take care of others.

Are you always there for people you care about?

A true and generous friend,

you take care of your friends when they're not feeling well,

cheer them up when they're down,

and support them through everything.

Loyalty like that is hard to come by.

And that's what makes you so attractive.

You give so much of yourself,

your time, energy, and attention

so freely that the people around you can't help

but feel lucky to know you and have you in their lives.

And number eight, you compliment others.

Finally, but perhaps most importantly,

there's nothing more attractive

than someone who makes other people feel attractive too.

Saying kind words and giving compliments

can warm everyone's hearts, and lets them know

that they can always turn to you for comfort or support

when the going gets tough.

And you know what's most attractive of all?

That you don't buy into the misguided idea

that we should all be competing with each other

and that you need to push other people down

just to raise yourself up.

So kindness is by far the most attractive quality of all.

Have you started to realize

that you are more attractive than you think?

Let us know in the comments below.

If you found this video helpful,

be sure to like, subscribe, and share this video

with those who might benefit from it.

And don't forget to hit the notification bell icon

to get notified whenever Psych2Go post a new video.

The references and studies used in this video

are added in the description below.

Thanks for watching and see you in our next video


8 Attractive Things You Do But Don't Realize

**- [Narrator] Do you think that beauty is the only thing**

that makes people attractive?

For a lot of us,

it takes more than a pretty face

or dashing good looks to win us over.

It takes a kind heart, a beautiful mind,

and a genuine soul to make us fall in love with someone.

But while we are admiring these qualities in others,

we may end up forgetting that we have these qualities too.

We can oftentimes be unaware or dismissive

of all of our best traits and qualities.

**To remind you that you're beautiful,**

here are eight attractive things you might be doing,

but don't notice.

Number one, you smile a lot.

Do people see you as a warm and friendly person?

Are you always quick with a smile

or a hello to brighten someone's day?

While it might not seem like much to you,

that smile can catch other people's eyes

and put them in a good mood.

It makes a good impression,

and it shows other people that you are a happy person

who finds joy in everyday things.

And what's more attractive

than someone who has a positive, inviting energy?

Number two. You take care of your appearance.

Even if you might not be the best dressed

or best looking person you know,

what matters most to other people

is that you take care of your appearance.

It's the little things that make a big difference,

like freshly manicured nails, a well-put-together outfit

or a neat and tidy hairstyle,

because it's not about how trendy

or expensive your clothes are

or about what brands you're wearing.

What people find attractive is the way you carry yourself

with poise, confidence, and good grooming.

Number three, you talk about your hobbies.

Do you have a hobby that you love

or a favorite pastime you talk about with your friends?

Whether it's gardening, gaming, designing, painting

reading, music, dancing, or playing sports,

people will always find you more attractive

when you have something you're passionate about

and which you're not afraid to share.

So keep this in mind

next time you wanna impress your crush.

It probably won't take much more

than being your genuine and true self,

which includes talking to them about your hobbies

and favorite things to do.

Number four, you think before you speak.

There are few things that make someone more unattractive

than being a gossip

and getting your foot stuck in your mouth.

Imagine the person you've admired from afar for so long

finally strikes up a conversation with you

and you end up saying something stupid.

It can be a real turnoff sometimes.

People who are careful to think before they speak,

on the other hand, come off as more intelligent, mysterious,

sensitive, and sophisticated.

You say just enough to pique their interest.

So they'll want to engage more with you.

Number five, you're a good listener.

Similar to the last point,

being a good listener is a quality

a lot of people find attractive,

especially in a world where it seems like

everyone is always trying to give

their two cents about everything.

There's something nice and refreshing

about someone who doesn't just listen to respond

or who isn't just waiting for their turn to talk.

Being a good listener

makes the people you're talking to feel more validated,

appreciated, and attended to.

It shows them that unlike a lot of people out there,

you're not just preoccupied with yourself

but care about other people too.

You are a giving and empathetic person,

and this can make you more attractive than you think.

Number six, you easily make friends.

Another thing you may do that you might not realize

makes you more attractive to other people

is your easy ability to converse and make friends.

After all, who wouldn't be attracted to someone

who makes everyone else

just naturally gravitate towards them.

Warm, friendly, and easy to get along with,

people will no doubt find you more attractive

the more likable you make yourself seem.

Number seven, you take care of others.

Are you always there for people you care about?

A true and generous friend,

you take care of your friends when they're not feeling well,

cheer them up when they're down,

and support them through everything.

Loyalty like that is hard to come by.

And that's what makes you so attractive.

You give so much of yourself,

your time, energy, and attention

so freely that the people around you can't help

but feel lucky to know you and have you in their lives.

And number eight, you compliment others.

Finally, but perhaps most importantly,

there's nothing more attractive

than someone who makes other people feel attractive too.

Saying kind words and giving compliments

can warm everyone's hearts, and lets them know

that they can always turn to you for comfort or support

when the going gets tough.

And you know what's most attractive of all?

That you don't buy into the misguided idea

that we should all be competing with each other

and that you need to push other people down

just to raise yourself up.

So kindness is by far the most attractive quality of all.

Have you started to realize

that you are more attractive than you think?

Let us know in the comments below.

If you found this video helpful,

be sure to like, subscribe, and share this video

with those who might benefit from it.

And don't forget to hit the notification bell icon

to get notified whenever Psych2Go post a new video.

The references and studies used in this video

are added in the description below.

**Thanks for watching and see you in our next video**